Date someone special from Orinda, United States. My life is a reflection of my values: walking with integrity, compassion, good humor and an appreciation for the gift of just being. I am looking for someone whose choices are informed by what feeds their soul, community and planet. My profession guides me to approach people with compassion, open-heartedness, curiousity and a bit of tough love by reflecting that we are constantly creating and recreating our lives and ourselves with what we choose. I see not only the truth of where people are but also hold what's possible and where they're heading. I do this for myself first so that I can do it for others. I trust and honor my intuition and emotions as compasses that are equally as valid as my intellect. This all sounds very serious, but my days are also filled with lightness, humor, and a zany appreciation for just how ridiculous life can be. Little dogs in sweaters give me the giggles. I believe that the world is fundamentally good and that we rest in the caring arms of a benevolent force, always.
I live a pretty healthy lifestyle, am vegetarian for moral reasons, and do bikram yoga to stay physically and mentally fit. I also have a soft spot for gangsta rap, the F-word, black clothes, high heels, sarcastic humor and this hookah bar in the Tenderloin. I am affectionate, physically and verbally, and would want to be able to express my feelings and appreciation for you in lots of ways. Lots of long gazes with small smiles for the right person, warmth in my eyes and heart. You'd feel it.
You are someone who does not take himself or his life for granted. You care about the well-being of others -- individuals, your community and the planet. You are simultaneously mystified and in awe of women and our ability to connect deeply with our hearts, and strive to do the same. You don't have to be a therapist, but you see the benefit of being able to recognize, name, discuss and feel your emotions. You are masculine, smell great and take care of yourself, as you want to show up for life as your best self. If not a person of color yourself, you are an ally and passionate about social justice. You have explored the world, gotten outside your comfort zone, learned from your mistakes and do not settle for complacency or mediocrity. You also appreciate the small pleasures and downtime -- naps in the sun, long conversations over coffee, strolling.
Together we seek a relationship that values honesty, mutual respect, support and admiration, and the sense that the other is the coolest person in the world. We know the importance of having our own lives and identities, that that adds richness and flavor to what we create together. We also will approach life as a team. We might join the Peace Corps one day, move onto a farm in West Marin, get a pet macaw or learn how to ride motorcycles. If most of this resonates with you, say hello!
Meet someone special from California, United States. Hello there,
first of all thanks for stopping by. I'll do my best to make your time worthwhile ;)
I would consider myself as an easy going,down to earth,honest,loyal,passionate,adventurous... and looking for the same qualities in my guy..
A few facts about me..
I'm originally from Europe
I love to do a variety of things, am master of none
I don't mind getting my hands dirty, but can dolled up well
I love to laugh and enjoy life as much as I can, so I won't feel sorry one day when I'll look back
I am an adrenaline junkie and always up for a new adventure
I love to be active and live a healthy life style (Please, if your understanding of being active is watching a baseball game, sipping beer and working your way through a bag of Doritos,we are not a good match!)
I love sushi
I am a chocoholic
....there's much more, just wanted to give you a taste of what you're getting yourself into ;)
I am looking for a deep connection, great chemistry, someone who is happy,energetic, confident and passionate about life. I'm looking for my best friend, someone who takes a good care of himself, lives a healthy lifestyle, has a great sense of humor and will make me laugh.
I'm looking forward to hearing from you :)
Date someone special from California, United States. A little about me and who I think I'd best get along well with...
I am recently into ballroom dancing (especially like the Argentine Tango); love cooking vegan and being outdoors (hiking, beaches, parks, stargazing etc); have a daily meditation practice and read a lot... mostly psychology, spirituality and interpersonal relating. I do my best to be sincere, assertive, balanced and kind - fall short at times but mostly feel good about my efforts and think I'm continually improving. Reciprocity, empathy and good communication are important to me so it would be great to meet someone who values and works on these things too.
Think I'd also get along well with someone who has had hardships in life but has worked through them to his satisfaction; is happy with himself but continues to learn, grow and improve and he tends to "get" people. Ideally he would like to dance, love nature and animals, live a responsible, healthy lifestyle and have a good sense of humor.
If interested so far send a wink or write, either way is fine.
Meet someone special from United States. I'm quiet but also socially active, loving kids and animals. I spent most of my spare time reading or with family and friends.
I'm not very physically active, but I love swimming. I enjoy travel, hiking, visiting museums, attending concerts.
Date a woman from United States. I have a big heart and I am honest, loyal, warm, optimistic. Everyone says that lucky man will get me. I am looking for honest , loyal man who wants to build happy loving family and can be my friend, partner and husband rest of our lives.
Meet a woman from California, United States. I know that there's a man out there who will cherish me as much as I adore him. He's the reason I'm signing up for Match.Com... that slight but heavenly chance that he'll find me here. I don't know his name, nationality, religion, income.. any of that. All I know is that I hope to recognize him when we meet.
The words that mean the most to me in our relationship: togetherness, trust, chemistry, laughter, adventure, love, affection, respect.
Date a soulmate from United States. Chances, choices and changes. All are good things to seek, and I continue to do so. There have been serious relationships, but never one I could "forever" for, so I've stayed single.
My career was thrust at me, I'm sure, for saying as a high school swimmer, "I'd never be swim coach. That job sucks". Well, many good years later, it's rarely sucked, and the joys I've experienced positively impacting the lives of so many young children have been countless. I do love my job, and I'm able to share the passion for swim coaching with the adult population, as well, as a masters swim coach.
Born in Indiana, and a fairly successful young swimmmer, our family traveled all over that region (never west of the Mississippi River) seeking swim meets and ever greater competition. After college, I made it west to Boulder, Colorado, where I remained for many years, and often return to.
Though Boulder, until recently, would be called home, through my swimming, whether jobs or coaching opportunities, I've been fortunate enough to travel extensively. I've worked in Boulder; Dallas; San Francisco; outside the Phoenix area in Mesa, AZ; and now, I'm working in Orinda, CA (very happy to be out of Arizona!). I've coached (and competed) in Munich, Germany; Riccione, Italy; and Perth, Australia. I did a 3-month "apprentice-ship" of sorts outside the Perth area in Mandurah, Australia. Despite all this travel, I am only minimally coherent in Spanish.
I've been out hiking the trails of the East Bay with my faithful pooch Cisco since arriving, and look forward to some swimming attempts (with my wetsuit in tow) at Muir Beach soon. Would love company to explore the area further, and offer some good conversation. More??? We'd have to see....
Meet someone special from California, United States. This was a very difficult process for me...so I asked my best friend the other day how she would describe me and she continued like this..."She is an incredible mother of three beautiful children, a most amazing friend and confident, she loves life and is passionate about everything she takes on."
Date a soulmate from California, United States. Who I am:
My friends and family would describe me as loyal, well-balanced, and compassionate. I make friends for life, and I greatly value my friendships. I think of myself as trustworthy, sensitive, and down-to-earth. I strive to have a positive outlook about life. I love to laugh.
My daughter:
Adopting my daughter from China was the best decision I ever made. My daughter teaches me to approach life with wide-eyed wonder. On a rainy Monday morning what could be more fun than stomping in puddles with shiny new rain boots and counting worms on the way to the school bus stop? My daughter is a happy child, and she often makes me smile. I am grateful for her being. We're lucky to live in the Bay Area, surrounded by supportive family and friends. On week-ends we like to stroll through the farmer's market, explore local parks, savor ice cream at the neighborhood ice cream shop, and picnic at the zoo.
Education and work:
My twenties were focused on college, graduate school and a clerkship for a federal judge. At Stanford, I majored in economics with honors in humanities. I graduated from law school at University of California Berkeley Law (Boalt Hall). Following law school, I had an amazing experience clerking for a federal judge in Miami, Florida. My thirties were focused on full time law firm associate life, mostly in large San Francisco based law firms. It was interesting to work on a variety of cases and explore different areas of law practice. My forties have been focused on adopting a child and balancing my professional interests and goals with family life.
Leisure time and interests:
I enjoy spending time with family and friends, sharing thoughts about our lives, families, careers, social issues, and current events. I love being outdoors --- hiking on Bay Area trails, walking on Stinson Beach, and swimming wherever it's warm. I love classical music and enjoy going to concerts. I have been fortunate to have had opportunities to travel to Europe, Asia and Latin America. My parents are Austrian, and I have really enjoyed visiting our relatives in Austria--- going to cultural events in Vienna, swimming in lakes near Salzburg and hiking in the Tyrolean Alps. I have traveled to China twice, and I would like to learn more about Chinese culture. Even though my current day-to-day life does not allow for international travel adventures, those experiences shaped me and broadened my horizons. I hope to have future opportunities for travel and interesting adventures.
What I'm seeking:
I am looking for someone who is tall, educated, and communicative. His friends would describe him as stable, trustworthy, and kind. I admire men who are self-confident, easy-going, thoughtful, and open-minded. I enjoy being with men who have a good sense of humor. I would like to be with a man who has a strong moral compass and who shares my outlook on life. I am looking for someone who would enjoy participating in a family-centered life style. I would like to meet a man who is relatively close to my age (mid-40's to mid-50's) and who is comfortable with himself. I am seeking a long-term committed relationship with the potential for marriage.
. I'm a feminine yet independent and fun/funny/silly (?) woman looking for a real man. I'd really like to have some big strong arms around me. I need a man who's got it all together, is independent, honest and true, but who acts on his passions (and takes me with him--MOST of the time--we all need our space after all!).Must be self reliant and strong, but good-hearted. A certain silliness and occasional sarcasticness are also plusses. I'd like to find a guy whose personality is part Clint Eastwood/Dennis Miller/Chris Rock and...Cary Grant!
. Looking for someone who likes to laugh, smile and enjoy life. Hoping to find someone who likes to give back to his community and still has time for fun...there is so much I still want to do and new things I want to try.
. Hello!
Men tell me I am a unique woman. Friends describe me as genuine, funny and down-to-earth. Flattery will get you everywhere :) No,I'm not perfect and I don't expect you to be either. What fun is that?
I am attracted to strong, confident men who appreciate my brain as much as my warmth, love for laughter, and my outgoing personality. If you are a gentleman who opens doors and was raised to treat a woman with chivalry, I will appreciate it. If you enjoy the dance of flirtation in the context of chemistry, I won't disappoint you.
My lifestyle is a healthy and active one. If I'm not in a class at the gym, you'll likely find me hiking, playing tennis, or walking the dogs. I have a thirst for learning, so next up is fly fishing. We live in a beautiful place and I love to enjoy all that it has to offer. I must say that having a glass of wine and laying in a hammock under a shady tree sounds equally appealing at times.
The profession I created for myself is stimulating and interesting — every day is different. Being semi self-employed allows me the luxury of flexibility in my schedule and a great work/life balance. I work to live instead of living to work.
I have a healthy sense of myself and what I desire in a partner. I'm curious and love to explore new places, foods, cultures, and ideas. I also have 12 year old twin girls, so you liking kids is a must. My circle of close friends is small and intimate, but I have a larger group of terrific friends in my life as well. I'd love to add a special man to the mix. Is that you?
My primary photo was taken in July 2012, so there will be no (bad) surprises when we meet.