Date someone special from United States. I want to meet a woman who is interested in a relationship and all the thrills that go with it; romance, fun, laughter and quality time together.. A woman of substance who loves to laugh and is warm and cuddly. I love feminine women and women who know what they want. I would like to meet a warm hearted, kind, thoughtful, loving woman who has a sharp wit and sense of humor.I'm attracted to a woman that is sexy, sensual, feminine, and playful. Like me, I would love to find a woman who is passionate about things that she is interested in. I like a woman that loves to tease and be teased. Our personalities should complement each other There has to be chemistry, friendship and depth. I like it all; wine, wine tasting events, romantic dinners, (either out or at home…I love to cook) cuddling up on the couch watching movies, holding hands on a nice walk… and lots of kissing. Finding a woman with these same qualities would be very nice…. Bonus points for being a SF Giants fan!!
Like anyone on this site, I am just hoping for that mutual attraction which eventually leads to a strong emotional attachment with shared interests and lots of love.
My time is not entirely my own anymore, so it’s definitely Quality over Quantity for me. I am “Dad” to two beautiful children, my 8 year old daughter and my 5 year old son, They are an absolute joy to have and hold. They also help me keep everything in perspective... I try not to take life too seriously or sweat the small stuff, hoping to find that in a woman as well.
I love to laugh and I enjoy making others laugh. I consider myself loyal, caring, dependable and an overall good catch. I have faults as we all do and I am constantly working on them. I appreciate the differences between women and men. I believe communication is the key to a successful relationship. It is okay to argue, the key is how to argue effectively. And sometimes it is okay to agree to disagree.I am looking to share our mutual experiences and find those commonalities that feel comfortable and right. I am very affectionate, passionate and remain a hopeless romantic!
I thoroughly enjoy traveling, whether it’s overseas; Italy and Australia are favorites…(so far!)…or New York and the East; Mexico and Baja CA. It’s all good!
I am equally blessed to live in this beautiful area and the Wine country, Crusing Highway 1 and the Coast, West Marin (Tomales, Marshall, Pt. Reyes) are favorites too.
I work a job I love; with a really cool group of people; at a major Motorsports facility in Sonoma.
I have been divorced for two years now and am in a great place in my life; just looking for that special woman to share it all with.
Let's get started...
Meet a soulmate from Novato, United States. I'm a down to earth person looking for someone special. I'm originally from Sparta, NJ, I have lived in California for the last 32 years, I am an active person, staying in good shape is an important part of my life. Theres not much I do not like to do! I am sure I will meet someone to share special times with, I believe that I have been through many exciting events in my life, starting with a sailing trip with my family, from the east coast of the U.S. to Europe and back.Sharing those challenges with someone you love makes its rewarding and smoothes out the bumps along the way. It's great if you can connect with that one person you are with no matter what you are doing. I'll try anything once, well almost anything. I love the summer... sunny days and being outdoors at the beach, snorkeling, or just walking on the sand along the ocean. Sometimes it is nice to be home to. I like to travel, I drove cross-country last summer and fulfilled a lifetime dream, bringing my three children with me and visiting almost twenty states, I saw New York City and stayed at a great hotel overlooking Time Square and then visited Washington D.C.. Hope to meet you soon, thanks for stopping by and reading my post.
Date people from Novato, United States. I am a conversationalist. I enjoy talking about most any subjects. I try to remain non-judgmental and realize that we all make mistakes. I would rather be accepting of people versus judging them. I am interested in someone who enjoys life and likes to explore new things. Someone who is emotionally stable and likes to exercise and has a good sense of humor.
Meet men and women from Novato, United States. The who and what I'm looking for is a wild card. An undefined search leaves the door open to many possibilities. We'll know when we see. I am ever changing with the world around me but have a grounded awareness of kindness, compassion, understanding, humility and dignity. Mine and yours.
Focus on the positive with an acute awareness of the negative to keep perspective which provides a learning curve to develop strong character and nurture a keen sense of humor. Always happy to make someones day, even if only with a smile.
Never in a rush. Live and appreciate the moments and have a unique and special place in my heart for the ones I never want to end. Indescribable yet self-defining. Looking forward to so many more. I look as deeply as necessary to find the good and positive. It's there.
You are my equal, my lover and my friend always, bearing in mind the latter. There are no rules, just consideration. Free to be, you and me. To the wind at our back, the sun on our face and the stars in our eyes with much to look forward to. The best is yet to come.
Date someone special from Novato, United States. A divorced happy go lucky guy who has a 5 year old son on the weekends. I can be very goofy & funny. I also can be very serioius & romantic at the same time. If asked my opinion i will be straight foward and honest. I don't sugar coat anything. Anyone who enjoys:
walking anywhere with a sunset or a sunrise is always welcome. Any sporting event. Movies,Danceing,cuddling,snuggling by a fireplace is also a plus. Straight forward and not afraid to speak up and say whats on her mind. Someone who feels comfortable in Pajamas,Jeans,Shorts & can put on a dress all the fixings that go with it.
Meet a man from Novato, United States. Hello and thanks for taking the time to read my profile. Describing oneself and what one is looking for is difficult but here goes. I am tall, dark and handsome. I believe in commitment and can love unconditionally with constant faith and trust. I am self-defined and strong enough to take charge without stepping on others feelings, yet humble enough to be a passenger when someone else needs to drive. I will try to have such an impression on your heart that I will be your first and last thought of the day. I have class and style topped off with a down to earth flavor. I believe that love can exist beyond the pain of past relationships. I can laugh at myself and not take everything too seriously. I am grounded in reality and recognize what's important in love and life. I am caring, sincere, independent and responsible. I am attractive and care about my overall appearance. I enjoy outside activities. I like old movies, theater, dining out, the night life, long drives, surprises, traveling, romantic getaways, long conversations, reading, playing with my dog, washing the car, helping others, etc.
I believe that getting a good workout helps me think through and solve my problems. When sad I have good friends who make me happy. I absolutely will never cheat on my mate! I miss my dog. I'm sick of politicians/celebrities making excuses for their juvenile behaviors. Tabasco is my favorite condiment. I always smell good! I never yell or scream when I'm mad. I read books when I want to know something. Sometimes I love animals more than people. I know which side to walk on. I opens doors and pull and scoot chairs. I see well in the dark. I know a lot about cars. I've cried during sad movies. I could eat certain food every day. I get up early and go to bed late. Technology amazes me all the time. I underestimate myself a lot. I am amazed at what I can do or endure when I put my mind and heart to it. I'm the youngest of two children. I'm not too old to change. I’m friends with my friends from high school. I Google things I don't know or understand. I'm blown away when I hear outrageous stuff. I don't like being hurt. I'm always on time. I have one tattoo. My daughter is my highest priority! I can listen to a song I like over and over for days. I wish I didn't have so much stuff! I love laughing and smiling. I wish some of my friends were my family. I'm good at compromising. It's hard for me to fall asleep if the TV is not on. My house is always clean. I'm lucky in life but not so much in love. Water is my favorite drink. My favorite color is black. I always dress nice. I'm not afraid to risk but I am afraid to fail. I want to retire while I'm young. I love my parents. I believe you get back what you put out. Sorry should be the only word you have to say if you are truly sorry. Birthdays are a big deal! I try to watch what I eat but believe in special treats. You can tell me secrets and I'll keep them. My eyes are brown.
I am looking for someone who possesses qualities that are essential to a healthy relationship. I am looking for a woman who is totally truthful, loyal and sincere. Who is understanding, compassionate, respectful, passionate, accepting, intellectually stimulating, and has a sense of curiosity and sense of humor. Who is communicative, honest, and when necessary sympathetic. Who is affectionate, supportive and loving. Who is attentive, devoted and sexy. Who understands the importance of a respectful companionship, where we each are able to retain individuality yet be comfortable as a pair. Who knows the grass is greener where it’s watered. Who wants a relationship where we both feel enriched and empowered not drained and despondent. Who from spending time with I find I am a better person for having known. Could this be you?
Due to the preciousness of time I only have time to respond to profiles which include a photo. Thanks for understanding.
Date single man from California, United States. I am no longer a member of match. I am now on ok cupid. Same user name without the numbers. I have been separated for a almost 3 years now. I remain very committed to my children who live with me nearly half time. They are both teenagers which allows me quite a bit of "me time". I coach my daughter in soccer which I love. Howver, coaching a team of 14 to 18 year old girls is quite a challenge. I have lived in several places around the country and have now settled here. I will retire from the military next and at that time return to my nursing career.
Although my profile says "separated", there are reasons for not getting a divorce yet. Just ask. No chance of reconciliation.
A few other random things about me. I used to love mountain biking and I tolerated daily running. However, orthopedic surgeon told me my knees can't handle it any more. (I just figured the pain was part of the workout). Now I walk 3-5 miles a day to keep off the excess tonnage. I still enjoy a good bicycle ride but keep it more on the level these days. My mountain bike sobs in the corner.
I am relatively house broken. I rarely have dirty dishes in my sink. I'm not a great cook but can follow a recipe pretty well. And I always put the seat down. I was raised to open the door for women, pull out your chair, take your coat, etc.
Someone asked me about all the different looks in my profile pictures. Had a mustache until my daughter pointed out that her 77 year old grandfather had less gray hair in his mustache than her father did. Time to shave. Then, one of her friends mentioned that I was getting a bald spot. I didn't think it was an issue until she said, "but it's not in the middle". So, if my hair didn't have the common courtesy to fall out evenly, I shaved it off.
What am i looking for? I think I know more what I'm not looking for. I would prefer to meet someone who doesn't have young children. Although I love and cherish the time raising my children, been there done that with young children. Prefer not to do it again.
At this age, I think we all have a certain amount of baggage. But, it's how we carry our baggage that's important.
Good luck on your quest and thanks for stopping by.
Meet a man from California, United States. I'm looking to find someone that is honest, kind and down to earth. Someone who dances to their own drum. Someone who loves life but doesn't have to tell everyone to 'have a nice day'. You might be artistic and perhaps think outside of the box. You show genuine sensitivity towards the world around you (and the other creatures in it) without the need for counseling every week. Let's enjoy meeting someone new and exploring new stuff and see where the road goes.
Hmmm, there's still a lot of characters remaining here... so...
lets go for a hike, have a good bottle of wine/beer, enjoy the beautiful Northern California countryside, catch a live band or go to the Marin Symphony. Perhaps you play an instrument? I love the guitar and recording original songs. I'm not a dance club person but like to see a band in a pub or club. I like the city night life but only in small doses.
Date men and women from California, United States. I am just testing the site to see what it is all about. I have a few friends that say it is a really great site to meet people. Just being honest. Okay now I am just writing this to meet the minimum so I can move on.
Meet single man from United States. I have to say with honesty that the best job I ever had was to be the father of my three children, I couldn't have been able to get where I am now without them. Today I'm almost at the end of this stage of my life and I'm going to try to get a friend, a partner, an associate, a fiance, a wife, in order to share so much experience accumulated through life and together been able to enjoy the many adventures and positive situations that are out there.
On the personal side I'm very easy going with good temper and like to laugh a lot, I have learned that the simple things in life fill my inner soul in ways I honestly can't described. I like to see sports yeah but important games or when the season gets to playoffs, of course that if I have something to do with you absolutely will come first.
I prefer a lady close to my age bracket, mature, stable, smart, entrepreneur, easy going I like to have smart conversations and debate and analyze them, I don't like to argue at all, life is too short and beautiful to sweat for the small stuff.
Finally I want to say that I'm open minded and joined this website with the seriousness the occasion require it, I'm not here to play games with you girls nor I want to be played.
Good luck to all of you and I wish that very soon you can find what you are looking for, remember mens and women were created to complement each other.
Ps: currently and temporarily I'm living in Bay Point to let my son graduate this year from HS, but next year I'll be moving to Marin County in order to be close to my job and be able to get home earlier.
Date a soulmate from United States. Ok, so I would be a bit awkward at first. I always was a bit on the shy side but I warm up easily and I'm quick witted. I love to get someone to laugh or just open up. I'm real easy to understand, I have a big heart and really love to share time with someone special.
I always been an adventurous guy. In my younger years I would leave on a dime across the world with no plans made and always had the best of times. I moved to Hawaii just to learn to windsurf and ended up living on Maui, sailing everyday or golfing if the wind wasn't blowing. I'm not as free as those days now, but I still travel when I can. My plan is to introduce my 8 year old daughter to the world and all the cool places in the US. I would enjoy someone that has the same outlook on life. Work hard, play hard. Are you someone that can travel to anyplace in the world and just enjoy the culture if you weren't staying in a 5 star hotel? Don't get me wrong, I do like to be pampered, but I also like to dig deep. I could just sit in a cafe and drink a cup of coffee and rap with the locals for hours.
I have my religious beliefs. I am Christian, and would like someone that has the same type of values. I may not go to church every Sunday, but I do enjoy it when I do attend.
I'm looking for someone to be a great friend and partner. It's something I have missed for way too many years. I love to start the day with someone and end it with the same one, sharing the day and looking forward to tomorrow. Maybe you would like to do the same?
Meet someone special from United States. You and I may have much in common if:
Smiling comes easily and often for you
You enjoy laughter in heaping helpings
You love to give and receive flowers
You love to give and receive love letters
Some of your best days have been unscripted
You enjoy being outdoors
You are moved by the beauty of nature
You learn from your mistakes
You have faith that you will fall in love forever
Some of my background and perhaps a bit deeper dive than the norm:
If the closest I ever get to winning the lottery was growing up in rural West Marin, I'll take it. Life in a small agricultural town emphasized values such as family, friendship, honesty, hard work, and taking delight in life's simple pleasures. My best friend from high school, who owns a 4th generation organic dairy nestled along the Pacific, remains my best friend. Growing up in such a splendid natural setting also gave me a deep appreciation for being active, being outdoors, and finding spirituality in being close to nature. Although I now live in the suburbs and love to get to the City often, West Marin still feels like home to me. Bury me there.
"Selfishly Giving Back". I wish I could say that I give of my time and money to worthwhile causes with the same selfless spirit that Mother Teresa did. I give back simply because I derive great pleasure in doing so. I have been a Rotarian for over 20 years, am a Big Brother to Jeremy who is now age 18, and serve on the Board of The San Francisco Food Bank. My experience with the Food Bank has brought about a profound change in me as it has substantially heightened my level of gratitude. I find now that most meals I eat are accompanied by a wave of thankfulness for the privlege of eating as I am now keenly aware that there are so many people, here and abroad who do not have such a luxury. I seldom take for granted many things in my life that I once often took for granted.
I am at my core, an athlete. From Little League through college, I was constantly involved in competetive sports. In my life, I much more often draw from the lessons I learned in sports than from what I learned in a class room. Attributes such as team work, preparation, persistency, resiliency, and working toward a common goal. My college football coach was a world class teacher and he concentrated most on building character. Along the way, his teams won three national championships. My teammates and I hold a special reverance for him. Today, I still enjoy working out regularly and typically enter one triathlon a year to help enhance the focus of my workouts. I would never have imagined that I would try and like yoga this year and now I am hooked. It's a wonder drug. I am however now the target of hazing from my football buddies.
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I am a recovering alcoholic. This year marks 10 years of sobriety for me. I realize that I risk you reading this and reading no further. I share this fact in the spirit of openness and honesty. In my day, I did not drink often, but when I did....hmmm....let's just say that my stories would make for an interesting book. Maybe a movie. The past decade has brought me a wonderful journey to a heightened level of self-awareness and self-understanding. I am comfortable being around people who are drinking. I am comfortable being in a relationship with a woman who drinks in moderation. If going wine tasting every weekend is high on your list of things to do, I am likely not the match for you. If going wine tasting occasionally is, then I am in and can play a mean game of designated driver.
I love the life I have led thus far and wouldn't change a thing (I might delete disco music). I want my eulogy to end with, "and most of all, he was a great husband and a terrific father." I have a vision of falling happily in love forever more, of marital bliss (98.8% of the time), and of a warm and loving family. This is my favorite vision of all :)