Date men and women from United States / California / Oxnard, 53 year old

Date men and women from California, United States. Auguste Rodin said "Nothing is a waste of time if you use the experience wisely." (Most likely post sculpting "The Thinker").
Henry Moore said "To know one thing, you must know the opposite."
"Life is about making mistakes. Dying is about wishing one had made more mistakes" From TV series American Embassy.
With that same mindset, I left South Florida in 1993 to see the world. I have visited 20 countries, 8 more than 5 times and have lived and worked in 3. It has been an intensely rewarding spiritual journey and has given me a very philosophical outlook on life. To quote St. Thomas Aquinas, "To one who has faith, no explanation is necessary. To one without faith, no explanation is possible."
I have also lived and worked in a number of major cities in the U.S., including New York, L.A., D.C., Philadelphia, Atlanta, and Scottsdale, and spent extensive time working in San Francisco.
I have recently returned to the US after completing my European job assignment.
I do enjoy meeting new people. I have always said that I learn something new from every person I ever meet, no matter where they are from or what their socioeconomic status may be. I am fluent in Spanish and French, and can get by in Italian and Portuguese. I read a lot and am pretty up to date on most topics.
My personality can best be described as an easygoing educational and professional overeachiever who seeks a balance in life and the right person to partner with and create a spectacular relationship. My theory is that if you are going to do something, you might as well do it just right.
I believe in working hard and playing hard. As the line from a James Bond movie goes, "What's the point of living if you can't feel alive." I am somewhat competitive, along the lines of "if you are not the lead dog, the view never changes." Errol Flynn's autobiography is one of the most interesting books I have read.
My perfect match is someone who shares my desire for spontaneity and belief that in its own meandering way, life takes you where you are supposed to be. Hopefully they have read and gotten the message of "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho. They take a global view of events, and enjoy intellectual conversations. If they are familiar with Turandot's three riddles, hanging out together will be a lot of fun.
I really do enjoy finding that one special thing you can whisper in a woman's ear (not explicit talk) that puts a sparkle in her eye and a smile on her face because she knows I really care.
My own personal theory is that the term "dating" is very 20th Century as applied to adults. I agree with the concept that the first meet should be for coffee or tea (or drinks, depending upon the time of day). It really should be about whether two people click. If I cannot make you laugh and put you at ease enjoying the moment in 30-45 minutes, it's highly unlikely the chemistry will ever be there.
Subsequent meets would involve a wine tasting, taking a cooking class and actually trying to make one of the dishes (I like cooking and entertaining), and going to some jazz club or other live performance (not a stadium-size concert, but a small place where local bands play).
It's all about seeing whether we are good friends. I have always believed that your partner has to be your best friend. If the two people write down the ten best things they like to do and at least 7 of the ten do not match, I am not convinced a relationship would work.

Meet single man from California, United States. This is always the tricky part....how much do I reveal, what is acceptable & when to shut the heck up...With all that I have been through, there are still experiences & adventures I'd like to enjoy. I work hard, but always have time to relax & find that playtime/downtime, is just as important to both my physical, as well as mental health.
I would like to find someone who I can share my adventures with. Someone who can enjoy the quiet beauty of a sunset, or a hike through the hills, but would be just as comfortable dressing up & going out for a night of dinner & dancing and all the fun that comes with it.
I don't drive a fancy car, dress in the latest fashions or feel comfortable paying $$ for a few pieces of meat & a few veggies on my plate...but I do clean up good, know my dinner fork from my soup spoon & my car is paid for...I'm about as down home as you can get.
As for my faith...it is the most important aspect of my life...I faithfully serve my church & beleive that God will always be 1st in my life...and everything else comes second....don't get me wrong, I beleive in family, friends & strong relationships, but they don't mean anything if I have no foundation on which to build them on.
I believe in treating a lady like a lady & that includes opening doors, using my manners & never putting her second to anyone...(other than God)...lol
I am good with children, loved by pets & know how to clean up after myself. I am looking for a long term relationship, with someone who seeks the same, but am not in the need of jumping into any relationship right away....after all this time, I can wait a little longer for that special woman.
In all, I am on the search for my partner, I want to share the sunsets looking for that "flash of green" while just enjoying what life has for us....I would like to find someone who is adventurous at heart to walk with me in this journey called life....not behind me, nor in front of me....but beside me....I know you are out there...and I am waiting.....peace & prosperity on your search my friends.

Date people from California, United States. Ok, i have a good sense of humor, Is that good enough? I do like to go to the movies, to..But anyway as i am writng this, my Green bay Packers have just destroyed the Dallas Cowboys. But getting back to writing here, man this is not easy, is it. I just read my old pofile and I thought it was really.....not good.
I am a good trust worthy person, I try to stay in shape, I dont smoke, I do have drinks with friends every now and then. I have three great kids that are doing very well. I would like to do some traveling. I like to play golf, and playing poker is fun too. You know it would be great if I could write a great big story of who I am, but I feel that meeting a person would be a better way to really know who we are......what do you think?
Lets talk

Meet someone special from California, United States. I am a Southern Gentleman by birth. My life has and continues to be full of adventure. I'm always looking for more to learn and places to learn about. My closest friends say I'm an undercover geek! During the day I'm the Director of Information Technology for a local government agency, hence the geek in me. However, i'm not your average geek, by no means.
Two other careers I cherish are that of being a Scuba diving instructor and a boat captain.
For years I've had the itch to learn to play the guitar and for the last year have been actively taking lessons. I love to cook and shop for kitchen gadets (this I should slow down on).
I can be somewhat shy till I get to know you. I am a lover not a fighter, and don't like drama. I am more of a giver than a taker. I am young at heart, playful, down to earth and somewhat silly at times. I am looking for someone that likes at least some of the things I do. Someone that will be my best friend and the love of my life. I love romance and know that in a relationship that you have to work at it in order to keep that romance going. I am looking for that special someone to grow old with and to have many new adventures with along the way. I am ready to find true love and give her my heart fully.
I retired from the U.S. Air Force after a 20-year career in 1997. I have traveled around the world many times and have many experiences which have shaped my thoughts and my desires.
I am, a good guy who is trying not to be last....

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I"m a Fun loving, caring, passionate, down to earth person, who is looking for the same in his partner. Are you looking for that special someone who is going to be faithful to just you. Then look no further.

Meet a man from California, United States. I am about living life to the fullest, really going for the gusto, and seeing what I am made of. I like to push it to the max in self discovery~body, mind, spirit, soul. I would love an activity partner to do fun stuff like martial arts or exercising on the beach. I love going places, seeing new things, talking and laughing at some cool eatery. Eventually and after a thorough getting to know one another period, I am definitely into stepping things up, life partner, raising a family.. I am here to make a difference on this planet. I could write on and on about myself but I am more interested in YOU and ready to have some fun! Namaste

Date men and women from Oxnard, United States. I am what I am / I have many good things to share I am very funny when I feel trusted & needed/ I don"t like selling my self / I am a humble ,carefree, punctual , & dependable. I like to drive , I have made limos, & I drove Limos for the Four Seasons In Ha. I can really trip you out oranges,peaches pairs & plums.Enough of me.

Meet single man from Oxnard, United States. OK, this is really frustrating now. I've attempted to write this 3 times now and each time it has timed out. I don't have anything pre-written to copy, and I'm hoping it won't time out on me again. So here's the rushed, unabridged version of what I've tried to write. I travel extensively, I love food and love to try and recreate what I've eaten. I am creative, have a photography background, would like to paint from my photos if I had more time. I have a playful hamster that spins the wheels inside my head. She will try to kill you from laughter, or at least make you pee a little. there's just way too much to put on such a short space, but if I've intrigued you enough, with this little ditty, send me an email. and pics. I guess that's the next thing I have to do. Hopefully this will work this time.

Date a woman from Oxnard, United States. I am a professional jazz singer. I love God. He is first in my life. I love dancing, singing, playing the piano, movies, traveling, walking on the beach, love boats, going to plays, and meeting lots of interesting people. I owned Boutiques, Now I am a Lease manager for a Dealership. I am a very Classy lady, I am very confident in myself. I am a professional woman who knows what she wants, and where I am going. If you are looking only for sex, don't bother writing me. I am that woman who has lots of class. I am from Baton Rouge Louisiana. I've been in CA. for 12 years. I have two beautiful daughters. My oldest is 32 and my baby is 26. My oldest lives in NY and my youngest live in Buckhead Atlanta GA. I have song with many Artist. I did the opening show for Miles Davis in Stuttgart Germany, Jazz Festival in New Orleans, Sang for Clint Eastwood at the Mission Ranch in Carmel CA. Song at Mastro's Steak House in Thousand Oaks CA. and song in Newport Beach CA. My taste of music is Jazz, Blues and Classical Music. I am looking for someone who's,professional,intelligent,romantic,open minded and very confident. I am looking for someone to love me, adore me, respect me, be loyal, trustworthy, affectionate, understanding, not afraid to talk about anything and love to travel. I am not interested in anyone who has baggage. I don't want a man who talks about there Ex-Wifes all the time. I am not your Ex,and don't compare me to them. Most of all I am looking for a wonderful husband. LITTLE NOTE: I want a man who is not afraid to be with a Black Woman.

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