Date men and women from United States / California / Monterey, 36 year old

Date a soulmate from Monterey, United States. I have been in the Navy for 13 years. I was raised in a military family so I have lived all over the United States and that is one of great perks of life in the Navy.
My closest friends would describe me as quiet and reserved. I am very loyal to those closest to me and value all of my close friends.
My parents (I know most people say this) have been my greatest influence in my life. My Mother, being a single parent, was always there for us and all of the things she taught me you can't put a price on. My Dad, being a fellow Naval Officer has been my mentor and confidant my entire career.
I am looking for someone who is independent and intelligent...someone who has their own view on life. Also, someone I can be friends with and eventually intimate with.

Meet men and women from Monterey, United States. This is the fun part right? Here goes!
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My lifestyle is different because of my military career. I have been doing this for 19 years and I enjoy it. Some understands it and some don't. Finding that someone who does is the hardest part.
I am currently serving in Afghanistan so the traditional dating is out the question. I will be in the Monterey area when I return.
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I lived in Tacoma WA and Stockton CA for a lil bit and visit at least once a month. I grew up in New Orleans so I have that Southern hospitality in me. I strive to be successful in life and try to live my life to the fullest. I enjoy the simplest things in life and don't take life for granted.
I am genuine, open-mined, honest, laid back with a sense of humor, patience, humble, ambitious, goal-oriented, secure, independent, and optimistic. My cup is always half-full.
I love to play and watch sports. It relax my mind. I love going to sporting events, especially a football game. I am a die hard New Orleans Saints fan. I enjoy golfing, playing poker, chillin' at home, and snuggling while watching a movie. I also enjoy traveling, road trips and sight seeing. I have visited Germany, Paris, Holland, Denmark and Italy. I love Asian food and Seafood. What I will do for some crawfish right now! I mainly listen to R&B and some Country occasionally.
I love and adore my 2 kids. I only have them part time so I try to spend as much time with them when I can. They are my precious gems in life. You have to be willing to accept that because they will ALWAYS come first.
I Am Who I Am!
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As I know there are no perfect match, I am looking for someone with similar traits and qualities...to balance me out and keep me grounded...who can make me laugh and relax after a stressful day at work...who enjoys giving kisses and cuddling (a massage now and then wouldn't hurt neither)...who is trustworthy...Trust is very important to me. Without trust, the relationship will never maximize to it's fullest potential.
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I'm an open book. Message me if you would want to know more. I'm upfront and honest.