Date men from United States / California / Pacifica, 56 year old

Date someone special from Pacifica, United States. i'm not one who likes talking about myself so let me do this as a list. I'm:
-direct, kind, helpful, generous, considerate, loyal
-irreverent and opinionated but genuinely open to others opinions and irreverence
-self-sufficient but incomplete without a partner
-adventurous and risk taker but know when to play it safe (which was not always the case)
-occasionally a loner who doesn't really like to be alone
-trying to be the best dad ever.
-a surfer (love the north shore of oahu in winter)
-a musician (mostly bluegrass, folk and rock)
-a recovering graphic designer
-originally from east coast but have been in san francisco for over 30 years
-(warning, cliche ahead) am told i act and look younger than my age
-recently divorced with happy, smart daughter (who i dearly love) and is with me half time
-always curious and interested
-jewish but not observant
-definitely a doer rather than an observer
-known for having a mischievous streak
-finding my social and emotional footing after 18 years of marriage
-living a fairly modest lifestyle
-typically wearing jeans and t-shirts around the house and often to work but clean up nicely for more formal events