Date men and women from United States / California / Murrieta, 51 year old

Date a soulmate from United States. Please read every word of this and consider them with all of the gravity that this situation dictates...
When I go to the beach on a date, I like to bolt from the car to the water's edge, let out a high-pitched shriek of dismay, then flee back to the safety of the car... (joking of course... unless there's a shark... or a Portuguese Man 'O War... or other jellyfish... starfish perhaps... but never (well, rarely) a sand dollar...(they can be vicious) maybe an unidentified piece of driftwood, "It looked like a viper of some sort!"... (might still be joking... possibly... perhaps... only time will tell)
Let's get real for a minute, painfully, real... You ladies say "I just want a man who makes me laugh, who will be sensitive and listen, who will make me breakfast in bed and love my kids/dogs/cats/ex/friends... etc." I am certainly the guy who meets many of your criteria...
276 views on the "Here's what a great guy I am" profile and only 2 contacts, not wanting to go forward, but who just wanted to say they enjoyed reading my profile. I am actually am who I say I am. I am being open and honest here. Apparently, there are a significant number (read 'most') of guys who are here for a booty call. While I love sex tremendously, that is not my purpose for being here, heck, I can take care of simple sex all by myself! I am looking for a lady with whom I will be able to share many happy years with
When who a person actually is, matches exactly with what you say you are looking for, but is not even given a chance, there is something wrong ...
I admit freely, that the lady whom I would like to commit to must meet certain physical, spiritual, and behavioral criteria. Therefore, I submit that if she does not, I will let her know immediately, gently, and not pursue the relationship further. However, if she does, I will be happy to commit to her until the very end of time, and will lavish upon her every luxury, comfort, and satisfaction that it is in my ability to provide. I will love and care about your kids/cats/ex/friends... etc. I will drive people where they need to be and/or pick them up, feed them, clean them, etc. I am a giver, but not to be taken advantage of...
I will be up front here: I am a stocky guy. I have broad shoulders and a very deep chest, allowing me to carry my weight without looking as heavy as I currently am, but I am actively working on slimming down, are you willing to allow for that? I will never be average, let alone slender, it is a physical impossibility, short of a Nazi death camp, and nobody is looking for that! (one would certainly hope!), leading to a question: what the heck are the definitions of these body type descriptions?!? They are certainly not in ascending or descending order! For example, the difference between "ample" and "curvy" for women...? ....., huh?
My 20 year marriage ended almost 5 years ago, an end I did not want. I was devastated, and it changed me. I have come a long way since then and it is time to find happiness. I promise that I will always be open, honest, considerate, and communicative. I will treat you wonderfully, will be affectionate, love holding hands and respectable PDA (or more, your choice). I will cook for you, fix ANYTHING around the house, help decorate, open your door, drive to the end of the earth, paint your toes, give you massages, be as charming to your family and friends as I know how, slay dragons, show you my vulnerability, hold your hair while you get sick, keep you warm at night, protect you and your honor, stand up for what is right, listen to you but not try to tell you how to fix things, dance with you, dance with your friends but always be looking for you, be humble, be faithful, be caring, be kind.
I need a partner who is very open to affection and sensuality on a regular basis. I want a partner who when I look at her I think, "Wow! I gotta have that!" and you have to know that I am not

Meet single man from United States. I am tired of the run of the mill "date". Looking for someone who is articulate, with whom I have commonalities. No drama. Can hold up her end of the conversation on almost any subject. NOT looking for activism, but quiet respectfull service to others who are less fortunate. Hopefully will meet a person that does not believe the world revloves around her.

Date people from United States. I think my dating headline says it all...looking for the same..my friends describe me as a nice guy..a nice smile makes me smile...i am grateful for my family and friends..i hope to attract a silly, witty, goofball who appreciates me for who i am...what makes me laugh out loud? haha..jeff dunham, jim carrey, ellen, good comedy...i am looking for someone to share everyday things that go on with life...and if she played tennis or golf or bowled that would be cool...

Meet a man from United States. Hi, my name is Tom and I recently moved to the Temecula and Murrieta.
I have been in a wheelchair for 25 years while raising my 15-year-old boy who is such a good natured kid with a lot of talents. But I'm sure if you asked him, he'll lead you to believe that he's desperately trying to raise a good father! :-) In return, I told him I'm going to give bumper sticker that says "hire a teenager while they know it all!" :-) Bottom line, we love each other very much and I do love kids quite a bit in general.
I'm educated, communicative, affectionate, loving and down to earth. I like simpler things in life.
I work full time, just graduated from law school, raise my son pretty much on my own, I teach tennis and martial arts... and all from being in a wheelchair due to a surfing accident long ago. Amazing huh? It sure has made for a colorful life indeed.
People interest me, can be funny and do the damnedest things! I find that each person has their unique story and nothing fits well into the four corners of a box.
I prefer people who are very open-minded, kindhearted and generous in how they approach people. Open-heart and open minds are probably the single most attractive thing to me. Vanity bothers me ... we are not our car, we are not a bank account, but certainly they are useful to get to work and eat huh? Still, it's my hope people find meaning in those that they love, people and places that they experience rather than possessions that can be easily lost tomorrow or today.
A special note, I find certain women have great power over me and never know it. I adore women who are not only generally kind and caring but I appreciate a woman with brains or intelligence. More so, I watch closely how people treat each other including how they treat kids or strangers even in difficult settings. It really matters to me!
Id like to think I'm very communicative, out going, but warm hearted, and very affectionate. I am very open minded, there is much to learn about me so please feel free in writing me. You can ask me anything, and I'm happy to answer you.
Life is grand indeed.

Date people from United States. I am at a time of my life where I have made many changes. I am ready for the second half-hoping it's full of fun and adventure. I am a very family orientated person to which I am truly grateful for. I am looking for a man who knows how to treat a woman like a lady. I am a girlie girl. I wear dresses and high heels on off days. My work days are jeans and sneaks. If you know how to dance--well that's a plus!!I I also like a well dressed man even if he is in jeans! From head to toe. Am I asking for too much??? I also enjoy a confident man that goes after what he likes but not in a cocky way.

Meet a soulmate from Murrieta, United States. I am an active, caring, positive, intelligent person. I have a dry sense or humor. I often see humor in situations that some people may just find irritating. I exercise 6 to 7 days a week, mainly swimming, but I like lots of other things too. I have lived in several western European countries and this background has affected my outlook on life. I am very grateful that I have been able to have these experiences. I have learned the languages of the countries I have lived in. I know these experiences have led me to be a more open-minded person than I may have been otherwise.
I deal with life's inevitable setbacks well and don't carry them with me.
I do have an active social life. I make a point to spend time with friends, even when I am busy with other things. For now, I am working full-time and also on my Master's, but I am careful not to neglect friendships and socializing in general. I also enjoy volunteering, especially for cultural events.
I would like to meet a man who has similar values to me, a kind, intelligent, positive, active person, with a good sense of humor who also likes to travel.

Date someone special from Murrieta, United States. So, I guess I should go into detail just a bit, since my first attempt was a abbreviated version....I had lived in SoCal almost all my life and three years ago uprooted to CO....mistake...Cali girl at heart. pretty place to visit but no bueno on the bi-polar weather. I have worked for the Fire dept for almost 20 years, left it and am now going back to it. My boys and I are very close and they have been my stability through thick and thin.
I am starting a new chapter in my life , know what I want... To be wowed, to know that this is a possibility and I will hold out for it. Romance, sweet nothings and everything's, flowers, light kisses on my neck, compliments , giving and showing me everything and
in turn I give to the man I love and choose to have in my life everything back. I want a Friend, partner, honesty, respect and develop from there. I am happy with who I am and where I am in life. I believe in family being near and romance, the old fashion way. Do not like dishonest and mean people and a smile goes a long way.. I'm happy in jeans, boots. Heels and a little black dress ( although not all at the same time ). Love taking long walks, motorcycle rides, jet skis, near water, or watching movies.
I suppose this is still an abbreviated version but thats what a future conversation is for...
"Those Who Stand for Nothing, Fall for Anything"
Leigh

Meet a woman from Murrieta, United States. They say there is a kid in every one of us, trying to get out! I am a fun loving free spirited person who loves to live life to the fullest and believes laughter is the best medicine in the world therefore passed that onto my sons, who are now 25 and 27! Love fast boats, planes, rollercoasters, cars,motorcycles, snowmobiling, 4x4ing, planes, but only with someone experienced at the wheel, and that is not me! LOL! Want to try parasailing and scuba diving some day. Guess I haven't grown up yet! I enjoy talking, but also like quiet time in each others arms by firelight or candlelight. Love to be treated special once in a while just to know I'm being thought of. Do not like fights or confrontation. Am a lover, not a fighter, so if you're looking for someone to box, leave me out! I AM VERY INDEPENDENT, but still like to be babied once in a while, wine and dine me. I may be over 40 years old, BUT I AM NOT READY FOR A ROCKING CHAIR! LOL! I'm ready to try most anything once! Twice if I like it! I am learning how to sail. I love any place that has sun, sand, and water. I am not in for one night stands, so if that is what you are interested in, pass me by! Wanna get to know me, ask!I want to find someone who can keep up with me! Who matches my likes and dislikes. I heard opposites attract and have found that not necessarily true. Some differences are good, challenging, but not too many. I want to be accepted for who I am and not have to change. Been there, done that, and it doesn't work. I'd like to meet someone who is fun loving, free spirited, independent, and low stressed. One who believes in living life to the fullest and taking what it has to offer. Spur of the moment spontaneous type is a definite plus. Not scared to try new things. Takes the challenge when faced with one. Likes fast toys such as cars, boats, planes, motorcycles...Comfortable in his own skin, but can dress for the occasion. Somewhat intellect is also a plus. Not afraid to speak his mind in a classy fashion, but yet is open to other's opinions and suggestions too. Not stuck on one's self and to realize to err is human. No perfectionists here.....lol! What you just read describes me also! If I can find that special person, I will also be there for him, treat him right, and accept him for who he is. I want him to be witty, funny, yet serious when the time calls for it, slow to anger, quick to love. Enjoy living and laughing. Enjoy thrills and excitement of rollercoasters, travel, dancing, jumping out of perfectly safe airplanes, etc.......but love to have a quiet times on the beach or in the mountains, and enjoy the quiet nights at home too. Need to be a nature lover, especially sand and sun. To sum it up, to become my best friend. Lastly and most importantly, need to have the time to make this relationship work. I believe taking time out for one another is the key for a successful healthy relationship. Distance is not an obstacle, but a challenge, and one that can be easily overcome with effort and determination. Is this you? If so, please reply. Thank you once again for your time.

Date men and women from Murrieta, United States. Easy going, fun, even tempered, adventurous, outgoing. Athletic, health conscious but not a fanatic. Work out 3-4 times a week. I like traveling and weekend getaways, live music, plays, various out door activities (Hiking, camping, fishing) just about anything that deals with water i.e...swimming, jet skiing, sailing, snorkeling, scuba diving, fine dinning, quite dinners for two and finding that great hole in the wall place. I'm sensual, passionate and a good kisser unless I'm having a bad lip day.
"SEEKING QUALITY NOT QUANTITY"
Ideal Person: NON SMOKER!!!! Educated, with varied interests. Athletic but not a fanatic, confident, independent. emotionally, financially and mentally stable and secure. Have good moral and family values, and good relations with his own family. Like public displays of affection, being spontaneous, like being active and having equal amounts of down time too i.e.. staying home renting a movie, cuddling and getting reacquainted with each other after a hectic work day or work week or just because. Someone looking for fun, adventure and good times all the time.

Meet people from Murrieta, United States. Hello, I am 50 young. Healthy body & mind. I have a 19 yr.old daughter in college who works hard and has a good head on her shoulders. I feel I have been sucessful raising a beautiful,intelligent & independent young lady. I'm a independent hairstylist, and Love what I do! Missing that special person to go play!
I need a man with character, integrity and confidence! But not arrogance. Someone who is serious, but can also have fun and not be so serious! Friendship, chemistry & hopefully true love!
I love the outdoors, deserts, mountains & beaches. I prefer calmer waters lakes, rivers, wkend getaways, Idylwild, big bear, N. cal, wineries,old towns,small venue concerts. " Humphrey on the Bay". My favorite beach is Coronado & Island.

Date a soulmate from California, United States. Hello gentlemen...I am a curvy, up-beat, woman, who loves to laugh. I like to think I have a positive outlook on life in general. I like to do exciting things, such as romantic drives down to Mexico. Dinners at restaurants that have food that will make your toes curl (smile)... or snuggled next to my guy anywhere, anytime. I am looking for a man who knows himself and have stimulating conversations about anything..And a plus would be someone who loves to do things on the spur of the moment when possible. But most of all, someone who is caring and sensitive like myself.

Meet someone special from California, United States. I'm fun and love to travel. My motto is "my soul loves the sun"!!! I like and watch major sports. I enjoy Jazz concerts, good movies and shopping. I'm looking for a man who somehow manages to strike that tricky balance of being both spontaneous and dependable. Or who can happily tolerate both of these aspects in me. He must be honest, dependable and responsible. A true man of his word.