Date men and women from California, United States. About me and who I am looking for:
To be completely honest, the last few years haven’t been the easiest. I’ve battled with my weight, almost got put on blood pressure medication, and most recently, was blown off my feet by the death of my beloved wife of 34 years, earlier this year. It’s been tough, but, with the tremendous help of my friends and family, I think I’m finally starting to see the light at the end of tunnel and am ready to start moving on. In fact, 85 lbs lighter, I feel better than I have in nearly 20 years and I'm thrilled to see where this next chapter will take me.
As far as my personality goes, I've been accused of being a gentleman on more than one occasion. While I do consider myself a strong man, I'm still very sensitive, generous, and genuinely eager to help anyone who needs it. I have a family (2 sons and 9 grandkids) that means the world to me and I'm not afraid to work hard for them or what I believe in. I have several side business, including a vineyard and a home-building venture, both of which I can't wait to invest more time in once I retire. Finally, I like to think I have a pretty creative mind: I'm a great handyman and a nice dresser, if I do say so myself.
When it comes to my potential partner, I don’t have some long list she has to fit. Ultimately, I want a friend first and a serious relationship second. I need a "lady" who's full of energy, loves life, and is anything but high maintenance (though she has no problem being spoiled every once in a while). She's someone with whom I know I can live a life of love, laughter, and no regrets.