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Date a soulmate from California, United States. Let me begin with the basics, my name is Chris and I am 23 years old. Last year I graduated from UCSB with degrees in Religious Studies and Anthropology. I would like to eventually become a college professor, and help mold the young minds of the next generation. Right now I am working two part time jobs; I am trying to save up some money before tackling my bucket list and applying to graduate school.
Education is very important to me. It was one of the highest ideals instilled in both my brother and I when we were young children. I don’t expect everyone to go to college, that is unrealistic, but I do try to encourage a good education, no matter the level. Speaking of my brother, he is my best friend and sometimes my greatest nemesis. I am very proud of his accomplishments, and I highly value his opinion; I am like that with all of my family really. I think it is sufficient to say that family is very important to me. My friends are another very important aspect in my life, in fact I consider them my second family.
I am a modest guy. I don’t like being praised in public all that much, it makes me feel uncomfortable and awkward. I know my strengths: compassion, generosity, and a roll-with-the-punches attitude, to name a few. I am coming to a cross-roads in my life, where it is time to step up my game, as it were. I am looking for a woman who is comfortable being herself. I have plans that I will/need to accomplish in my life, and I am looking for a woman who can be supportive without sacrificing her dreams and goals to do so.
A little more about myself (sheesh, this is uncomfortable to write), I am an avid reader and television watcher. I love all things Science Fiction and Fantasy. I love learning vast amounts of random facts. I like video games, but generally don’t play all that often. I am considered by many of my friends and acquaintances to be a good masseuse, and half-way decent cook. Both of which I really enjoy doing. I love animals of all kinds, and going to the beach. I don’t really enjoy watching sports all that much, but my time at UCSB has made me more appreciative of watching “the game”. I can very much be a home body; If I don’t have to leave the house I won’t. Do not be alarmed however, I am also very much into spontaneous adventures. I live in the forest, so sometimes boredom takes hold of me and I must go and do something. I tend to be slightly silly all the time, I like to make people laugh. I like to work out, both in the gym and at home, when I find the drive to do so. I like to do fun things, go kayaking, hiking/walking with my friends, driving around town, going to bad movies, going to great movies at the midnight premier, I like to go clubbing/dancing (though I am not that good a dancer), and I darts and billiards, swimming and skim-boarding, I am an amateur aquarist and, in general, a nice guy.
If any of this interests you, email me.
All the best,
Chris

Meet single man from California, United States. I'm a down to earth guy with a fun/wacky sense of humor. I like to have great adventures when I'm not hard at work! I think my friends would describe me as kind, loving, and generous. I love laughing in good conversation and like to talk about a lot of different topics. I have a lot of goals and ambitions, and I steadily take small steps to get where I'm headed. I'm introspective and always finding ways to be a better person. I'm passionate about environmental and social justice.
I'm looking for someone who is already happy, but single, like me. A healthy sense of humor is very attractive to me. It's important that my potential-future-partner has awareness of her feelings and is able to communicate them honestly, even when it's scary. Everyone has been through something difficult, so my hope is you've made it to this side with optimism intact! I enjoy intelligence in a partner, but I don't think it's as important as kindness.

Date single man from Occidental, United States. Easy going. like to goof around alot... plyayful,,,, sometimes serious. literal, always centerd, most of the time I speak my mind..... I go to church on Sundays..... I like stay home alot,,,, living in Occidental it is so nice and the coast is so close.... keeps me centerd... :) this is hard for me to talk about my self,,,, lots of my friends want me to do this online thing,, thing is how do you tell people in this computer how nice of a guy you are or I am one of the best kisser on the planet. or how fare I am when it comes to judgments. or how young I look for my age. or is Dhow honest and dependable I am.. or how caring someone is... hard working, great work ethic. Etc.... pluss a great complexion I have for an older man, like myself... and how young I feel...... As for the women I am looking for just not a lot of Drama.. easy going and fun young at heart.... nice to look at and be with... looking forward to hearing from you... My real name arwin. :)

Meet a man from California, United States. I'm a computer consultant who enjoys classical music (a lot), jazz, gardening, good food and conversation, sailing, going for walks, and corny old movies (from the 30's and 40's). I especially enjoy the world of ideas (anthropology, psychology, history, philosophy, etc.). While it might be nice to share that with a woman, I sure could use a good distraction from it now and then. There's a lot of playfulness (and passion) in me, but it doesn't come out very well unless I'm pretty comfortable with my playmate. Some women have found me humorous, entertaining, and downright fun, others have found me rigid and dull. Go figure.
I am somewhat strong-willed and intense, but also patient, kind, and sincere, and I really work hard to arrive at compromises that are mutually comfortable and fair. I'm moderately conservative politically and generally a bit old-fashioned--but there are pretty major exceptions to both of those generalizations. I do respect and value mostly traditional feminine qualities in a woman. I like women and need a close relationship with a woman to be fulfilled in my life. I hope to find a woman who likes men and is comfortable needing a man in her life. I am quite capable of participating in a deeply intimate, trusting, honest, and loving relationship, especially with a woman who wants and is capable of the same. I believe it's important that both people in a romantic relationship feel "in love" and feel comfortable being who they really are. I crave a relationship with a woman that is more honestly intimate than any I have experienced so far or have known others to experience--each of us with a sincere interest in the other's life and happiness.
I live in western Sonoma County and love the country. I dearly love animals, but in their natural environment, not captive indoors where I live. If you want a (non-human) pet, we probably couldn't look forward to a life together. Also, the recession has been very hard on my finances; I'm afraid I can't provide that financial security we'd all like. The only wealth I can offer will have to come from my heart or my mind, not my pocket book. Also, since I'm an IT consultant (my business is Vista Consulting in Santa Rosa, which you could look up), I spend all day staring blurry-eyed at this screen. So if my emails are short and I try to move on to communicating by phone quickly, I hope you'll understand. I also direct a vocal ensemble called Mostly Motets (which you could also look up, if you liked) that sings music from the Renaissance and Middle Ages.

Date a soulmate from United States. I have been married several times with a grown daughter and a 11 year old daughter. I was the eldest of 7 with 6 sisters. I like women but have never been in a relationship for more then 7 years. I have been lucky in that I am friends with most of my partners. I stay healthy and active and tend to be an advocate for parks and outdoor recreation. My favorite being riding my 9 year old gelding with my 11 year old daughter. I delivered the gelding and his full sister from the mare that I rode for years. Trail riding with my rodesian ridgeback was a great pleasure,but the park now says no dogs. Well 5 years riding has kept her healthy.
I would like a friend and lover to share the joys of life.

Meet a man from Occidental, United States. I am a kind and thoughtful person in search of a female companion. My interests are wide ranging.
How nice it would be to find someone to share lifes beauty and daily challenges with. I, of course, wish that the "describe yourself" section of this profile was not limited by the 200 charater minimum.

Date a man from United States. I am very fortunate to be able to support myself as an artist and to have discovered my ability in ceramics and bonsai. The freedom to be creative and self-directed is wonderful.
I have great concern for the future of the natural systems on our planet, but I am only superficially involved in making changes for the better.
I am seeking an intelligent and articulate woman with a great sense of humor and real passion for her interests.