Date men and women from United States / California / San Rafael, 65 year old

Date a man from San Rafael, United States. Predictability tempered by openness and curiosity but even tempered, collecting "the facts" before concluding anything and holding back a reaction. We all have moods but controlling them is an imperative by both of us.
I truly did like doing much alone but everyone needs down time alone. At this point in life we all carry baggage and sharing that is AOK but should not be a prime motivator.
Open to "new" but both of us must realize that we are who we are in measure from our previous experience... which cannot be forgotten but must be understood and modified (?).

Meet a soulmate from San Rafael, United States. A POEM OF LOVE
ME: I am a slow dancer. I am a waking smile at sunrise. I am a wild ride. I am a silent walk in the redwoods. I am ongoing inquiry and the love of truth. I am a loving father. I am morning meditation and yoga. I am a shamanic journey. I am a candle lighter. Explorer of life’s mysteries and miracles. Evolutionary, Integralist, passionate about the evolution of consciousness and culture. Recovered MBA, semi-retired. Also writer, progressive, environmentalist, poet, fotog. Sorry, lost all interest in sports. Love the natural world and hiking, great conversation, learning, growing, science, current affairs, travel and exploring, music, guitar, singing, drumming, dancing. Committed to a life of love, joy, personal and spiritual development, contribution. Reader, getting a book published. Paradoxical, at times: outward and active, inward and contemplative; aware and awake, lost in illusion; whole and complete, flawed and imperfect; mensan, clueless. With its challenges, life is mostly full and sweet. A deepening stream of peace flows through the ever-changing landscape of this precious human existence. Now is the best time of life. I am opening to big love with a great woman. She already haunts my dreams. I feel her approaching. Is it you?
YOU: Lady of Light—your radiance and depth shine as living poetry in all you do. You are all woman, in all the best ways. You are a vision of boundless love and feminine beauty. You can be gentle and kind, strong and wild, sweet and giving, open and adventurous. You are the grace and gratitude of a full beautiful life unfolding. You are the hot flame of passion, and a great kisser. You are mystery, exploration, and arrival. You know who you are. The love that you are lights up your face, your bright eyes, your sensuous body. You know secrets and magic. You have escaped the conditioned social trance and are free. You have discovered the inner treasure and tasted heaven. You have returned to share the good news—awake, contributing, creating, unfolding—this exquisite ever-blossoming flower of love that is you.
WE: Fire burns between us—a deep chemistry and soul connection. We support each other fully in awakening, and in realizing our unique dreams and deepest gifts. We share lives of compassion, open communication, beauty, mindfulness, integrity, and fun. We express abundant affection and appreciation. We stay active, healthy, and fit. We love making love: frequent, ecstatic, tantric union. We embrace loving relationship—difficulties included—as a path of healing and evolving. We share unconditional love and acceptance, with great synergy and creativity. We have much to teach and give each other. We see and relate to the highest and deepest in each other. We share a commitment to evolving, family, peace, service, and awakened living. We are opening to TrueLove at its most nurturing, joyful, supportive, and transforming.
I hold out my hand to you . . . .

Date people from San Rafael, United States. I've been solitary for too long. I'd like to love someone who will love me for the right reasons: she has eyes to see who I am; and she knows I'm special. Having her own financial resources, she doesn't need me for that; she's interested in my other resources of a non-material kind.. My ideal match causes me sometimes to stare in awe at her inner and outer beauty. She is someone who makes me reluctant to leave her and eager to return, every day. My ideal match evokes my passion and welcomes it, as I do hers. She has an ever present sense of humor and she appreciates my own irreverent brand. Having lived, loved and maybe lost, she is no stranger to relationship. I certainly am not! Recognizing that everything that has gone before in her life has brought her to where she is now, and being mostly happy with who she is now, she regrets nothing except the current absence of a man who loves her just as she is now. Like me, she knows the difference between needs and wants, both her own and mine. And although it is not absolutely necessary, she has had children and knows the closeness of parent and child. I'm very affectionate and sensual and need a woman with these same qualities. I'm completely monogamous, have a strong code of ethics, and love intimate conversation about everything. Communication is my strong suit! My friends, 4 out of 5 of the best of whom are women I've known for at least 20 years, can vouch for that! Pillow talk in candlelight is where intimacy reigns; maybe Edith Piaf is singing in the background.. The external world disappears, time is meaningless, and only we exist. At least that's my vision of heaven on earth!
I would like nothing more than to share a life with someone smart and charming and who smiles more than she frowns. Taking walks, cooking together, driving to new places, enjoying movies and music. (Ever heard Rodrigo y Gabriela? Wow! Their music ignites me.) The most rapturous piece of music I ever heard is "Recuerdos de Alhambra" as played by John Williams. My favorite play is "Man and Superman" by G.B. Shaw. Movies I've loved: Good Will Hunting, Shakespeare In Love, Dangerous Beauty, Million Dollar Baby, and surprisingly, the new version of True Grit. I'll admit I love thrillers (The Bourne trilogy, the movies made from Tom Clancy books (Clear and Present Danger, Patriot Games, etc.); and I'm open to so-called "chick flicks," but only with female company! Just don't be surprised if you hear/see me snuffling during a tear-jerker.
Interested? Let me know! Please don't "wink" at me only. Say something that shows me you like more than my pretty face! ;o)

Meet someone special from San Rafael, United States. I LOVE MY LIFE. I LOVE BEING OUTDOORS, I PLAY TENNIS. I PLAY GOLF AND I LOVE TO TRAVEL. I AM LOOKING FOR A VERY SPECIAL WOMAN. SHE MUST LOVE DOGS, AND HAVE A POSITIVE OUTLOOK ON LIFE. I WILL BE HER BEST FRIEND AND SHE MINE. I KNOW THIS IS A TALL ORDER, I AM HOPEFUL I WILL FIND HER.
MY IDEAL RELATIONSHIP IS A COOPERATIVE ONE. I BELIEVE THAT A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN IS THE MOST IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIP A MAN CAN HAVE FOR HIS GROWTH. THERE SHOULD BE COMMON INTERESTS BALANCED BY INDEPENDENCE AND EQUALITY. THERE IS NO NEED TO RUSH A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE I TRUELY BELIEVE THAT DEVELOPING A TRUE FRIENDSHIP IS THE MOST IMPORTANT BASIS FOR FUTURE SUCCESS.

Date single man from San Rafael, United States. Proud father of two lovely adult daughters with whom I have great relationships; psychologist in private practice who loves his work and doesn't take it home with him; long distance runner still striving for a 10 minute per mile marathon; eclectic interests, great friends (here and around the country), liberal values; and the belief that life should be relaxed not hectic and that if there's a problem, there's a solution--most of the time. Looking for a woman who wants to create a lasting love relationship; who knows herself and likes what she sees when she looks in the mirror; has close attachments to family, friends, and colleagues; who is open-hearted, laughs easily, and enjoys life; smart, quick-witted, and curious about herself and other people; self-reflective and generous in her view of others; who knows that love is a choice, as well as a feeling, and one that has to be made and remade as romantic idealizations inevitably meet reality.