Date men and women from United States / California / Santa Barbara, 80 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. I am two years widowed, and am quite ok with that. However I do miss a man's company and am looking for the occasional date. I am an independent woman with absolutely no baggage.
I am a caring person and a good listener. I am also an adventurous, fun loving gal.
The person I would love to find has some similar traits, a good sense of humor and is a gentleman that I would respect. Definately a non-smoker or uses foul language. I know he will be difficult to find simply because we are both very special people looking for a very special person.

Meet someone special from United States. I'm busy starting my own Publishing Company and printing my non-fiction books and Cartoon Character Missy Wisequacker.
I like everyone with music knowledge, preferably keyboards.
I've lived in Santa Barbara for 34 years. Before that I lived on many Army Posts here and abroad with my ex-husband an Army Pilot.
I've traveled the world. Japan, Europe, Hawaii, Puerto Rico, most all of the United States.