Date men and women from United States / California / Temple City, 42 year old

Date someone special from Temple City, United States. If you don't have a photo, Please move on! If you are afraid to have your photo up here, I believe there are sure some issues.
Plus, no one would shop anything online without some detail photos! Lol
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Honestly, I don't want to used fake age. But after put up my real age 46 for a while, I noticed at least over 65% of the traffics come to my profile are age group at late 50s to late 60s. I really don't think this is what I am here for. I guess the smarter way to dealing with the computer system, to lower down a few years might help a little, I hope! But, I will have to experiment it and see what happens. At least I don't look older than what I claimed. No, I don't need a judge, I know how I look!
Yes, I am confident, independent and I work hard. I live a normal life, and seek a stable relationship and hope to lead a happy life ahead. I work as a clothing designer and my work does leave me a little stress from time to time, which I really wish I can find a soul mate to come home for, share life with, go out with on the weekends, and to make life feel a bit better other than just work. As a designer, I am creative and do believe ones appearance represents the person in many different ways, also shows the repect to one self and others. I like to take good care of myself and do look for my mate does the same. And yes, Chemistry is for sure need to be there.
I am straightforward type, do speak out my mind, opinions and feelings, can be picky in someways, yet also very down to earth, sensitive and sweet in person. Quick wit and able to laugh about myself. I am also a curious person and love to learn; l do like to get out and see places, but still need some help to have a guide or company.
It is easy to write a profile sweet and fake, but you will never read a true person. If you think being straightforward and confident are equare to angry, I really can't help as we sure have different views!
Oh, and sorry, I am very sensitive to someone who smokes. Even very little cigar, I will smell it. So it won't work!
I am looking for someone compatible both in physical appearance and mental values and believes, as well as strong emotional connections.
I am in searching for a man that I can look up to. A men who is educated, strong and has traditional values; who knows how to take good care of himself, physically fit (please DON'T define yourself fit if you have a big belly); Be sweet and gentle, understanding and communicable; sincere, honest, confident, and yet, sense of humor and able to laugh would add a lot on to it.
Most of all, I think I am looking for a man that has the similar values as I have.
Sorry, I am only attract to White (non Hispanic) and east Asian based on culture back ground and personal attractions. And within my age range Please!. (If you don't want to date a grandma, I don't think I am looking an uncle. Seriously!)
Note: all my photos are resent and accurate. And I am real person for real. So please be the same.
Extra Note: If you are still in a relationship/marriage; or live in your past, please don't waste others time and emotion. If you are at this stage, I am not for you.
To Contact me, please must be emotionally 100% stable and available.