Date single man from United States. An accomplished professional and sincere gentleman. Blue eyes, blond hair -- a typical Californian. My hair is thinning out, which has to do with my fair, Northern European ancestry. But then, there are so many ways a man can be stylish. In addition to my regular job, I'm also a writer and a sports enthusiast -- actively, not in the couch-potato sense. I attended USC and am a devoted fan. What can I say? I have two sons who are very important to me. I enjoy spending time with them when possible. My youngest just graduated high school and is now off to college. I'm a family-oriented person and being on good terms with family is very important to me.
I'm not into playing games. I understand that this finding a "soulmate" is tricky stuff. However, I will say this, I do believe in love -- and that it's possible to fall in love at any stage of one's life. I'm definitely a romantic. There is also that matter of chemistry. I suppose it has a lot to do with appearances -- some people simply appeal to you. That's understandable, and something we all have to acknowledge. So I'm not hurt if it's not there for you, and I trust you won't be hurt if it's not there for me. To pretend it is, when it isn't is probably the worst thing one can do. But there is a lot to be said for taking the time to decide wisely. After all, some people can grow on you I suppose.
I wish you the very best of luck in finding your match.If you must know -- She is not intimidated by intellectual conversation. She is not a tease or a princess wearing a tiara. Midwestern values are all right with me. She has a bright sense of humor, is reasonably fit, and takes pride in her appearance. She is in control of her life, including her diet, and particularly her money. She is intelligent and insightful about the human condition, and sophisticated, but also someone who is uninhibited and able to indulge in the spontaneous moment. Together, we might enjoy a glass of wine as the sun slips slowly into the sea, or a slow dance beneath the stars. Naturally, she is a friend and a lover, and focused on the important things in life. We simply fit.
Meet a woman from United States. A little about me... Although I am not originally from L.A., I now call it home as I've lived here 30 years. I work hard, and in recent years, have learned to better balance my life. I enjoy the beach, mountains, and desert (not when it's 100 degrees though). In my spare time, I enjoy movies, concerts (Hollywood Bowl, the Greek, etc.), art museums and art festivals, photography, dining out with friends, as well as staying home and watching old movies or working on my home projects. Although I enjoy hiking, I've not had an opportunity to do this recently. I try to get to the gym several times a week and try to eat a healthy diet. I am a dog lover, but don't have any pets now. At some point, though, I'd love to get a dog to greet me each day - - how can you resist that wagging tail and unconditional love?!
About the one I'm looking for... Some of the qualities I am seeking in a partner include a sense of humor, similar values, intelligence, integrity, sincerity, honesty, and a good communicator. That special chemistry is also required, but how can that be defined? I prefer someone who doesn't smoke and either does not drink or drinks socially. (Also no drugs please.) I do not consider myself to be athletic, so anyone seeking a partner for any extreme sports would probably not be a good match. I'd also like to find someone who is financially responsible and who has a sense of generosity and values courtesy and goodwill towards others.
I'd just like to add... I'd like to find someone who is independent, but who has the time to devote to building a good relationship. Over time, I've learned that compromise, patience, compassion, and good communication are required for a relationship to last. Being supportive of each other in good times and bad is also of utmost importance. Good relationships take work, and I'd like to find someone who understands this and is willing to put in the time and effort for a good relationship.