Date men and women from United States / California / Oakdale, 57 year old

Date a woman from Oakdale, United States. I am a kind and very loving person. I get along with just about everyone and don't like alot of drama in my life. I have life long friends and always open to making more. I enjoy making people laugh. If you are my friend you have a loyal caring freind for life.I can carry a conversation in a room of strangers. There is a shy side of me also. I love home and enjoy being there but also will get out and try just about anything. Don't mind getting dirty. But also like to dress and go out. I enjoy having friends over for BBQ , just plain get togethers. I hate to be droped in on though. I do like a phone call first. I guess my perfect mate would be someone who is affectionate, consider others feeling and like to have fun. He would also enjoy hanging out with just us at times to. He would be independent and have his freinds also. I would hope he likes to cook at times or with me but if not that is okay too. I am somewhat of a person who is into her home and likes to have it kept nice so I would want the same thing in a person. I would like to be with someone who likes to travel even if they are just day trips. I want a best friend who can feel free enough to be honest and open. I am a good listener and would want someone who is the same. Enough said don't want to make it to corney. If you would like to chat would love to hear from you.