Date men and women from United States / California / Pleasanton, 53 year old

Date a man from California, United States. Hello, and thank you for taking a look here. My subscription will end on July 30, 2012. Im an outgoing, confident, responsible and goal oriented guy. I'm very respectful of others and appreciative of all the good and finer things in life. All things in moderation is my approach. I take pride in my appearance, and I'm always well dressed and well groomed. On the lighter side, I have a very good sense of humor, and like to be funny and make people laugh and smile. I'm independent and tend to keep to myself when not working. In my spare time I like to exercise, walk/hike/cycle, and enjoy hobbies of golf, and playing guitar. Im working on being more romantic because I need to love and be loved. Im not a big risk taker, and tend have conservative views on things, but Im genuinely a good person, and fun to do things with. I like to travel, cook, drink wine, see concerts and movies. I'm actually quite a good dancer having taken ballroom and western dance classes over the years, but just shaking-it to some good RnB or Rock is great too. I also like small dogs, gardening, museums, car shows, and Jazz. Im looking for a woman with similar views on life, that will be honest and share the important things. Im not a controlling person, and not always great at planning, so i like a woman that can drive our lives socially. Ultimately I want a friend, lover, and someone to plan a future with. While I'm not perfect, I do have a lot to offer, and maybe that is perfectly OK for you. :-)
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Meet someone special from California, United States. I spent 20 years with one person and unfortunately it got cut short. Now I'm hoping to find a companion to spend the next 40-50 years with. I'm an easy going fun loving guy looking for my easy going fun loving girl. My friends would describe me as an optimist who's upbeat and always in a good mood. I like to be outside being active and I think it helps if you have a similar perspective so we could share some activities together. I'm currently training for a marathon, play tennis a couple times a week and am just getting back into golf with the guys after a couple year hiatus. In the winter time, like everyone else I like to ski. That's what I'm doing at the moment, but I'm really up for just about anything. Outside of work my focus has been my kids, but time marches on and they've started to grow up. One's off to college and the other - though still in high school is mostly independent. Thus, I have more free time on my hands.
Life is short...so it's time to have fun. Let's go!

Date single man from California, United States. I must say that I never thought I would use this type of service to meet people. But I have enjoyed some of the emails so far. I never did the bar scene well and church (when I go) has its limitations. So what’s left but the gym and coffee shops? So here I am! I am looking to become friends initially and then if the chemistry works, we’ll see what happens! The whole “wink thing” takes some getting used to but I guess it’s not much different than a “like”. And like most, physical attraction is important - .I am not sure why some post without pictures.
I have four girls, one just became “an adult” and then there’s the teenager, and twin 8-year olds. When I am with them (about half the time), they are an absolute joy (well the teenager is difficult, but I still love her). The closest I have come to a boy was a fabulous yellow lab and he was fixed, so this didn’t even count. Girls are awesome - all ages. I do have my “man friends” but they get boring fast.
I am lucky to have a low-stress low-hours job (the beauty of working for a European company) that pays well and I work at home, so I have a lot of time to do other stuff. I have dabbled in other business ventures and am always looking for the next great idea. There is so much out there we have yet to mine! I am sooo glad Gore invented the Internet!
I am pretty “laid back” (such as many Californian’s are) and have a very good sense of humor, I love to laugh, but get a little deep sometimes. I am an ultimate optimist, and get along with most people. If I can make one person laugh every day, or otherwise feel good about themselves, I have had a good day. I enjoy sitting on a beach or at a park watching people. I refer to myself as socially awkward (aka shy) but most people don’t agree - go figure.
I love the outdoors and spend a lot of time in the gym (both weights and aerobics), running, or riding my mountain bike up hills and mountains. I enjoy playing most sports though don’t golf and can’t dribble a ball and move at the same time (it is the genes). I love movies but watch very little television. I love the local sports teams (well the 49ers and A’s anyway) and listen to a lot of music (concerts, mp3, XM’s Alt. Nation, KFOG). I am looking forward to the next Outside Lands festival (in San Francisco)! I love all food. Life is good.
Once friends, I hope to find that special person, the elusive “soul mate”, that someone where there is a "natural" connection with, someone who I like to be with (at least most of the time), high emotional compatibility levels, spirituality is important, intimacy must be strong. All of this should be present to a certain degree. I do believe that a "perfect match" is an ideal that can not always be met but with effort, you can get close. Yes, I have been told that we must “work” at relationships but I have also rebutted this “theory” partly. I strongly believe that there must be some innate, natural attraction for long term success in a relationship.

Meet a soulmate from California, United States. .... Is that you? Is that me? Who'll be the lucky ones? It will take more than a glance, more than a moment, but a chance meeting. Is it more than just chance?
Intelligence, first, you must know that there are three 2's, and three there's, know your who's, and know how to use them... so that after the initial (two or three years of) ogling each other, it would be nice to have someone smart to talk about during the day. I'm not looking for a something seasonal (sorry Hallmark, See's, ...), just something more enduring and an endearing woman. No flakes or rudeness please. That may be rather blunt, but life's too short to waste time. Not looking for perfection, nor some image from some commonly quoted limerick. So is that you?
First, the age is accurate... No fudging. It's easy enough to tell in person for both people, so why lie about it?
Finding someone special is... just that, special ... and I'm not talking about infatuation with someone, or the variety of alternate reasons people date, but finding someone that sees you with all their flaws, and still wants you, every part of you, even with a misstep or two because no one is perfrect. Certainly, not me. But finding someone special, that thinks you're special too, well that is a rare thing.
OK, some specifics...
AUTHENTICITY and sincerity are important to me. It's less about poems in introductory emails, unless it starts with "There once was a man from ...". Though I think I can find a song or movie to fit most situations. I think respect and willingness to share with another person (hey, you gonna eat that :-) is paramount to building a lasting relationship, that and a willingness to laugh out loud at yourself (even when you're by yourself). I find it's extraordinary to discover people who are themselves, want to be themselves, and are happy with who they are, and are secure enough to allow others to be who they. Helpful if one does what they say and send the same signals. I'm not perfrect, but I do strive to be better. :-)
I'm not going to write that I like surfing (can't), wine tasting, travel to far away places, or the host of other things that people write about. Really, who wouldn't like to travel to some nice place? I'd rather be somewhere with someone special, than somewhere special with just someone. Is that you? Of course, I'll take someone special in a special somewhere above all. Besides if you can't get past my Barry White like voice (well not *that* deep)... That said, I really like music... (live music can be sooo good) and movies ... missed my calling perhaps? I also like walks, hiking, movies (again), music (again), tennis, biking, live comedy, and sporting events.
I like those rare people who do nice things for others when no one is looking and doing it without looking for credit. Care to find and share in life in whatever and wherever that takes you? Then you're the person I'd be interested in hearing from.
And if you read this far, just maybe... but first: Do you have a decent picture of yourself posted (if you expect a response), not just a picture of your dog, cat, or bird, or a dozen different sunsets, or sea animals (huh?), can someone besides your mother recognize you in your pictures, a picture where the camera is closer than 100 feet, are they clear enough to be a DMV photo, but friendlier than a police arrest photo? And lastly, are you available for a potential relationship and eventual intimacy, gasp! Life's too short for just friendships that go nowhere... Not a sugar daddy either (sheez!). Hopefully you've been in at least one decent relationship (for more than 3 years) at one time.... and you've left most of your baggage far behind. Read this far and still interested, then contact me. Lastly, no picture will get no response from me (winks or emails), sorry. Favor me, if you must, if you prefer that I write first. Thanks and congrats for reading this far! :-)

Date men and women from California, United States. I’ve been very lucky in life, spent a few years early on as a professional athlete, over the years owned and/or operated several mid to large level successful companies, have traveled extensively in the U.S. and around the world, raised two very wonderful children (25 - 22 out of the nest). It’s fair to say I’m very driven, dedicated and definitely and man that knows what he wants and NOT afraid to take risks to get it. I mean - hey… No guts - No glory right? What I really mean is - so many people go through this existence separating their feelings from life itself - I’m not one them. I’ve had bad times like anyone else, but have learned and grown stronger from them - I know exactly what I’m looking for and understand the effort and sacrifice it takes to get there. Listen: I’m not trying to paint myself as the “perfect man” - far from it - I’ve got my share of character short-comings like all of us. I just firmly believe that to be a better man in this world it requires work everyday and equally the same with my relationship and the special woman in my life.
WHO I am: Really just a regular guy. Outgoing/fun loving yet professional, uncomplicated yet intelligent, strong yet sensitive, spontaneous yet responsible, honest, respectful, witty, athletic, romantic, passionate and loyal especially to the woman in my life - Yeah, I know what your saying/thinking - all men cheat… no they don’t - I never have - seriously. Does that mean I’ve never been tempted? Of course I have - I just choose to honor my commitment....
I also have an incredibly big heart. I know this sounds like part of everyone else’s “cookie cutter” profile but, I’ve actually been accused of being “too nice” by business associates and friends alike… I simply won’t buy into that selfish/cynical world we live in nonsense. There are still a lot of good, honest, value-add people out there - they’re just harder to find. I don’t judge someone’s success and/or friendship based on their title or the size of their bank account. Deep down I guess I’m just an “old fashion” idealist at my core…
I’m very well spoken and do my best to be a gentleman - kind and courteous to everyone both in the business world and in my social life. Should read: I definitely wouldn’t embarrass you in any environment when we go out. : ) However, I am very direct - some people love it and some shy away from it. The upside is I will never tell you what you want to hear - unless it’s one of those female questions that ALL males learn at an early age to avoid with their lives - like: Do I look fat in this honey? : )
Now with that said, I’m looking for a special woman to spend the rest of my life with. Yeah, I know that’s a daring request. Admittedly I’m very picky - does that mean I’m looking for the perfect girl - no - why? Adjusting to someone’s imperfections make your love/partnership that much stronger if YOU chose to accept them unconditionally.
Who you are: You need to be looking for a committed relationship (a real one strongly based on the above). PLEASE be honest with yourself about this - I mean… yeah , I get it - everyone on this site is looking a relationship, but you would be surprised at some of the emails I get - one night stand offers, young trophy bride wannabe’s and professional “ex-wives” looking for their next “ex-husband“… I might be “too nice” but definitely not naive. Nor am I looking for endless drama or a high maintenance girl - other than that - just want to have fun, travel and love sports - especially baseball. If you’re a Giants or an A’s fan sorry but my son plays for the Atlanta Braves ; ) - and I played for the Kansas City Royal’s so expect to see some games where I�ll have a different hat on.
Just email me don’t wink. It’s really your choice on how we get together. I say that because I realize there are probably just as many crazies in your email box here as there are in mine and it is truly important to me that you feel safe and comfortable.
Thanks...

Meet people from California, United States. I was recently told that I look thinner in person. All I could think of was; "Do I look fat in these jeans...?"
I moved here from Maui a few years ago (with a brief stop in SoCal) and I'm still learning my way around. I'd love to meet someone smart and sweet and funny to explore with.... But first: Allow me to introduce myself; I am 1Dcentguy. I was raised in an old fashioned Italian household. I believe in morals and virtue, respect and integrity, love and empathy. My Parents were married 58 years, and they were more in love the day my father passed than the day they were married. I was raised to be a gentleman. That means opening a car door, being respectful and polite...Cards, flowers and little goofy notes where you least expect them is something someone close might receive. I like to play and be funny and goofy and serious and philosophical, and introspective, and sharing and helpful and just a plain good listener. I am very particular about who I let into my world. I desire someone to be my closest confidant, my partner, my friend. The one I can't wait to share good news with, to trust with my heart, and to trust me with theirs...to tell me when they don't agree with me, and why. I want to be truly and completely in love, like a school boy bursting with joy. I have seen some wonderful relationships...and I have seen many more poor ones. I know the difference, and some of the reasons. Perhaps we can investigate the possibilities together. I am patient and believe in taking things slow, and doing things right. I'm not looking for someone I can live with, I'm looking for the one I can't live without. I wonder where she is...?
**Bonus Material**
"The Key and The Bottle"
Once upon a time there was a race car driver…..and on his way to a big race far, far from his home in the city, he stopped at a roadside store for something cold to drink. He spotted from the corner of his eye this little red velvet box……and upon closer inspection, noticed a golden skeleton key with a heart shaped handle. And on this red velvet box there were the words inscribed: "Key to my heart". So, he bought that key and just before the start of the race he put it in the pocket of his driving suit for good luck. Well as it turns out, our romantic racer won that day. The fans jumped to their feet as the camera man rushed to victory lane for a post race interview……the trophy girl handed our racer a big bottle of champagne and a huge trophy. The crowd cheered and called out "Shake it up-SHAKE IT UP!" as is customary in such events. Our romantic racer looked square into the camera and said "This is one of the happiest days of my life….but it is not the happiest" as he pulled the key from his pocket….."One day I will meet the love of my life…..and I will give her this key….and we will drink this champagne….and THAT will be the happiest day of my life". This is a true story. I still have that key. ...and I still have that Bottle. -1Dcentguy
**About you**
Two eyes meet across a crowded room. You can feel the tingle go up your spine as your back instinctively arches and your lips send a smile back to the stranger. But the eyes don't look away. You are being watched, and you love it. That feeling of excitement and electricity starts in your stomach. A combination of arousal and that sinking feeling...the one that you get when you imagine the tender passion of being kissed on the lips. As he begins to walk towards you your veins flood with emotion...your heart begins to pound. Something incredible is about to happen...if you will only take that next step and SAY HELLO...

Date a man from Pleasanton, United States. Looking for the perfect match...HA HA. Well let's see. I'm 6'0, athletic and stay on the go. I enjoy working out, mainly cardio, enjoy a good movie, and traveling. I run my own business which keeps me busy, but never too busy for someone special. I like good food, friends and someone that I can be with, without having to talk all the time. I am a big fan of no "past life drama". That being said, I don't mind talking about the past, in fact I enjoy it to an extent that you can share memories about good times and laugh about it. I enjoy women who are classy, athletic, and look great in a ball cap or a cocktail dress with or without makeup. A natural beauty. A little/alot sarcasm doesn't hurt either. No I'm not looking for a 10. I want to be proud of her and visa a verse.

Meet someone special from Pleasanton, United States. I am real passionate man an enjoy pleasure an all that life has to offer and explore. My friends describe me as fun an witty.The person i want to attract is ready for a serious relationship, im looking in a relationship to get married an have a family!

Date single man from Pleasanton, United States. Don't warch TV. Into high consciousness and karaoke. Wannabe firefighter (for my mid life crisis). Lived in NYC, Wash, D.C., L.A. and the Mojave Desert. Avoid endless poltical controversies. Getting into shape after the winter. Looking forward to some week-ends in Yosemite.

Meet a soulmate from Pleasanton, United States. i am looking for someone that is willing to take a risk and jump in head first that i can travel and explore with. i am tired of lies and deciept. i want only to have a nice loving relationship with someone that can accept me for who i am and not spend their life complaining and trying to change me into someone that doesn't exist.

Date men and women from Pleasanton, United States. Honest, Educated, kind hearted, caring and family oriented.

Meet people from Pleasanton, United States. I am a good listener and a sensitive logical type that likes to see the good in everything. One of the most important aspects of my life is my character. My words and the promises I make with them define who I am. I am just an average guy looking for that special someone I can cherish. I am dreamer and a realist who likes to take adventures.