Date men and women from United States / California / Santa Monica, 90 year old

Date a woman from United States. (Any D3 players out there?)
The quick rundown: Personality=9; Brains=8; Looks=6-7 (but that's subjective, I know - I'm not photogenic and everyone tells me I'm MUCH cuter in real life...I'm "cute" but not "hot").
I'm nowhere near perfect, but I will say - I'm better than most of the girls from Cali around here (cuz I'm from texas, haha)! If you're looking for the typical air-headed materialistic asian girl, I'm not her. I'm actually kind and intelligent.
My temperament is very patient, stable responsible; I believe in moderation, brutal honesty and LOTS of laughter. I'm sweet, playful, low-maintenance, girly but a bit of a tomboy and I make friends everywhere I go. =) I enjoy my career (I'm a unix sys admin), but it does mean I'm a geek most of the time. Mostly, I'm like frosted mini wheats. Remember that commercial?
I've backpacked on my own (I'm very independent, although I did wish I had someone special with me that I could rely on and feel safer around). I've been to Israel, Belgium, France, Singapore, Vietnam, Cambodia, Thailand Malasia. I believe in preparation, but am usually unstructured so I do most things on the fly, but I do it well, hehe!
Someone once asked me what I was looking for. This is my answer:
Dating (especially online dating) is like playing the lottery.
Most are duds. Then there are the small medium prizes to keep you hopeful.
But we're all looking for that big winning ticket, and the chances of us finding it, are, well...like winning the lottery!
This example is ironic for me, since I never actually play the lottery in real life, lol.
I am looking for my equal, my partner, and dare I say it, my soulmate.