Date men and women from United States / California / Santa Monica, 42 year old

Date a man from Santa Monica, United States. I grew up in a small city in the midwest and never really thought it was for me. So I've spent all my time since college trying to see as much of the world as possible, and I've never looked back. I've been in LA about 12 years, but have lived in many countries and cites around the world. I even picked up a couple languages along the way! Big accomplishment for a midwestern boy. My work allows me to travel, so that keeps me from wanting to move all the time.
I design stuff for a living, something my high school guidance counseler neglected to tell me you could do. I've worked in many companies you will have heard of- maybe you even own something I designed! Anyway, it sure is nice to get paid to draw.
I don't have a type. When I look through pictures of ex-girlfriends, I'm amazed at how different they are. Someone with an open mind and a natural curiousity about things would be nice.

Meet someone special from Santa Monica, United States. What fires me up...
A day filled with outdoor play, an evening cozied up to a roaring fire, savoring a meal that's been cooked to perfection, or sipping on a great Pinot...heaven.
You'll find me hiking a hillside trail in turquoise tank-top and drinking in the sweeping ocean view below, frolicking in a soft pink cashmere sweater at the beach as the sun goes down, or in a shimmering red silky dress while perusing the menu of the latest gastronomic hot spot.
From stilettos to running shoes (or flip-flops!) I'm all about the adventure....travel, food and wine fuel my passion for living.
I prefer swimming in a red bikini in the ocean to paddling in a lake, relaxing at a lush vineyard to an arid desert, and basking in the glow of a blazing bonfire to a candle!
I'm ready for an epic romance that sparks an eternal flame, and a magnificent marriage.
You are passionate and happy, grounded and secure, sincere and reliable, dedicated and kind, and are ready for the kind of fiery emotional spark that ignites a lifelong love.
And if you want to wake up every day blissfully happy next to someone who already loves her life, but even more so with you as a part of it - then as Jim Morrison would say, "Come on baby...."

Date men and women from Santa Monica, United States. If I could eat and laugh for a living I would in a heartbeat (working on it)! I'm nerdy and spirited. Def a foodie from the fanciest meal to the tastiest cheap rib basket. I hail from Texas but have been a Cali girl for nearly 15 years mixed in with a few years spent in NYC.
My life is pretty much about the arts, bike riding, amazing culinary treats, soaking up nature, great conversation and above all great laughs! I'm definitely a liberal and an environmentalist. I love to generally experience new things. There's little that makes me happier than sharing an amazing meal with good wine and great people!
Most people take me for much much younger physically and in spirit. Open and honest communication is super hot. I'll always verbalize what I want and what I think so if you can't offer the same or don't want to hear it we're not likely to get on. SInce we over 40 gals can get a bad rap I'll throw out there that my biological clock is entirely under control. I don't care to birth any kiddies and I'm not on a fast track to wed. I'd much rather enjoy a simple tasty bite or bev and great conversation and giggles with the right person and take it from there! The best part is the journey, not the finish line.
When I'm on the job I work long days and love to play and lounge just as much. I'm self sufficient, extremely capable, handy and generally there's little I can't accomplish when I set my mind to it. I try to live an abundant life everyday, want to see the parts of the world I've never been to yet. I try to find the magic and adventure in everything be it big or the littlest tasks and try to approach everything I do with a great sense of humor!

Meet a soulmate from Santa Monica, United States. Well, where to start? I was born and bred in Texas. Surrounded by cowboys on one side and a huge Italian family on the other. Not Jersey Shore type of Italian, more like love you and feed you type of Italians. Although I have lived in LA for the past 16 years I'm very much a Texan at heart (minus the conservative politics). I have southern values and believe there is a nice way to say everything, do unto others, open a door for a lady and help a little old lady across the street....you get my point.
I have two teenage daughters who are my everything. I have been a single parent for the past 13 years and this experience has made me who I am today. I can face lifes challenges with an optimistic spirit, I don't shrink under pressure, learned to appreciate things large and small, gratitude and humor are always a go to place for me. Basically I think life is good...REALLY good!
Family means everything to me. I come from a huge extended Sicilian family and we are all extremely close. We welcome people with open arms...once you're in you're in. We love big and are extremely loyal to one another.
I spent my 20s as a ski bum in Colorado. I am an avid snowboarder and love to take a quick day trip up to the hill while my kids are at school. We take frequent trips to Mammoth, Tahoe and Colorado. I've spent the last 4 summers in Bali. It's probably one of my favorite places on earth. Hope to get to Europe again, Central America or Cuba soon....shhhhhhhh. Taking off on a road trip with no plan is always good.
I enjoy sports. I'm the one who will wake up at the crack of dawn to watch a soccer game at a pub and happily watch my kid kill it on the soccer field on the weekends.
I'm always up to learn a new sport and like to stay active. I'm not a gym person but would rather stay in shape doing something fun! A quick swim in the ocean is always good to get my heart pumping plus it clears the mind. I also enjoy stand up paddling and I've even tried trapeze classes!
I guess this is the time to say what I'm looking for....
Well I wrote a list of what I'm looking for. (girls are always told to write a list...so I wrote a list)
Here are a few: Kind, FUNNY, responsible, optimistic, affectionate, honest, loving, creative, good taste, love of family and love of travel. Being handy is a huge turn on for me...I'm not gonna lie. Don't worry, I'm not going to ask you to build me stuff and I'm not looking for a contractor. A man that can't put together a piece of Ikea furniture bums me out.
I was raised around cowboys so this stuff is important to me.

I know people are always saying things like no drama and no issues. We all have some sort of issues. I'm just looking for someone whose are not very big. My life is pretty mellow and I'd like to keep it that way.
ALSO.....If you have any pictures of you doing duckmouth or sideways peace sign you are NOT my guy.

Date people from Santa Monica, United States. My life has been driven by my passions, be it music, writing, films or love. I always follow my heart and do the "thing that excites me the most." I may fall down, but I always get back up, stronger and better than before.
I am a writer, photographer, and, on a bad day, a bartender.
I have two amazing teenagers that light my way.
I am looking for someone to compliment my life. I am happy on my own, but it would be a lot more fun with the person who just "gets me." I am most attracted to intelligence, humor, talent and authenticity. It doesn't hurt if you can sing.

Meet a woman from California, United States. Should I even bother writing something? I know you probably only check out the pictures. ;)
I'm a pretty easy going girl. I like living near the beach and the relaxed atmosphere. I stay active and usually do something everyday such as run, surf, yoga, etc. I try to stay fit and eat healthy. I love to cook, but lately my two favorite appliances in my kitchen are my Vitamix blender, Hurum juicer and my Nespresso machine. Still can't seem to kick the coffee habit, but I'm trying to switch to decaf and surprisingly it not that bad.
I love learning new things and consider myself a student for life. I have a ton of hobbies, interests, projects,etc. that keep me busy. I'm very creative, love to cook, bake, but sorry can't sew. Half of me is very domestic and the other half will spend all day surfing with my girlfriends, sweating it out in hot yoga and then swimming laps till I drop into deep sleep. I'm a morning person and love to see the sunrise, but usually make time for a nap later. I have an awesome job and work with great people! I work hard during the week, but it's worth it.
Hoping I can find a someone who has some similar interests, lives an active lifestyle, hopefully you surf too. I'm looking for a serious relationship, someone to grow old with and deal with life as it comes. My parents have been married for 50 years, so I know it can work if you try. It's all about communication, so reach out to me and write something to catch my attention. I know it's a dating website, but I'm still traditional when it comes to dating, so if you're waiting for me to wink or write don't hold your breath. Just be a man and do it already and write me a note!
If you have kids that's great too. I was adopted, so I know you can truly love kids that are not your own.
No smokers or drug users. Thanks! :)
Things to think about before contacting me:
- You must have a few photos of yourself, that are clear and current or I'll probably just delete your profile.
- If I wanted to see scenery shots I could Google them. Keep it to a minimum.
- If you don't have any photos up then don't bother me. You either lack confidence or your hiding from someone.
- If you travel a lot for work or live bi-coastal it's not gonna work out. I'm looking for someone that lives close.
- Hey boys, thanks for all the interest, but I'm not looking to date anyone in their 20's or early 30's.
- Please spare me the photos of you in your bathroom mirror or posing next to your car. I could care less.
- I think goatee's look weird, sorry just not into it.
- I have plenty of friends and I don't need a pen pal, so if you don't live close don't bother me.
- You wouldn't be caught dead in Ed Hardy or Affliction

Date someone special from California, United States. Hello! I hope to meet a thoughtful, intelligent, funny, sexy guy... who has found his passion and is enjoying life. I love what I do; I am very fortunate to say that. I have a loving and supportive family whose dysfunctionality provides endless entertainment. I have a diverse group of friends who are always game for something different. At the end of a long day, I enjoy sharing a nice glass of wine and cooking a healthy (sometimes decadent) meal. In my free time, I'll take a run, hit the SM steps, read a book, watch a movie, or meet friends at F.O. I don't have a T.V. right now but "Hulu" occasionally.
I would describe myself as attractive, intelligent and sensitive – a loyal friend and a good listener. I'm witty (I think). I love to giggle. I always say thank you and try to be considerate of others. I grew up with good values. I consider myself a well-rounded person. I believe “The Family Guy” was created by a genius.
I like to workout regularly. I am not a hardcore athlete, but I do enjoy a challenge. I have in the past completed a marathon (4:30:58), triathlon, and two 2.2 mile ocean swims.
And please note, I am very close with my sister who is gay, so if you have an ounce of homophobia --- piss off. Thank you.

Meet men and women from California, United States. I'm originally from the east coast, New York. I have been told that I am a good friend. I'm that girl that has your back, If you ask me to help out I'll be there with work boots on. :) I enjoy being outdoors. I also love being active, and trying new things. I am very comfortable in new situations and am easily adaptable to change. I have found that life is full of twists and turns and I try to make the most out of what life has put in my path.I love to travel and lived abroad for a number of years and speak a couple of languages and I like to use them.I am an old fashioned girl who truly believes that chivalry is not dead. I am hoping that In this age of technology that a guy isn't too shy to pick up the phone and call to ask me out :). I love going to the theatre as well as live music concerts,like The Greek or The Hollywood Bowl.I also enjoy musical theatre as well as the off off "Broadway plays" in Hollywood. I have also started on a more spiritual path then I had been before. I believe we all have a purpose in life and I am looking for mine. My journey has taken me back to college.I have had two successful careers, I was a fashion model for many years having the good fortune to have traveled all over the world and get paid to do it. In the last 10 years I got my real estate brokers license during a boom in the industry. Now I have decided to pursue a different path. I never completed college and I find myself a full time student. I hope one day to go to Law school .........we'll see...............:)
I work out regularly so I definitely want a guy thats cares about his health and takes care of how he looks.
I am looking for someone who is kind, honest and smart and above all a good sense of humor :)

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I have a busy business but always make time to stay close with my friends, work-out and stop and smell the roses. I'm not one to be on Facebook a lot of have conservations through text. I think it's important to be "present" with those you spend time with. I have a dog and cat and am a big animal lover. My friends describe me as silly yet serious and could be sometimes impatient. I'm the Dear Abby of the group of my friends and they call me for advice. I'm the girl next door, but with an edge. I like motorcycles, play poker but am a girlie girl.
About you? It doesnРІР‚в„ўt matter that you have tats or a motorcycle, kids, etc. For me, you being confident and have good character is a very sexy quality to me. PLEASE email me if you want to get to know me. Winks are lame. ; )

Meet people from California, United States. I am honest, extremely affectionate, fun, sensitive and looking for a best friend. I am straight forward, maybe sometimes too forward. Confident and know what I want and what I don't. I love the ocean, time with friends, good food, great wine. I have no children (not that I don't love them!) so I have the flexability to be very spontanious. I love working out, being healthy is super important, I hope to find that friend to workout with, hike, bike and travel with. But most of all someone to snuggle with!

Date a woman from United States. I guess I'm really ambitious, because my work has always been the biggest source of meaning in my life (besides friends & family), and by defining myself that way for so long I feel as though I kind of fell behind on the romance front...My brain was not even in that mind-space when normal (or conventional - however you want to see it) women were busy trying to get hitched. It is kind of odd considering my parents have been married for 43 years! However, I am optimistic that my soulmate is still out there, looking for me. I hope we find each other!!
I am an artist & I exhibit at galleries in the US & abroad (recently went to Cuba for a museum exhibition I was in there - the first time American art had been shown in Cuba in 35 years - pretty cool!!). I also teach art as an adjunct professor at a big university.
I like to talk and I also like to listen - esp to someone who is thoughtful and makes sense. I am bored by superficial & one-sided conversations. If you want a woman with her own opinions, I am your lady. However, I do not talk for the sake of talking - I also love silence & I like to be with someone where we can be silent together - not needing to always talk is a sign of real connection. I love to cook for people who appreciate food (I don't trust people who don't get at least a little excited by good food) - and I will make you love brussels sprouts if you think you don't (the secret is pancetta). I'm a joker and I love to laugh my ass off. My friend Remy complains her cheeks hurt when she hangs out with me. According to my parents I could do stand-up (but then again, can you ever trust your parents' opinion of you?).
Some qualities I can attest to having:
Compassion, honesty (I really can only tell the tiniest white lie), sharp wit, independence of thought, a little snobbery in the culture/taste dept, ambition, accomplishment, slow reading (wish I could read faster but my mind goes off in different directions incessantly), open-mindedness but staunch ethics, inability to throw a can or bottle in the trash without cringing (sometimes will carry an empty in my purse all day just to find a recycling recepticle), the desire to improve myself, grown & learn.
I'm looking for:
-someone with a great (i.e. silly and/or sly) sense of humor, emotional depth, and good core values. I am inot a conniver, manipulative, or sneaky, and I'd like my mate also to have integrity along those lines (I've been with the opposite & it's no picnic).
-someone who is down to go on hikes, picnic, travel, skinny dip in the Caribbean or a backyard pool, have the odd regrettably late night out. i.e. someone adventurous.
-someone who might like to go on an eat-and-drink-your-way-thru-Italy road trip
-someone who loves a wide range of music (I like stuff ranging from Iron & Wine to the Smiths, the Clash to Sigur Ros, LCD Soundsystem to Phoenix, Nina Simone to early Wutang Clan).
-someone who is interested in growing and going further with a supportive, passionate, and fun partner. Let's have fun & at the same time make each other feel safe & secure.
Turn-offs include arrogance, defensiveness (often comes in the form of sarcasm, too much of which is a sign of insecurity as far as I'm concerned), soul patches and bad shoes (obviously open to interpretation, so what I'm really saying is that stuff counts - & BTW, Chuck Taylors are great so it's not about how much you spend).
To be honest, after being on match for a good 7 months or so, I realize I cannot expect toI'll find my soulmate online (he probably isn't on this site...however, miracles do happen, so if you're him, let a sister know!) & therefore I've cancelled my membership & will be off in a few days...I believe that is Jan 14. So be in touch soon if the above sounds up your alley!

Meet someone special from United States. I am passionate about living a meaningful life that is full of adventure, family, love, laughter and joy.
I am looking for that intangible, deep connection that you really can't put it into words, a true partner in life. I hope that we both share a desire to make this world a better place because we're in it.
I have been lucky to have had the opportunity to travel and love it. I try to travel whenever I can both to visit friends/family and to explore new and old places. I also really enjoy taking advantage of living in southern California.
I could list a bunch of things here, like kindness, passion, humor, etc. but don't we all want those things? Really it comes down to that one thing that I can't define but without it there's nothing... chemistry. Well that and a really really good sense of humor.