Date single man from United States. Friendly and relaxed, I can be both reserved and sometimes gregarious, thoughtful and reflective. I have a creative and spontaneous sense of humor.
I am good at making people feel comfortable as I am comfortable in new situations.
I value my friendships and I invest time in them. I love learning about people from different cultures and my friends also reflect that fact.
I like looking for new adventures and interesting experiences, and I like to bring my friends “along for the ride” as they say. It might be a new recipe for guacamole or a new mom n' pop ethnic restaurant with great food, or it could be some not-yet-discovered hideaway place up the Central Coast worth exploring.
Over the past six years I have spent a lot of time and energy developing my spiritual life. I have discovered that God is knowable in part, yet still mysterious; that God is present, yet he is transcendent as well; and finally that God is just, yet merciful.
I think the most important thing I have learned spiritually is to always lead by giving Grace first.
And, I also realize that God is control, not me.
I am looking for a companion.
Someone, who like me, values transparency, authenticity, and above all, humility.
A woman who I can confide in, who shares similar interests and values.
Someone from whose own life experiences I can also learn from.
Someone who desires to share conversation on subjects of the mind and of the emotions.
A woman who sees life as an adventure to be experienced first hand.
A woman who has a playful side, both verbally and physically!
I think having a good sense of humor is so important to making it through life, the ability to see humor throughout the inevitable difficulties of life and relationship. A woman with a good sense of humor will always catch my attention!
I am also attracted to a women who have a sense of perspective about their own life, who is at peace with what she has accomplished in life, as well as with the things that maybe did not turn out exactly as she had planned.
A woman who takes care of herself emotionally, physically, and spiritually.
She likes being feminine, and values her femininity. I am somewhat traditional in my approach, so I enjoy pampering and spoiling the woman.
So the question is, are your bags packed and are you ready to go?
Meet a man from United States. I am a genuine nice guy, and I am told sometimes too nice. I believe a relationship should be based on respect and cemented with complicity. I am a professional who loves to laugh, learn new things, and be outdoors. Humor is not only necessary for good digestion, it is required of any friend of mine. I believe sillyness is spiritually uplifting. Reading is fun, Surfing is fun. Water skiing is fun, discovering some new idea or bit of trivia on the internet is fun. If you like to have fun*, write me. (*Fun not limited to the above mentioned items) . And: .
Date someone special from United States. Life is to savor. I don't want to miss opportunites to experience LIFE - people and places. I was lucky to be able to work as a bush pilot in community development in Colombia. Now, on a different path as a clinical psychologist, clinic with interns for victims of crime, but mostly in forensics/court evaluations which are never boring. The people around me outside of work would not guess that I’m a shrink – just a regular guy – a fellow traveler …
Love music. Have played bass for years since I bought my first at 18 at a hock shop in Chicago. Southern rock, jazz, blues, and especially worship is great fun. Love being active. A friend just built me a serious road bike … hiking, snow and water skiing, scuba diving. I still fly occasionally, and love aerobatics when I get the itch.
To be honest, I love the Lord, and care greatly about His Kingdom. That translates to helping out in third world countries…helping build an orphanage in Uganda, helping networking to translate into Arabic what is called Transformations, that changes places around the world as people and The Church seriously look for God to show up and change things (cf. Colombia from the mid 90’s to present renaissance, Chiapas Mexico, Uganda etc.) To me, its like Pascal said with his wager. So you get to live life in a very satisfying rewarding way, but with an eye on the world to come. I’m not a fanatic. Don’t talk about it much, but when thinking about finding a soul mate, there has to be an openness.
I’m looking for a like minded woman, who is strong but kind, open to new ideas and adventures, kids, experiences, people, travel. To enjoy each others presence more than all the rest. To enhance each other, helping the other reach individual and joint goals, becoming more a part of each other as time goes by…