Date men and women from United States / California / Templeton, 43 year old

Date people from California, United States. My two kids (ages 11 and 7) are the most important thing in my life. I also own my own company and then am very committed to taking dance classes. My profile says separated but divorce is close (i can feel it, haha) hopefully by August?
I am grateful to be where I am, free and independent. I am generous, kind and thoughtful, and feel pained at the idea of hurting anyone's feelings. I am honest, like to laugh, and have been told I am funny. I am reserved at first with people.
Guys that attract me are smart, funny, kind, considerate and polite. I am a physical person and love to be outside, great if you do, too. I am a big reader (lit major) and meeting some one who loves reading would be great. I also love to travel and would say yes to any trip, work/kids permitting. I am spontaneous and don't mind deciding on a trip and leaving within a few hours. Lost luggage, bad weather, crazy hotels that feel like prison cells (I am remembering a trip around Cuba here) - it is all the adventure and what you make of it. I don't want to be with a whiner who can't deal. :-)'
I am not religious. This runs in my family. ;)
Am I always happy? No, and if you claim that in your profile, I am suspicious.