Date men and women from United States / California / Monte Sereno, 44 year old

Date someone special from California, United States. I'm a woman of integrity welcoming the beginning of a new chapter in my life. I'm adventurous, spontaneous, romantic and enjoy living life with a take the bull by the horns attitude.
There's nothing more attractive than a gentleman of integrity, and him having more or the same attributes as me are more workable.
Based on my recent experiences on Match I'm compelled to include the following:
I have NO desire for a Fling or a Penpal
This time around I want someone who truly love every Essence of Me.
I know my Self Worth.
There will be No Settling.
I don't need you. I want you.
I'm a model. I weigh 138lbs. (30x24x36) I'm a size 0 with curves (yes I do eat) LOL!
This is a good question to ask yourself: If we were out shopping and I went into the dressing room to try on the clothes, (WHERE WOULD YOU BE?) If you wandered off. You Are Not The Gentleman, For ME.
I wear 6 inch stilettos every day except when working out. Cycling on my roadbike is my second love to shopping no scratch that it's becoming my first selfish love.
I cycle the country side at least 3-4 times a week, 40-45 miles a day. It's exhilarating!
Therefore, It's imperative that special 1 for me be physically fit & takes pride in his appearance.
I'm an equal opportunity. Your ethnicity is not a factor. When God created man he created a Great Thing!
I conduct myself as a lady & I expect you to conduct yourself as a gentleman.
There's nothing more sexy than a confident, attractive & romantic man who loves life and sees it as a great adventure.
I have a 25 year old daughter studying to be an orthopedic surgeon & a 17 year old son in his last year of highschool with the desire to be in engineer.
They are needing me less and less. Of course, I miss being that suburban soccer, football & cheerleader Mom.
Also, I wouldn't dare put pressure on you to think that you must complete me (that was a great line in a movie) that's my job to complete myself.
So let's take it slow, get to know each other while building a friendship & hopefully to love like neither one of us have experienced.
My children insisted I try a different approach to dating.
So here I am!
Where are you?
After giving you a little insight on who I am and I don't pique your interest, I truly wish you well in your adventure in finding your bestfriend and lover.
Also, intellectually stimulating conversations speaks volume with me.
All of my pictures are from Jan. 2011- June 2012
(YOU BETTER BE ONE HELL OF A GUY)