Date women from United States / California / Montclair, 48 year old

Date someone special from Montclair, United States. I am a fun loving hopeless romantic who appreciates a good laugh and a kind heart. i live to love. I enjoy an occasional drink but I have a weakness for the tall and handsome. I also love any man who knows how to treat a lady. I work with the mentally disabled and I enjoy my work very much.
I'm looking for a man who will intrigue me. A man who will sweep me off my feet with a simple smile. A man that's not confused but who understands. A man that when we're together, I am the only one in the room with him. Someone who is a gentlemen and who will open my car door and help me with my coat. Someone spontaneous, who will call me just to tell me I am on his mind. A man that's confident and secure. A funny man. Not a funny looking man. LOL I want a man who is genuine, not someone who wants to play a part. I'm not looking for the perfect man, but the perfect friend. :)