Date men and women from United States / California / Rancho Santa Margarita, 42 year old

Date people from California, United States. Swim, bike, run, walk, talk, scuba, snorkel, skydive, bungee, rollercoaster, movies, books, books on tape, playing with kids, bowling, darts, pool, hockey, volleyball, tennis, beach, hot-tubbing, watching sports, crazy tv shows, foreign movies, video games, internet surfing, holding hands, working, making money, spending money, having money, investing, buying stocks, selling stocks, wall street journal, picnics at The Getty, cafe mocha, having a big breakfast, watching lightning, listening to thunder, feeling the rain, boring somespamsite homepages, surfing, racing, thinking, sleeping, napping, adventure races, wall climbing, siteseeing, driving, listening to the radio, laughing, comedy, building models, ocean swimming, leading, following, ordering, boston cream pie, dilbert, kids, church, support, 4x4 driving, hiking, basketball, shopping, sitting, legos, reading to kids, flying.

Meet men and women from California, United States. I am looking for someone that is perfect for me. He is honest, funny, caring, tactful, energetic, understanding and flexible. "He" is not manipulative nor does he play games. I'm goal oriented and expect my "someone" to have that same quality. "He" has to know that relationships are a two way street. You have to give to get. I would love to meet someone that respects my opinion but is willing to take the lead. I want to light up his life and have him do the same for me.
(On the lighter side)..yadda yadda yadda :) Basically, here's the deal: If you're a cool guy and want to have fun, I'm your gal. I love to laugh. I rarely get offended and I want to know that you can let loose and make jokes without worrying about how I feel. I'm easy going and can "sling it back at ya". Send me an email if you are interested. Let's see where this could lead. =)

Date a woman from California, United States. Where have you been?? I thought you would NEVER find me...!! But now that you have, please keep reading to see if you think we have anything in common and are looking for the same things in life. I'm looking for my last first date, and I know one day we'll find each other. I used to think that perhaps my prince charming was eaten by the big bad wolf on his way to my house, but now I think that maybe he just got sidetracked along the way ;-)
It amazes me how many of us are on this site, yet no one seems to be able to find one another... Let's meet and find that intangible, sixth sense feeling - the "you know it when you feel it" kind of thing. I am looking to connect with someone - emotionally, spiritually and physically - all that "chemistry" entails.
I tend to be pretty easy going and am generally drama-free. I lead a fairly simple lifestyle, and it doesn't take much to make me happy. I have no kids, other than my cranky cat. I can be a bit quiet until I get to know you, but once I DO know you, it's hard to keep me quiet. I don't like to argue - I don't enjoy chaos or drama. But don't get me wrong - I'm no doormat, either. But I probably will never be the life of the party, and I don't like to be the center of attention.
I'm looking for a man who is sensitive and nice, but not a pushover. A man who is confident, but not arrogant or has a false sense of self-importance. A man who is always striving to be a better person, but is happy and content with who he is and where he is in life. A man who will respect me, ask my opinions, and who knows how to discuss differences without fighting. A man who can look at this list of contradictions, shake his head, and laugh :)
I will be honest and say that my life so far has been a bit "safe", so I would love to meet someone who can show me some new adventures, new places, new hobbies, etc. I do have many interests and hobbies now, but they tend to be a bit more on the mellow side... care to add some excitement into my life? :)
I am Christian, I put my faith in God and Jesus Christ, and try to live my life in a way that represents that. I am a work in progress, and I would love to find someone who feels the same way about themselves.
I am not looking for someone to "complete" me, but rather complement me. I want a true partnership. Together, we will be a force to be reckoned with! I am looking for the man with whom I'm meant to be with... the one who will be my best friend and passionate lover all rolled into one. And please be positive! Life is much too short to go through it feeling bitter, negative, or like the world owes you something. I believe that you can't ask for more than what you have to offer, and even though I'm not perfect, I think I can provide a lot to the right man.
I love children and have no problem if you have them, but I cannot have children of my own, so if you are definitely wanting (more) kids, I'm not the one for you.

Meet people from California, United States. I am friendly, out-going, kind, loyal, protective, considerate, passionate, loving, confident, energetic, adventurous, enthusiastic, quick witted but not sarcastic, impulsive, impatient, open to new ideas, leader not a follower, do not like to argue, very direct but not mean spirited, would rather let you think you won than to engage in a long drawn out argument. I dislike people who are passive-aggressive, not interested in liars, sarcasm is a major turn off, confidence is great but arrogance is down right ridiculous. I like for the man to be a man, act like a man, handle things like a man, take charge like a man, be a leader like a man. Don't go running to all your friends discussing your private business with your mate! Another major turn off is a guy who is totally into Facebook or social online medias, do not want a guy who is obsessed with all that. I feel embarrassed for that guy! Do not want a guy who is friends with a bunch of women, forget it, they can have you!
It's been a while since I've dated, I've been single for 3 months now. I think it's time to start meeting and mingling with the opposite sex. I'm interested in a man that I can have fun with and spend quality time with as well.... Attraction is very important and looks do matter, be honest! I'm mostly attracted to tall men. I like a man that shows me he's interested & doesn't feel the need to play mind games. I will be completely honest with you, if I like you, then you'll know it.