Date someone special from Orinda, United States. I WILL NOT RESPOND TO WINKS, PICTURE LIKES, OR PROFILES WITH NO PICTURES. If you really want to communicate with me do so by sending a nice email, its so much more personal.
I am an optimistic self motivated guy who has been fortunate to experience a lot of what the world has to offer. Traveled to Europe, Japan, and many Latin American countries, recently Egypt. I love music, art, science, nature and humor that enrich our lives. 3d gen San Francisco boy with a bent for the country, water, the beach, and sunshine. But I still love my City.
While I have been fortunate to have built 2 successful businesses, the last of which I turned over to my youngest son a few years ago, my biggest success are my sons and granddaughters. My sons consider me [ and their mom] to be among their best friends. I make my home in CC County and spend time at my home on Clear Lake where we sail, hang out with friends, cycle and I have a hobby vineyard from which I make award winning wine. If you don't enjoy wine I am not your guy.
I have had some uninvited challenges come into my life, worked hard to face them as well as I could and to learn from them. Not easy stuff. I believe a life examined is a life lived well. I would want a partner to have done some of the same.
I stay fit by gym and cycling, and eating right, although I cheat with a burger and milk shake once and a while. I keep my mind sharp by continually learning, exploring new things and paying attention. I have a BA, MA and my politics are progressive. If you feel GW Bush was a great president I am not right for you. I care very much about whats happening to the planet. I am disturbed by the tone of civil discourse in the country and where it is taking us.
Things I like:
Wine, good food, chocolate chip cookies, roast lamb, sunsets, all sorbet, cute babies, Sees chocolates, apricot pie, PBS, NPR, BBC, some conventional drama shows, classical music especially guitar, the arts, culture, nice smiles, humor and laughter, and random acts of kindness.
Things I like to do:
beaches, tropics, lakes, rivers, mountains, deserts, sailing fast, cycling, skiing, being outside, learning, wine tasting, grape growing and making wine, travel, reading, slow meals with wine and good conversation, politics and world affairs.
Not so much:
I am not involved in active religion and if you are we are not a match. I don't golf, tennis, or ride horses. I like dogs but am not keen on sleeping with them. Long distance dating doesn't work for me as I live in the lovely SF Bay Area and unless you plan to move here soon, I am not a match. Granddaughter pics will tell you why.
Who am I looking for:
This is neither about dating nor about marriage for me. It's about finding a loving life partner and friend who wants to build a balanced relationship with a focus on a common values, a shared outlook on life and mutual interests. Having some overlapping and shared activities is important, but we both must have the space be able to do our own things and be who we are as individuals. I seek a woman who is intelligent, sharp minded, wants to be a friend, is looking for that special chemistry, is sensual and sexy, likes to kiss, smile and hold hands. She's flexible, curious, sharing, caring. She takes living seriously rather than herself, can laugh at herself and laugh with others, while looking after her emotional well being. I believe that I can bring these things to a life partner relationship.
She needs to be finished with marriages and prior relationships and be over the bad feelings. She has strong family values which she is willing to share with her partner. She is educated and has had a satisfying career and is within seeing distance of winding down, so that the 3d act can be shared and enjoyed with her loved ones. She is willing to take a risk, do the work to build a new relationship, as I will, be a friend, a loved one and lover.
Meet men and women from United States. I am blessed with good DNA both body and mind; am young for my age. I am someone with whom to journey; travelled but still open to adventure, confident but considerate, worldly but not cynical, self-reliant but collaborative, both stoic and sensitive, warm hearted but not needy, both generous and responsible. I am someone who is trustworthy.
I would like to find someone who is as beautiful on the inside as on the outside; someone who catches my fancy. Someone who finds fulfillment in relationships with friends and family as well as in those endeavors that matter to her. I am looking for someone who looks at me with admiring eyes and with whom I can be lovingly intimate.
Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am an active man, full of life and who is looking to share his life with a woman who loves the outdoors, travel at home and abroad, and who is open to new experiences.
I look and act like a much younger guy, and although I am not looking for an exercise partner, I would prefer someone who doesn't shy away from outdoor activities.
I am looking for my mate to be spiritual and attractive (to me). She should have a strong connection to family and friends, be confident in herself while having a sense of humor.
I can be intense in my interests, but I love life and can be very laid back when necessary. I am a good guy, honest, direct, open minded, and I always try to keep it simple.
I am loyal to friends and family, am affectionate, romantic, and sensual.
I was born and raised in the West Indies, have lived in England and Canada, and came to the Bay Area in 1970, recruited out of graduate school, and I LOVE it here.
I have been an engineer for Chevron, owned and operated 2 flower shops, had my own landscaping business, and then finally became a high school teacher. I am now retired, but sometimes substitute-teach at my local high schools..
Along the way I played professional cricket in England, was a snow ski instructor (still an avid snow skier), own a small bonsai nursery, and is father to two wonderful kids, boy, 36, and girl 33.
I attend CoDA meetings, and also do volunteer activities in my local area as a means of giving back.
I like movies, weekend car get-aways, small ethnic restaurants, plays, live music venues, cuddling, etc.
If you find this profile interesting, feel free to check me out.
Meet people from California, United States. I am a friendly man originally from Tyler, Texas. I attended Harvard Law School and practiced law for many years. Now, I am an editor in Southern California. I love baseball and most other sports, and I love my family; I have 1 daughter in her 40's, and twins in their early 20's. I am very grateful for family, and I hope to attract a wholesome woman with a great sense of humor.
Date a man from California, United States. I am a 72 year old active male.I play tennis a couple times a week and squash periodically. I have been called handsome and I do not look my age. I like the outdoors and am somewhat of a wood carver. I meet people easily and am fun to be with. I can share my deepest thoughts.....which has taken me a long time to learn. I am honest and expect honesty. I am not locked into any activity or mindset, so I can be very adaptable. I am looking for a lady that is physically active, who likes to learn and also to teach. I want somebody to share outdoor activities ... hiking, biking, etc. as well as watching a football game or the like.An attractive lady who likes likes to flirt in public....with me of course. Who is not so set in her ways and is open to new experiences. Who loves learning and teaching and does so by sharing thoughts and feelings. Who will debate on what she thinks is right....debate, not argue. Who can can enjoy social situations and also can be comfortable remaining at home.
Meet someone special from California, United States. I am good looking, nice guy searching for a the lady who turns me on both physically and mentally. The needs to be a little lust to start down athe road to a really long lasting romantic relationship.
Date people from United States. My life is a reflection of my values: walking with integrity, compassion, good humor and an appreciation for the gift of just being. I am looking for someone whose choices are informed by what feeds their soul, community and planet. My profession guides me to approach people with compassion, open-heartedness, curiousity and a bit of tough love by reflecting that we are constantly creating and recreating our lives and ourselves with what we choose. I see not only the truth of where people are but also hold what's possible and where they're heading. I do this for myself first so that I can do it for others. I trust and honor my intuition and emotions as compasses that are equally as valid as my intellect. This all sounds very serious, but my days are also filled with lightness, humor, and a zany appreciation for just how ridiculous life can be. Little dogs in sweaters give me the giggles. I believe that the world is fundamentally good and that we rest in the caring arms of a benevolent force, always.
I live a pretty healthy lifestyle, am vegetarian for moral reasons, and do bikram yoga to stay physically and mentally fit. I also have a soft spot for gangsta rap, the F-word, black clothes, high heels, sarcastic humor and this hookah bar in the Tenderloin. I am affectionate, physically and verbally, and would want to be able to express my feelings and appreciation for you in lots of ways. Lots of long gazes with small smiles for the right person, warmth in my eyes and heart. You'd feel it.
You are someone who does not take himself or his life for granted. You care about the well-being of others -- individuals, your community and the planet. You are simultaneously mystified and in awe of women and our ability to connect deeply with our hearts, and strive to do the same. You don't have to be a therapist, but you see the benefit of being able to recognize, name, discuss and feel your emotions. You are masculine, smell great and take care of yourself, as you want to show up for life as your best self. If not a person of color yourself, you are an ally and passionate about social justice. You have explored the world, gotten outside your comfort zone, learned from your mistakes and do not settle for complacency or mediocrity. You also appreciate the small pleasures and downtime -- naps in the sun, long conversations over coffee, strolling.
Together we seek a relationship that values honesty, mutual respect, support and admiration, and the sense that the other is the coolest person in the world. We know the importance of having our own lives and identities, that that adds richness and flavor to what we create together. We also will approach life as a team. We might join the Peace Corps one day, move onto a farm in West Marin, get a pet macaw or learn how to ride motorcycles. If most of this resonates with you, say hello!
Meet people from United States. Hello there,
first of all thanks for stopping by. I'll do my best to make your time worthwhile ;)
I would consider myself as an easy going,down to earth,honest,loyal,passionate,adventurous... and looking for the same qualities in my guy..
A few facts about me..
I'm originally from Europe
I love to do a variety of things, am master of none
I don't mind getting my hands dirty, but can dolled up well
I love to laugh and enjoy life as much as I can, so I won't feel sorry one day when I'll look back
I am an adrenaline junkie and always up for a new adventure
I love to be active and live a healthy life style (Please, if your understanding of being active is watching a baseball game, sipping beer and working your way through a bag of Doritos,we are not a good match!)
I love sushi
I am a chocoholic
....there's much more, just wanted to give you a taste of what you're getting yourself into ;)
I am looking for a deep connection, great chemistry, someone who is happy,energetic, confident and passionate about life. I'm looking for my best friend, someone who takes a good care of himself, lives a healthy lifestyle, has a great sense of humor and will make me laugh.
I'm looking forward to hearing from you :)
Date a soulmate from California, United States. A little about me and who I think I'd best get along well with...
I am recently into ballroom dancing (especially like the Argentine Tango); love cooking vegan and being outdoors (hiking, beaches, parks, stargazing etc); have a daily meditation practice and read a lot... mostly psychology, spirituality and interpersonal relating. I do my best to be sincere, assertive, balanced and kind - fall short at times but mostly feel good about my efforts and think I'm continually improving. Reciprocity, empathy and good communication are important to me so it would be great to meet someone who values and works on these things too.
Think I'd also get along well with someone who has had hardships in life but has worked through them to his satisfaction; is happy with himself but continues to learn, grow and improve and he tends to "get" people. Ideally he would like to dance, love nature and animals, live a responsible, healthy lifestyle and have a good sense of humor.
If interested so far send a wink or write, either way is fine.
Meet a soulmate from Orinda, United States. I'm quiet but also socially active, loving kids and animals. I spent most of my spare time reading or with family and friends.
I'm not very physically active, but I love swimming. I enjoy travel, hiking, visiting museums, attending concerts.
Date men and women from United States. I have a big heart and I am honest, loyal, warm, optimistic. Everyone says that lucky man will get me. I am looking for honest , loyal man who wants to build happy loving family and can be my friend, partner and husband rest of our lives.
Meet a woman from California, United States. I know that there's a man out there who will cherish me as much as I adore him. He's the reason I'm signing up for Match.Com... that slight but heavenly chance that he'll find me here. I don't know his name, nationality, religion, income.. any of that. All I know is that I hope to recognize him when we meet.
The words that mean the most to me in our relationship: togetherness, trust, chemistry, laughter, adventure, love, affection, respect.