Date a man from California, United States. I"m in the process of taking my life back. I was married and had 2 children at an early age. I spent the next 30 plus years caring and doing for others. Now I find myself taking care of myself. About a year ago I was laied off from a large construction company. I made six figures as a project manager/superintendent. Company truck, gas credit card, 401, all the perks. I knew the economy was not going to supprot that employment any longer. I decided to advetise in the local community for a contractor/carpenter/handyman. This worked out great! I started working with my tools again. I had no idea how much I missed working with my hands as a builder. I lost 45 pounds, do not set an alarm clock, and have almost no stress! WOW All of this started me on a journey to take my life back. I have seperated and in the process of divorce. I hike 2-3 miles a day, live in a great A frame cabin in Shaver, work when I want, and enjoy the things I love. Now I just need someone to share that with me. Yes there are hard days, however my commitment to enjoying life again will not be compromised!