Date women from United States / California / Occidental

Date a woman from United States. My life is full of life, love, laughter, family, health and nurture. After 18 years in Santa Monica, California, I moved to the lush beautiful Northern California in the country, where I maintain an active health practice among the redwoods and slight breeze on afternoons when I can read a book outside and enjoy a nice glass of wine or tea, dependingon my mood. I consider myself lucky and blessed to have had so many rich life experiences, a life filled with international travel and cultures, a wonderful son who lives in a big city, friends that frequently visit or invite me to their homes in other states. What's missing? A life partner for the future. My ideal man (heck, even a couple of great dates might inspire me) is an unquestionable giver, secure, smart, funny and not threatened by being with a smart, sexy, secure woman who only wants joy, happiness and peace. A bit cliche, I am sure, but don't we all deserve a little fairytale?
My interests include reading, horseback riding, painting (I have my own art studio) impressionist landscapes, yoga, hiking, animals, live music (rock and roll), and I am open to learning new ones as well. I have a sense of adventure and a spirit of fun that is backdropped with my self which is soft and balanced and full of nurture.
I am a petite girl with a lot of spunk and life, with no complaints (to date!) over my body or, ummm. interests. Feels good saying that at my age Although let's be clear, I am not looking for the "booty call," just an awesome sweet fun man to hold my hand, share intellectual interests, banter in a light and funny way, travel the world or even just down the street to breakfast or a farmer's market, and to basically share time and space with.
Let's see what happens.....
M.

Meet a woman from Occidental, United States. I am a recovering workaholic who finds pleasure in all things beautiful. I enjoy a great meal, jazz and conversation. Take me to the Commonwealth Club - walk the beaches of the Sonoma Coast - share in a home cooked meal. Life is truly what you make it.

Date someone special from California, United States. I am good, true, and have an inner beauty. My path is to live from an open heart, and cherish the tender moments that touch me deeply. I care about others. I love setting people at ease and making them feel comfortable around me. I can also be very flexible. I get unfixed quickly. I know myself well, have my own ideas and points of view, but I can also let go and see through other people's eyes. I realize that there are many ways to approach something. When faced with a difficult situation, I find my center fast. You can count on me. I follow through with what I say I'll do. I am both courageous and vulnerable. I have learned from the challenges as well as the joys of life.
My style is creative.....I cultivate an ongoing appreciation for the wonder around me. I am inspired by nature and the adventures that arise from those connections. I enjoy rhythms: the quiet ones of walking in the woods, and the soulful ones of moving across a dance floor. I love feeling the wind against my skin and the earth on my hands when I am gardening.
I can be fun and feisty and I can be deeply spiritual and sensual. I consider myself to be a seeker. I explore both inner and outer dimensions to expand my awareness. These explorations are exciting to me as I delve into new cultures. I appreciate novel ways of thinking and doing that widen the edges of my imagination and experience.
I value kindness, humor, integrity, and generosity of spirit. Engaging conversation with laughter relaxes me.
I respect a man who can be himself, and courageously communicates. I admire his ability to court adventure, and travel the terrains of both his heart and the world he lives in. I am attracted to a man who is energized by life. He can share intimately what has truth and meaning for him. He clearly demonstrates this in honorable action. He is present and aware, and expresses his love openly. He is in his body, loves his body, and takes good care of his body. He is social, relaxed, and open to sharing activities with mutual friends. We would be open to each others' friends and worlds. He would be my sweetheart, my best friend, my partner in play, and the love of my life.

Meet someone special from United States. I recently turned 70. My friends urge me not to disclose my age, but I figure there are youngish men who like vital, wise women who are older than they - there are oldish men who like youthful and spirited women who are slightly younger - and there are men in their early 70's who like women their own age. The rest, I don't worry about. I once had a client who was dating a man 25 years her junior. When asked how she felt about it, she said, "When you think of the eons and eons of years there's been life on this planet, the fact that we're here at the same time is a miracle - so what the F. . . difference does age make? " I had to admit she had a point. Big-hearted and caring - independent at the same time intimate - open and curious - adventurous yet able to be still - mindful and present - are what count and which are some of the qualities I hope to find in a potential partner.
I'm currently working on a novel that I've been working on for over five years. I also work with people in a coaching capacity helping them to be less scattered and more present in their lives. I was a psychotherapist for over 20 years and a writer for over 15. I have 50 years experience in the arts (theater, photography, film, writing) and 55 years in various spiritual practices. I approach life creatively and spiritually. Being a good and kind person is my highest concern - an ongoing practice. I have two grown sons whom I love very much and two grand-twins whom I adore. I'm transitioning from Berkeley to Occidental and spend most of my time in a one-room cabin with an outdoor shower and wood stove. I am continually trying to simplify (but not always succeeding).
More and more I am drawn to silence and expanse. Nature provides both. I'm less about doing than being and would like to find someone who,along with the qualities I mentioned above, shares that perspective. Sharing is very important to me - at the same time I'm independent and happy alone. Again, I hope to find someone who wants both. Andre Gide once said, "The best prescription for a good life is Joy " and more and more I experience a quiet and rich kind of joy.