Date men and women from Shadow Hills, United States. If I had to use just one word to describe me, I think I'd say "interested". That would apply to things like life in general, spiritual things, communication, improving things, eating healthy, keeping physically fit, having and maintaining a close, very special relationship, and art and science in particular.
A few phrases that would probably describe me well would be "willing and able to learn", "willing and able to share", "willing and able to communicate", "willing and able to be open and honest about things".
I'm pretty smart and creative, but I can be downright dumb sometimes with the most obvious thing (obvious to others, anyway). But just point it out to me, and my blindness turns to light. I learn easily. I don't stay dumb long.
I self-correct when I'm wrong. Not interested in making you wrong. I'd rather concentrate on what's right about things, making things go right.
I handle change easily, I don't get upset about much or for very long, don't dwell on problems when it's just as easy to find solutions, and I don't practice the fine art of making mountains out of mole hills.
I really like femininity in a woman. Not the over-the-top girly-girl thing with mile-long sculptured fingernails, but just some sort of almost undefinable elegant "wow, that's really nice" thing. Maybe I can't really describe it well, but I know it when I see it. It's some sort of a special aesthetic that only certain women posses. It manifests in many ways --- from the particular way she dresses and carries herself to the special attention she pays to her man's needs and wants. I guess it's a certain natural feminine style and grace that pleases me the most. I just like being around someone who posses these qualities. When it's right, it's hand and glovesville in the relationship department.
My girl is also interested in life and the living of it. She's not a material girl, but that doesn't mean she doesn't appreciate nice things, that she doesn't take care of her stuff, or that she's into "saving every last dime". She's not into spending every last dime either or going into debt to have things. She's just not heavy into money and things for their own sake. She knows they're merely tools and props in the game of life, sometimes important and sometimes not, and that people and interpersonal relationships will always be senior to "things". She's a spiritually aware person, not into religious dogma. Real truth, to her (and to me), is more important than maintaining some kind of fixed system of beliefs.
Not interested in a relationship that requires steam shoves, bulldozers and cranes, baling wire and duct tape to keep it together --- i.e., "It will take a lot of hard work and years of therapy sessions with Dr. Phil to make this relationship work, but we CAN make it happen!!!" I'm looking for a good natural fit with someone I can like, admire and fall in love with easily, and who can reciprocate.
Physically, I admire natural beauty and I'm usually more attracted to women on the thinner side rather than on the heavier side, younger looking rather than older looking, naturally healthy rather than medicating and running from one doctor to another. I definitely have adverse reactions to psychos and women who tend to freak out when things don't go perfectly for a minute or two.
Ultimately, I'll do almost anything to earn a hardy laugh or a sweet loving smile from my girl.