Date men and women from United States / California / Santa Barbara, 54 year old

Date people from Santa Barbara, United States. I think of myself as one who enjoys the simple things in life, not needing material “things” to make me happy. Life is about experiences and people. But that is not to say I don’t also appreciate a fine wine, or a moving piece of art, or magnificent architecture, or even a beautiful bouquet of flowers.
I enjoy getting to know people and understanding the nuances of what makes them tick. I can spend hours in quality conversation and diving deep into a story to explore its subtleties. Communication is very important to me and it's something I appreciate in others. I'm not afraid to talk about anything - assumptions are the bane of quality communication!
I’m one of those people that animals and children seem to like, which works well because I also enjoy them. I’m often found hanging out with the kids at a party. I like their freshness and sense of fun which helps me stay young at heart. My 13 year old son keeps me in touch with the younger generation, and he enjoys my tales of yesteryear. Honesty, trust and honor are important to me. Friends rely on me when they need a shoulder to lean on because they know I’m trustworthy, discreet, and I’ll provide frank and honest feedback.
I’m quick with a laugh, especially with dry or witty humor. I generally have a laid-back approach to life. I value a brain over a body, but being a man I’m certainly also visually oriented. I want to enjoy wonderful talks on a wide range of topics while I adore my partner’s beautiful face, and gaze deeply into her eyes. And don’t get me started about kissing! Which leads me to my relationship status. Yes, I’m separated and working towards the big D. As life goes on, I feel that I’ve learned more and more with respect to knowing what I want, and don’t want, in a partner. Pretty simple really…. Someone who values, trusts, appreciates and loves me for my strengths as well as my quirks.
Some of the best relationships I know started between friends. That is what I’m looking for… a friend, with the possible potential for more.

Meet single man from Santa Barbara, United States. Well, I did actually consider going to Paris to meet a date.
She wrote to me and seemed like the ideal gal. Attractive and reasonably in shape, not too many muscles (I am not a 5 day a week workout guy) close to my age. Liked the same things I did; sailing and water sports, hiking the deserts and canyons ( more like day hiking/car camping...I like my showers), and long drives to nowhere .
Than she mentioned escargot. Escargot Escargot Escargot. That's all she started writing about. Turns out she was an Escargot cook and won the French equivalent of Iron Chef or something like that. She went to Escargot parties, wrote Escargot recipes . You get the idea. The thought of eating dish after dish of cooked land snails, usually served as an appetizer in France ( I went to Wikipedia for that) didn't really ring my bell. And (although I do tend to eat healthy, love salads and the such) I like my barbecued burgers once in awhile. Minus the Brie.
So I bailed on her. Besides the commute would have killed me.
So I am now looking to meet someone closer to home. Preferably Santa Barbara to Ventura, but I do make trips to the Los Angeles area as part of my work so that's OK too. Someone passionate and playful, yet stable and real. Someone who is OK with me being a bluejeans guy, at my best in casual settings.... but I WILL dress up when I meet your mom. Promise I will. I am a mix of liberal and conservative norms, an all American guy with progressive values...and occasionally an odd spin on life. What kind of woman are you? I am open to meeting people from diverse lifestyles and backrounds...whether it be for a light get together or something that develops into a long term friendship or romance. My perfect gal would be playful and funloving, ready to be adored while still respected and treated as an equal, can tapdance like Ginger Rogers and sing like Stevie Nicks.( Note... fire pic...name this annual Northern Nevada Festival/win bonus points!)
Once smitten you will find me loyal, taking a keen interest of what you are doing with your life . Supportive of your every goal Your biggest fan. I will provide strong arms, tenderness, refuge and support. Looking for a great traveling companion, someone to go on adventures with also wake up to; pillow talk on easy Sunday mornings. Run out in the rain, look for rainbows and lightning
than retreat to watch movies all rainy day.
Oh, and if you got early on the Escargot thing was a joke, but thought it was funny.... That's a big plus.
Oh, and if something here strikes your fancy and you would like to hear from me I will respond better to a thoughtfully written sentence, question, quick antecedent etc. than a wink, smile, "she's interested" message etc. Thanks and Ciao !

Date someone special from Santa Barbara, United States. Hi: I am a kind of laid back fun loving sensitive but strong guy.I enjoy going for walks on the beach or hiking in the hills.I live in beautiful Santa Barbara, Ca and would love to share some of this area's scenery with you. I am a professional recording artist and a known musician having plated in many groups and many special places. Meaning ...I have no trouble sitting in a coffee shop talking or sharing a nice meal and listening to music with someone. I enjoy all types of cuisine and am always ready to try something new or exciting. I am optimistic about the future and hope to find a person to share it with. I am especially hoping to meet someone to introduce to my friends,family and in return meet theirs. My children are all grown, but if there are some in your world, that's ok. I usually play the music, but am willing for someone to teach me the way they move....dancing that is.. I am quick learner,HA. I am looking for someone humble,, sincere, and is for " real" . In this troubled economy, I totally understand that one's income is not what he or she wishes it to be. This is not a major factor in my decision . As they say, ' A Champagne taste on a Beer budget." is a normal sign of these times. So let's just start with the coffee and take it from there. Ok? Thanks. I look forward to hearing from you.

Meet a man from Santa Barbara, United States. I'm a vital and exceptional person. I know who I am, and have learned much on this path of life, but there's always room to learn more. What new adventures await? Who can say! Lets travel for a time and discover together. Will you join me?

Date men and women from Santa Barbara, United States. Thank you for stopping by ;-) I have asked a three friend's to share their thoughts. I think a independent viewpoint of who I am is more enlightening. enjoy!
If I were talking to a girlfriend describing Russell:
"First word that jumps into my head when I think of Russell is "adventurous". He is a man who is curious about the world and has put himself out there to experience it. "Generous" is definitely the next word that describes him. He doesn't talk about it much, but I know he gives a lot of his time and energy to wonderful charities. Anyone can give money or cut a check to a charity, but to give so much of your actual time is very special. I would say that Russell is shy, he holds who he really is back until he feels comfortable with a person. The Russell I first met is not the Russell I know now. I guess the best way to word it is that he is very reserve at first, but once you get to know him a little bit (and he gets to know you) he is super fun to be around and he makes me laugh with his witty and worldly humor. The last word I can think of to describe him is "amazing". How many people can build their own airplane that is just about as fast as a jet and then fly it across country a few times! Nope, I can't think of anyone else I know besides Russell who can/has done that." By Liz
Russell is in every way a renaissance gentleman. Educated, dedicated and devoted to an ethical life. He is intelligent, stable and generous with a level of dependability rarely seen in this era. He is interested in everything, accomplished in most, truly a man of the World but refreshing devoted to the person standing next to him.
He shy at first, talks outward about people, places and things but hesitant with inward personal expression. Be patient, open him one layer at a time, you will be glad you did.
Russell is a good man to have in your life, he’s worth the effort!
Proud to call him my best friend. by Thomas, MD
I was totally flattered when Russell asked if I would write a few words describing what I would tell someone about him. He has traveled the world, has had adventures in exotic places I will only dream of going, and yet he asked me – a simple girl with Midwest roots to describe him. And that is so the Russell I know.
You see, Russell is warm and genuine and seeks people with whom he can have a deeper connection. I think he has lived in the lime light, has had what power and money can buy but counts that which it can’t as having greater value. He is generous with his money and time, serving on non-profit boards and volunteering elsewhere but he views this as a responsibility for what he has been given and won’t admit character credit for his willingness to lend a hand where and when he can.
Russell is a compassionate listener. Unlike many men I have met in my lifetime, his ego is in check and he is more about what he has to offer rather than what he wants to have offered to him. If I had to think of one thing that could perhaps be perceived as a criticism it would be that he has a humble spirit, but that makes him all the more attractive to me. This attractive, sensitive, sincere, gentleman is the real deal in a world that is spinning out of control with fast paced feedback and instant gratification. In my opinion, time spent with him is a remarkably good investment. By Donna
I'm taking this process very seriously in finding a compatible partner. I hope you are doing the same. I would greatly appreciate to respond to my request for communications within 7 days. I would also respect you greatly if you let me know you're not interested. I will reciprocate with the same and will remove your profile if I do not receive a response within 7 days. Thank you for your respect.
PS. winks are appreciated but notes will be responded too. Please no cougars!

Meet a soulmate from Santa Barbara, United States. I'm on a new mission to banter, play, and converge
There are so many adventures we want to experience
You love to get excited and I'm inspired by that
We are energized by life
You love stories and my lame jokes
You'll travel with me on photo shoots
Food that sparks the senses is the only kind worth pursuing
Hot and spicy and you like it too, and beyond food
Exploring foreign cities by day and seeking fun and laughs at night
You love to getaway
I creatively invent food and it works to bond us
I twist often to stay flexible
You elevate my heart rate every day
I rise early to smell the dawn
and I make you a cup that jump starts your ambition
My favorite is random . . . .
but I'll choose green, go, and faster
Eyes melt me
Can your harmonious side please help me to organize?
Your curious side will conspire with me to experiment with exotic and alluring adult beverages
You like to laugh and my goal is to keep us smiling
You love to b hot
You'll see that a big chewy red rhone goes with anything
Join me for a view from the top ---it's magnificent
I adore your earrings
I’m learning to dance, your patience is needed
Your discipline will help me to drink more water
My kids laugh at me and so will you and for similar reasons
Passion for life ignites you daily
Joy surrounds you, and you can't help it

Date people from California, United States. I am looking for unconditional love. Someone who will be by my side, my friend and love. Someone who will cherishes the "me" I am and allows me to be who I am.. I am generally a liberal person in most ideas and concerns. I can usually see both sides of the coin and can respect both of those ideas too. I like to show affection both indoors and outdoors if the feelings and mood are right. I am a Big Fan of Great Kissing and Cuddling. Jazz, Rock, Blues, Country, and Bluegrass will always find a way in to my Heart. I am an easy going man who is looking for someone to share some time with.

Meet a woman from California, United States. Comfortable with myself, multi-faceted, creative and artistic, mixture of regal goddess and companionable gal-next-door; Model-sque, curvy and willowy w/winning smile, grateful the angels showered me with a love of beauty. Take pleasure in a wardrobe (or wardrobe optional ;-) from lingerie, sarongs and bikini to jeans and sports gear. Love to dress-up for the occasion.
Long walks on waterfront / in nature, cruise on bike to farmersРІР‚в„ў market, park festivals, Artwalk galleries, or beachfront paths. Concerned about alternate energy / sustainability, not conservative or hippy, more of a bohemian; stimulated by multi-cultural and the exotic, fascinated by ancient wisdom and cultural diversity, psychology, anthropology and architectural / Interior Design, work / live between Maui and Santa Barbara, sometimes summers in NW (August/Sept. temperate liquid sunshine, the best)
Alternative energy and vehicle buff; boat, auto and truck shows, sailing and aviation.
Keen interest in the art of wine and Wine Country, calling Santa Barbara the American Riviera is a gross understatement. The expansive horizons of the of Chumash Hwy San Marcos Pass: one side down to Santa Ynez Valley’s Live Oaks and Cachuma Lake, the other side to the Channel Islands; Hwy 91, APS, Mountain Drive, up Gibraltar to La Cumbre… SYV horse country and vineyards, alternating seasons of gold and sage, land of a thousand rolling hills, indeed.
And then thereРІР‚в„ўs Up-Country Maui, purple-blossomed wild Jacaranda Trees and rainbows, pastoral setting of perpetual verdant rolling hills, beyond awesome to behold! Looking down from 2,000 to 4,000 feet above the Mid-Pacific to West Maui Mountains, Iao Valley, and Islands beyond inspired me to take flight lessons.
Wowed by the Majesty of Banff Wilderness, Vancouver IslandРІР‚в„ўs Tofino. Favorite sightings in the Northwest: soaring eagles and sound of whistling hawks; daily glimpses of wildlife is thrilling: whales, sea turtles, dolphins pelicans, deer, wolves and bears. Driving off-road vehicles (learned to drive at 14, on the sands of Joshua Tree) gets you places off the beaten Hwy.
Film buff (SB, Maui, Banff film Fests) and theater arts enthusiast; appreciate classical and world/ethnic music; drumming, guitar and ukulele, cello and saxophone, jazz, rock and country music, kirtan concerts and yoga (Joshua Tree Bhakti Fest is a feast for body and soul).
Dieting is out, mostly organic vegetarian (occasional meat) enjoy all-types of cuisine.
Good-natured sensual attitude and generous lover; freedom and loyalty are natural complements; with my partner enjoy giving and receiving massages (California accredited training); Aspire to share my passionately playful, engaging and affectionate nature. WhatРІР‚в„ўs better than a little down time together? Not afraid of alone time, silence or the dark. About Him: He is who he is... my best friend and lover, sees the beauty inside and out, happy IРІР‚в„ўm his supportive-loyal playmate, inclusive and grateful our time has come, comfortably at home together.