Date men and women from United States / California / Santa Barbara, 44 year old

Date a man from California, United States. I am a man that is involved in all the sports that Santa Barbara has to offer. I surf, ski, swim, and ironically, I do not like to watch sports on television..I would rather be subjectively involved in the actual sport. I have a law degree and only use it to mediate and help people I am a Culinary Artist and a musician. I am constantly growing by the day and open to everything that life has to offer. I am looking for a woman that is independant and is willing to explore all of the mystery and fun that a relationship has to offer. I am searching for a woman who can openly communicate her feelings.Wear ripped up jeans with comfort, and then put on a party dress and dance the night away. Expression of sensitivity is imperative for me because life is too short to hold back one's emotions
I personally do not have a visual picture of my ideal mate because I am adaptive to mutually growing together. .

Meet someone special from California, United States. I am secure and happy with myself, but sharing with someone special is just more fun! A little bit about myself: I enjoy playing and listening to music, movies, tennis and other sports, keeping fit, travel, gardening, good healthy food, laughing, and learning. I am self-sufficient, independent, and honest. I have a good sense of humor, family and friends are very important to me. I am grateful for life and the things I have. Intelligence, humor, and a good heart are qualities I look for. No Pressure! Let's get to know each other... and see what happens.

Date single man from California, United States. IM A VERY FUN GUY, WHO LIKES MAKE EVERY BODY HAPPY I WORK HARD EVERY DAY, I LIKE TO GO UOT EVERY TIME I CAN, I LOVE WOMEN BUT WHEN I STAR A RELATIONSHIP I BELONG TO ONLY ONE I THINK EVERY DAY IS A NEW CHANCE, SO I TAKE IT AS COMES.

Meet a woman from California, United States. I am a down to earth girl I love to hang out with friends and just have a good time. I also have a quiet side where I just stay home watch movies, I am a bit of a tomboy I Love sports UFC fighting to be my absolute favorite. I am looking for a man who is honest with a great sense of adventure and humor.

Date people from California, United States. I am pretty easy going, attractive and fun to be with. Not a drama queen and shy away from that sort of energy. Raised in a large family so I basically go with the flow : ) .
I am looking for a man who is serious (relationship wise!) and wanting to be with just the "one". Being active is important too. I always say I will try anything once. I love new things!

Meet a soulmate from Santa Barbara, United States. Hello there fellow searchers! I hope this day finds you well, thank you for taking the time to read my profile.
I am looking for that special man to share a life with. I am even tempered, loyal, affectionate and I hold strong family values and beliefs. I relocated from Los Angeles to Santa Barbara almost three years now and I am drawn to the work life balance and the pace of life Santa Barbara has to offer. Restaurants, local camping, beach, parks anything outdoors, parades, festivals, so much to do and share.
I am looking for someone who has similar values and beliefs, and most importantly can find joy in whatever life brings. I am open to someone who has a child or children and may want more. I would be perfectly happy taking care of my husband, our home and our children. I have traditional values and believe the heart is found in a home and family and all good things come from that. I am not looking to compete with my partner but rather to compliment him and support his talents, dreams and strengths as he supports mine.
I make a conscious commitment everyday to live a happy, healthy, positive and balanced existence. I am very nurturing and protective of those dear to me. I am looking for that special man to share adventures, laughs, ideas and who loves to explore, music, books, vacation spots, recipes, restaurants, people, cultures, etc. I have boundless energy, full of passion in all aspects of my life. I don't have the time, the inclination or the patience for drama, dishonesty or games.
I respond well to someone who knows who they are, what they want and how to get it. Loves surprises, giving and receiving. He has a great sense of humour, loves to laugh, dream and play. Family oriented and is ready to share all he has learned with his loving, supportive wife and children. Knows how and when to show affection when the chemistry is there. He has learned what the important things are in life. He is happy, successful, passionate, thoughtful and caring. He believes in God and is not afraid to live it and show it.

Date someone special from Santa Barbara, United States.
IРІР‚в„ўm fun and love to laugh. So you need to be fun and love to laugh too.
IРІР‚в„ўm totally comfortable with who I am and how I look, but that doesnРІР‚в„ўt mean IРІР‚в„ўm not always trying to grow as a person.
I love to learn.
I love to try new things but I love some of the same old stuff too.
Sometimes I am more adventurous and curious than I should be.
Sometimes I don't want to do anything at all.
I have kids, but I am not looking for someone to be their dad.
I would rather not be alone in life, but I am just fine when I am so, I'm not looking for someone to support me or pay my way.
IРІР‚в„ўm more spiritual than religious.
I hate drama. But the reality is, drama is going to happen once in a while. ThatРІР‚в„ўs life.
I have learned the hard way that we just have to live in the moment and not worry about things out of our control.
I would like to meet someone who wants to be friends and then if it turns out to something more…..that’s great.
If it doesnРІР‚в„ўt, then being friends is perfect too.
I don't have a long list of what I expect from a man because my expectations are simple and I am easy to get along with.

Meet men and women from Santa Barbara, United States. I am grateful for this beautiful place we call Earth. I am passionate about living in the moment and leading with love and strength. People who can laugh a lot and are comfortable in their own skin are attractive to me.

Date a woman from Santa Barbara, United States. I am a Wisconsin Cheesehead who has lived in Santa Barbara for the past 20 years. I may have given up on the frigid tundra of Packer country, but I am still Midwest through and through. I have a loud, boisterous (sometime obnoxious) family who is very close, although they all still live in Wisconsin. Whew!
I eat red meat, I eat fried food, I eat cheese and drink beer. DonРІР‚в„ўt ever give me a vegetable. I am 5РІР‚в„ў6 and 125lbs but I am a curvy thin girl who probably looks better in clothes than out of them. I like to work out, but sometimes life gets in the way. I donРІР‚в„ўt worry about it.
I live for March Madness and can happily spend my day in a sports bar cheering on my teams. I love a good football game, or baseball game or most any sport for that matter.
I like to be silly at times, and make fun of myself. I have no problem being a dork or laughing at my own antics. I dress up every year for Halloween with my kids. Last year we were King Arthur, Merlin and Lady Guinevere. Prior years included Star Wars, pirates, vampires, The Flintstones and Ninja's. Any suggestions for this year?
I have deep family values and always put my kids first in life. I spend a lot of time running to their sporting events.
I believe if you live in a community then you need to give back to that community. I am a past La Presidenta of Fiesta and am on the Board of Directors of the Santa Barbara Zoo. Parties and animals, what is better than that?
I work hard and am a strong, independent woman. I collect wine and drink it too. I love to travel, watch movies, hang out with friends, host get togethers and just have fun in life. I am very easy going, and have had enough drama in life. I just want to relax and enjoy the good stuff.

Meet people from Santa Barbara, United States. I live in Santa Barbara because I love the weather and find Mother Nature to be very inspiring and comforting. I'd like to find someone who loves experiencing the culture and exploring the natural habitat as much as i do, who has deep respect for the life force in every being, whose main mantra is ahimsa and who loves all aspects of yoga, hatha as well as the principles. I'm a very social being by nature and love meeting new people. I'm most passionate about helping others and using my time wisely to do the most good while I'm here. I have a gift for public speaking, teaching and healing work. I am excited about my progress towards living a debt-free life and looking forward to travelling as that comes to full manifestation. I like it when people have projects that they are really excited about as well as forms of work that they find purposeful. It makes connecting that much more interesting and fun.

Date a soulmate from United States. My friends describe me as bitchy, high-maintenance and controlling. Screw them!!!!!!
OK, getting real now... My friends say I'm super fun, generous, sensitive, thoughtful, loyal, creative, original, blah blah blah. . But they are my friends, so what else are they gonna say? ;)
WHO makes me smile? My friends, friendly strangers and silly kids. WHAT makes me smile? Dogs sticking their heads out of car windows to catch the wind. What warms my heart? When I can help someone in need, or when I've made their day with a genuine compliment or funny remark. People need love, attention, affection, respect, graciousness, laughter and human connection and I'm happy to deliver it when I can! What I do for a living (and that's several things) affords me many opportunities to do this and that feels good!
Accomplishments I'm most proud of: My long-standing friendships, my songs, and the fact that I was a bowling pin dancer in the Big Lebowski.
What am I grateful for? My friends, my family, and Trader Joe's gluten-free brownie mix.
Who am I hoping to attract? A man who is bright, funny, playful, goofy, kind, affectionate, thoughtful, active, passionate about life and looking for life partnership. Oh, and it would be nice if he were at least my height, but that's not a deal breaker. He by no means needs to be perfect. Just perfectly delicious to me. I am extremely young at heart (immature??) and need someone who is the same. I feel like I'm 24, and people say I look like I'm in my 30's (some say even younger, but they are deluded for sure). So a youthfulness in my partner (not defined by age per se, but by interests, energy, perspective) is super important to me! Also, I am highly social, so my partner needs to feel comfortable in that realm. That is not to say I don't enjoy one-on-one quiet time, but more often than not I need to be out and about, creating community and fun and having my equally social guy looking hot on my arm and stirring up fun with me.
What am I looking for in a relationship? To make my partner laugh out loud on a regular basis, and vice versa; to be supportive of my man's dreams and vice versa; to feel totally sexy around my man and make him feel equally sexy; to bring out the best in my man, and he bring out the best in me; to grow spiritually with my man; to share many wonderful experiences together including travel close by and far away; to grow close to his family and his to mine; to be on the same page in terms of our political views, and wanting to create and nurture community, start an urban garden/farm, enjoy good food, wine, movies, music, physical activity and the outdoors. If he is a musician, I look forward to writing songs and performing together. If he is a dancer, I look forward to being his dance partner. If he's neither, he'd have to be appreciative of my love for music and dance. Emotional maturity and communicativeness is essential. I think that about covers it !!?? p.s. i am very affectionat/ touchy-feely, so if you're not into PDA, probably not a good fit.
Ok, I wish you all the best in finding love! We all deserve it! (er, uh, for the most part, right??)