Date men and women from United States / California / Santa Barbara, 47 year old

Date a soulmate from Santa Barbara, United States. Let me think.... I'll tell you all...maybe not all, how can I describe myself in 200 words...
It was a very difficult decision to make, but I have to move....but I'll be back... I love Santa Barbara more than anywhere else...
I'm not moving too far, just Valencia... I would still spent much of my weekends in SB... I may take a job in Camarillo in a near future and will most likely move back to SB....I can't imagine living anywhere else...
“This life is what you make it. No matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, somg go. The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your true best friends. Don't let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too. And babe, I hate to say it, most of them - actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can't give up becuase if you give up, you'll never find your soul mate. You'll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.”
Marilyn Monroe
So, did I mess up sometimes? I did!!! I fell in love and broke some hearts....But don't we all do that....But, I am a lover of fine things... Watching sunset at the beach...by myself or with someone special...
As a lover I love stealing passion kisses... Love my wine-red only! Some fine food... Holding the hand of my fine man....
I am reading a great book.... About a German Princess who traveled to Russia at 14 and rose to become one of the most remarkable, powerful and captivating women in history... I'm somewhat like her... LOL
Tell me who she is and you will get my attention.... I have my own way of finding things about you in my own unique way.... I am different.... I assure you. I am simple and I believe simplicity is ultimate sophistication...
To be continued....
I am a little bit of everything.... Great lover, great mother, was a great wife to a great husband...but we drifted apart... It was meant to be... One of life's great mysteries.... It all happens for a reason.... I am a firm believer of that....
More about me,,,,
Someone has said...
"Hi .... I'm getting a sense of you. Reserved, private, as I said. But a person of enormous depth. Cautious who you let approach. You take time making sure that the person is worth your trust. And then, as trust is gradually built, comes a slow revealing of those reserved and private parts of you--an unveiling of .... And when you do trust that person, you open your heart to them without reservation. But that takes time and patience. Am I far off? Or do you fall in love desperately and quickly? No, I can't imagine that based on our conversation thus far..."
That's all for now, if you care to know me better, send me an email... I love well written emails.... Ciao
PS----I'll be moving soon... It all depends...

Meet a woman from Santa Barbara, United States. My ideal match is someone who is willing to share himself emotionally, is honest and knows himself well. Someone who likes to laugh, enjoys life, is affectionate. Practices healthy self-care, is honest and cares for others. Appreciates life and what it has to offer. Someone who loves family and is loyal.
I am not interested in friends with Benies "if you know what I mean" but I like making new friends and enjoy getting to know people. I love to laugh so if your a grouch we probably would not be a good match. I am a water person, love to swim, the beach and nature hikes and stormy days. I like trying new things and facing the fears that come with trying new things. So if you are someone who likes keeping things the same day in and day out we would probably drive each other crazy, just keeping it real.
I would like to meet someone who wants to be in a loving, committed relationship that is empowering and nurturing for the both of us.
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Date men and women from Santa Barbara, United States. Easy going, fun, adventurous, athletic, compassionate woman looking to find like minded man. Love all outdoor activities especially water-skiing, hiking, biking, swimming and playing on the beach. Im always up for anything, looking to truly enjoy everyday with someone who wants to do the same. I have a true passion for life and strive to make the most of it doing what makes me happy. i am the most understanding balanced honest person you may ever meet. Not much will shake me and I'm very non-judgmental. Looking for open, honest, REAL people who want to enjoy the journey wherever it takes us. I take great care of my body working out 4-5 times a week and would love to share that with someone who enjoys the same. I'm not a jealous type and believe everything in life happens for a reason. A great sense of humor is a must. And plan on spending a lot of time laughing with me.

Meet people from Santa Barbara, United States. A real man that takes charge, but is sensitive to my soft side. Exercises and takes care of his temple. Healthy, fit, happy, easy going, adventurous. Loves to travel. Financially stable. Balanced. Good family relationship with mother and father. Wants to workout together and a huge bonus if you waterski and have a ski boat!