Date men and women from United States / California / Naples, 32 year old

Date a soulmate from Naples, United States. I am not sure what I am looking for exactly? I need humor for sure! I love to be funny and weird...and I need that in return. I enjoy companionship and having someone to hang out with and have fun with both my friends and just the two of us. I am so involved with my job right now, I would love to just have someone to enjoy when it's all said and done=) I really need a companion that works hard at his job & although it might not be the perfect job can see the positive upside to hard work & reward of having fun! Please believe I don't need another guy from a bar that has the same motive as the next guy. (I used to bartend...I know the drill all to well=) It would be so wonderful to cut through all of the show and just have fun with the little time I get to really relax and just be spontaneous! I need honesty about what you really want and we are golden;) It is easy to sleep around and hook up w/ one person after the next...I am looking for maybe not so easy...Actual effort..maybe some authentic meaning behind getting to know each other..Chivalry shouldn't be dead..A great conversation that leads you to more and more questions...because it's interesting and exciting to get to know one another=) Laughing when it is awkward & enjoying those moments too. I was raised as a non denominational Christian & yes it most definitely is a part of my life that is never going to change:) I believe when you are in an intimate relationship with someone it is important to share this part of your life together. No judgement to others for what they have chosen for faith or none at all, I just know what I want & what I need in that respect of my life. I'm usually down to try anything new activity wise and can have a pretty good laugh at myself if I'm not awesome at whatever it is I'm doing!