Date someone special from Ojai, United States. Are you smart and eccentric to nearly everyone? Do you think you're "different"?
Are you kind, compassionate, and intelligent?
Might you for at least a while more be slender, about average, or fit?
Are you reasonably mentally self-secure and independent, seeking a partnership of two, with the milk of human kindness being the currency between us?
Do you want to rely on someone trustworthy, committed, studious, self-aware, and open to self-started and negotiated change?
Are you non-violent? Can you step back from an emotional outburst? Can you self soothe without subsequent harboring of mistrust or hostilities?
Yes?? You're who I'm looking for.
If you believe you're 80% of the above, then please contact me, no matter where you live or what your age.
Who I am:
-- A smattering of additional characteristics: all the above, and... Independent. Smart. Knowledgeable. Educated. Inclusive. Generous- sometimes. Love of learning and sharing ideas.
-- As one who's intelligent and educated, it's tough to be unobservant.
-- Joyful, and delight in most things
-- Puts on a good show that can be sharp-tongued with a rapier wit, but not towards my team partner, you.
-- Leading edge knowledgeable and thinker on current events.
-- Dependable most of the time.
-- Funny as not in slapstick, but like Jon Stewart.
-- Supportive of one's goals, mine and yours.
-- Leader ready to lead and, with permission obtained from me, ready to follow.
-- Respectful of real needs of the other.
-- Playfully sexnsual -- to give to receive to watch to show to teach, and sometimes, even, to learn.
-- Seeker of quietude and enjoyer of a wide palette of music.
-- Sun-worshiper, as need to be warm.
-- Talker to rocks, animals, people and self.
-- Hunter of the truth.
-- Wry smiler and big laugher at the foolishness of mankind.
-- Celebrator of personal achievements, mine and yours.
-- Lover of children of all ages, and one who loves to help out.
-- A person who feels more complete when in the presence of their beloved.
-- Respecter of fair boundaries
-- Traveler who adds random side trips spontaneously just to see what there is to see. "Oh, look!" Last time was in front of the Milwaukee City Hall as I know that hoary bldg.
-- Seeker of a partner who can and will join in developing interesting plans for the future, a partner to share and support each other's goals as we work towards them.
-- Profound appreciator of being in my partner's heart space, with a hope the feeling is mutual.
-- One who is open to new adventures and one who's very involved in his business.
I'm a diverse thinker in areas of interest to me, and I'm not closed to continually expanding those interests. In one area, I'm at the leading edges of human applied technology while in another, I'm engaged in projects which advance the common good through for-profit business.
There are missing chapters in my book of life. I miss a playmate, a girl, woman, adult, partner, advocate, and so much more. I miss the opportunity to love, cherish, support, engage, and cheer for the woman in my life. If you're doing what you love, I'll laud you and if not, I'll be right there as you explore new direction.
It's essential that there's chemistry which is a must. I seek mutually experienced oxytocin highs aka ecstasy.
The pics of me are current. Apologies for none showing me in my finer duds. I got multiples of the Ferragamos and the rest of the outfit, but they're for street theater, not for kickin' it and being casual. I currently reside in Casualville, CA.
If you like to read and love to learn, if you're inherently intelligent (as in IQ), if you're want a safe man who'll be right alongside as you do the zaniest things and then shortly after, be right there, intellectually, able to discuss with you a large swatch of the breadth of human experience and awareness
Meet men and women from Ojai, United States. My friends would say I am easy to talk to when they need a shoulder. I smile at a babys giggle, a seniors pretty smile. I am grateful for every day of my life the good ones as well as the bad ones. I am passionate about people getting the proper health care and being treated as if they are going to live, not being treated with disrespect and disregard because of their age or illness.
Date a woman from Ojai, United States. I feel blessed to have had the wonderful life I have experienced: great family and friends, good education, successful career, seen the world and have helped many people and animals.
I can enjoy fishing in the morning and a black-tie affair in the evening. I'm a social animal and feel I have never met a stranger.
Forget needlepoint, cars are my passion (my Corvette to name one).
I feel it is important to maintain a healthy, active lifestyle and would expect the same from a partner.
I am always traveling. I was born with wanderlust and a sense of adventure--traveling feeds my soul. My ambition is what has provided me with a very successful career and comfortable lifestyle. I am just as proud to be a retired, successful business woman as other women are proud of being mothers.
I believe in living life to the fullest and I try to give back in different ways. My life is taking off, not winding down.
I am caring, attractive, smart, sexy, generous, youthful and a ton of fun. I am also a very passionate person and still have a very healthy appetite for physical intimacy.
Meet a soulmate from Ojai, United States. I am an artist, private chef, inline skate instructor and I don't do math !
My family is very important to me, yet we are not joined at the hip. I have a stepson who is married and lives on the east coast. My son and his wife live north of here about 2 hours and my daughter lives in Pacific palisades, about an hour and a half away.
My life is just about perfect I'm happy, busy most of the time and I don't need to be saved.
I am here on Match.com because I would like to add to my life, I would like to find someone to ski with and maybe a little traveling . I am very low maintenance , very little baggage and still get along with my former husband. In life you can't control other people or make them fit your mold, all you can do is control yourself and your acceptance of others personalities .
I would like to meet someone who loves the out of doors and all the activities available..Travel would be nice and I love road trips.
Date people from Ojai, United States. I am unpretentious, kind, gentle, warm, secure, reasonably smart, often happy. Kissing and hugging, admiring hills, eating shrimp are all fun. For years and years I have had to be a warrior in the business world to support myself. Now I would like to give breathing room to the poet within.
I live in a little house in Ojai under a huge oak tree. The house is teeming with way too many books, some spiders and dust, nice light, and two large enthusiastic dogs. I love the crazy energy of Patti Smith and cry over Malaguena, dance to sensual Braziliana. More makes me laugh than makes me cry, no shortage of absurdity all around. I don't watch much TV, but Netflix online is da bomb. Joking over breakfast with the grandkids is fun..how do they learn the same jokes I heard in third grade?
Lost my husband on Christmas Eve 2005 and miss him...he was a great guy, flawed just like me, but we finally loved each other deeply. Now it's time to make new memories.
My hard won wisdom is simple: enjoy to the fullest where and who and with whom you are; that's all we have.
Meet someone special from United States. I am an enthusiastic camper, love traveling, but am also content and comfortable spending time at home. I'm not sure what I want in a relationship yet, but after two people become friends, there are a lot of possibilities. I am semi-retired, and spend some time volunteering and helping others. I enjoy going to the movies, the theater, dining out, and prefer casual to dress up, although once in a while dressing up is fun.
I have lived a full, and fullfilled life, and don't know how anyone could do this without some baggage;; but my baggage is in a pretty good package, and doesn't overflow into today.
I love music (but can't sing a lick), and enjoy spending time with people. If you are interested in dinners, discussions, affection, and occasional debate.... let's talk.