Date men and women from United States / California / San Leandro, 38 year old

Date a man from San Leandro, United States. I'm down to earth and non-judgemental,open minded. Spiritually is the key to my well being. I'm hoping to attract a person thats down to earth and easy going such as myself. also hoping to attract a person that has room for spiritual growth

Meet a soulmate from San Leandro, United States. People describe me as the guy who looks mean and tough, but once you get to know me that’s not who I am at all. I’ll stand outside of clubs in my suit, people always think I’m the bouncer, I’ll totally play along and check ID’s for fun. I’m very laid back, easy going, sarcastic, sweet, nice, hard working, brutally honest, and I like to laugh and joke around whenever possible. I’m one of those people that’s pretty much in a good mood just about everyday.
Pretty eclectic tastes....I like biking, hiking, eating, playing poker, 4 wheelin in my jeep, going to concerts - the next couple I’m gong to coming up are Kiss at shoreline, SF Opera do Rigoletto, and the carmel bach festival. I cook, I clean, I bake, I sew, ...I’m pretty much holly homemaker with 8 earrings, a nose ring and a tattoo. My buddy’s call me the well pierced Martha Stuart. I love the looks I got when I walk into a room, lay down some brownies that I made (In a bakers box, individually wrapped) and hear people shocked in amazement....”You made these?”
I have a great job that I love, I get to play music for a living. I play the trumpet all over the bay area playing all different styles of music. It’s not uncommon for me in any given week to wear a tuxedo with a white bow tie and tails and play in a orchestra, to put on a suit and play with a jazz group or to put on some crazy costume and do some dance steps with a rock band at a club. I also teach private lessons...right now I have 30 students I teach every week from as young as 4th grade to adults in there seventies. I spend every day doing what I love to do, and every day I am excited to go to the crazy world that is my “office”.
Looking for someone who is sweet, nice, positive, adventurous, likes to have someone cook for her (I’m a big BBQ’R), someone who likes to laugh....a lot, supports me and my crazy job schedule, and wants to go and try new things and explore new places.

Date men and women from San Leandro, United States. I am a very honest person that loves life. My best friends know that I am there for life. I always try to find a way to be thankful each and every day.
Just moved back to the Bay. So happy to be back in the sun and around dive
rsity.
I am looking for a friend and maybe more. I'm back into the gym so maybe I could find a person to set some goals with together. Or maybe take a summer trip to Europe. Who knows who I will meet but I'm free and open.

Meet someone special from San Leandro, United States. So here’s what you have to do, continue reading…(extra-special bonus if you make it to the end)
I'm excited to tell you this experience is going to be a little different than you're probably used to on here. I don't take myself too seriously even while I say serious things. Allowing me into your mind might put your deepest hopes or fears to the test, but don't worry, it won't hurt a bit...
***insert Dr. Evil laugh ***
No, seriously. I fully expect you will achieve some sort of pleasure (gasp!), fulfillment (no way!), and some other positive emotion that you're not getting enough of, simply by engaging with me. It's really IS that simple.
Want me to show you?
Ok. I love women. You’re a woman. Reading this makes you smile. See…? We’re already off to a great start!
Now let your guard down for me before I tear it down (if I think it's worth it).
I have to say, life is pretty great right now -- I'm living my dream. But I won’t bore you with the mundane details of my evolving existence. I’m interested in YOU. Really. Tell me about yourself. Something silly. Something profound. No matter. Let your hair down. If you’re the real deal, my interest is piqued.
Don’t save me to favorites. Don’t wink and run. This is not video game dating. I’m not a man in the computer. If you feel me…let’s go with it. Put on your sexy jeans, your favorite heels, and get a pedicure.
I’ll start us off with my first commitment to you. I’ll never try to put you in a box. I’m sure you don’t fit in one. Anyone worth knowing never does, like myself. That also includes me never presiding over your life, your wants, your needs, your fears, your hopes, or your dreams. That's yours. I'll either add value to or your life, or remain a stranger.
As the Yang to your Yin, I know you want to be the exquisite feminine being that you are. All you have to do is wink or email. I'll take it from there.
P.S. I take out the garbage, too. Always.
Nov 2011...
Great! You've read this far. You are EXACTLY the woman I want to ask these questions to (many won't read this far).
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Re: Men, Dating, and finding LASTING LOVE...
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First...
• Why are you here? What do YOU want in the short term? Friends, dance partner, committed everlasting love...?
• What would you ultimately like to achieve...and when?
Then...
• What's your biggest frustration with dating and relating with us men?
• What's your #1 challenge with online dating itself? Too many emails, people misrepresenting themselves, dog haters?
• What's your greatest fear that will happen (or not happen) if you don't get this "finding & relating with your dream man" thing figured out?
That's it! :)
Just shoot me a quick email with your candid answers, and I'll tell you more...
Now, if you're REALLY passionate about these topics, and you give me your most heartfelt answers...then I really want to talk to YOU -- like today!
Until then...