Date a man from Montclair, United States. Who we invite into our life as a close friend and lover often is affected by our frame of mind at a given point in time. I am seeking an intelligent, nice and attractive woman who wants a special partner, friend and lover. My relationship will be marked by caring interactions, commitment, and yes, intimacy and passion and lust.
I am a "together" guy -- intelligent, observant, level-headed with good common sense, down-to-earth, positive, non-controlling, supportive, reliable, 6', 195-200 pounds. I'm in reasonably good shape (I jog), which enables me to eat what I want (pretty much). Some might not see it, but I do feel I need to lose 10 pounds. I have been told that I look attractive and sexy. Some women who had a reason to look at my drivers license have remarked, "You DO NOT look 60 years old." Apparently I don't exactly fit the stereotype of someone my age.
My musical tastes are varied. Right now the CD rotation in my car includes Boney James, George Benson, Naturally 7, Atlantic Starr, Billy Valentine, Dinah Washington, Mana, Santana, Bruce Springsteen, Teddy Pendergrass, Rocky Duwani. I'm looking forward to attending the Ravi Shankar 90th birthday concert at Disney Hall in September.
I enjoy doing various fun and stimulating social activities, like attending music concerts (there's lots of great jazz, pop, rock, R and B, reggae and other genres of music at FREE venues), taking short trips (by car, plane or boat), going to plays, boxing matches, cuddling while reading to each other and TV in bed, and other activities that bring us closer together in fun and pleasure.
I have a passion for the work that I do (college teaching, research, writing, and selling investment-grade insurance retirement plans). However, a fulfilled man must have more than work alone. I thrive when I am in a solid relationship with someone who enjoys my company, where there is mutual "chemistry," support, and romance. That type of connection with a woman is truly one of life's special pleasures. Can you relate to it?
I know that happiness is largely something we create for ourselves, so I am seeking a partner with a sense of peace/calm at her core. I want to meet an open-minded, upbeat, emotionally and financially healthy partner, who is height/weight proportionate (not "thick"), to fully enjoy life's pleasures. You must be available for a new relationship, not still stuck on an old flame and using Match as a temporary palliative. Please first resolve your past issues with your ex before contacting me.
Truth be told, when it comes to choosing a lover for intimacy, we all have aesthetic and anatomical preferences and deal breakers. Two idiosyncrasies I have: (1) My preferred partner must take good care of herself (health-wise). My partner must be height/weight proportionate. I am physically attracted to women who are normal weight, who have not let themselves balloon to over 25 pounds overweight. I think usually this may be an indicator of level of attention to her personal health needs. (2) Sure looks matter, as does how a person feels about herself. I prefer a partner who is emotionally secure with who she is and what she looks like, even if she has a few wrinkles and is not a "raving beauty." I like being with a woman who tends toward natural grooming, with limited make-up. My partner must feel reasonably secure about her looks without needing to apply a THICK "mask" of make-up, wigs all the time, and/or false this and that.
I'm certainly not perfect, and I'm not seeking perfection in my partner. But the odds of us "hitting it off" are greatest if you are upbeat, reasonably secure within yourself, professionally successful, comfortable giving as well as receiving, considerate, a good communicator, affectionate and sensitive toward your honey, at least somewhat adventurous/open-minded, and able to function without excessive use of (or dependence on)alcohol or drugs.
I'd like to hear from whoever can relate to this :-)
Meet people from Montclair, United States. I take lousy pix. I enjoy inspirational happenings. Satisfies my need for an actively upbeat lifestyle. No drama..just energy. Lookin for a lady to match this and add to it. One that is open to play as well as working through the ups and downs of life. I like to laugh, snicker, grin and all that comes with enjoying the moment. I enjoy being active and may paint a wall red just to see the reaction it brings. I am self reliant and looking for same. Can't handle a basket case looking for a rescuer. Not enough time in life to deal with negativity. Lookin to build and be built. She has to be able to deal with the energy of curiousity....and exist within the bounds knowing that IT WILL BE ALRIGHT .... Onward and Upward Always !!
Date a soulmate from Montclair, United States. I am a honest and friendly person, hoping to meet the right lady for friendship, companionship or a long time relationship.
I like to enjoy life to the fullest and need to shared those moments in time with the lovely touch of a female.
Meet people from Montclair, United States. I am an easy going guy that would like to meet someone who likes to have fun in whatever we do.I am a one woman man and Honesty is a big part of a relationship. Someone who I can share the good and bad with and who will share with me the same as I do. I am affectionate and caring. No game playing.I may not be the George Cloony type but I am cute!
Date someone special from Montclair, United States. I'm told that I am a bit more serious than average but I can surprise people with my sense of humor. I like many kinds of music but lean towards Broadway and Classical. My granddaughter is a joy to watch grow up.--You know, little funny faced kids (and animals) are such precious, innocent creatures.
I believe in love at first sight but it also can develop slow and sure footed with equal amonts of comfort and respect. My woman would want to be hugged and cuddled. Watch out! I like to be affectionate.
Meet single man from United States. I enjoy, camping once and awhile with my RV, bowling every week, motorcycle riding when the weather is nice, and the ocean. I owned a boat for years until 2010 when my back was making it to difficult to be on the ocean in the afternoon.
I like a woman that is Not loud, believes in God but does not preach or live in church to prove it. Enjoys sports but not to much. Like to cook, trips to Las Vegas (Downtown) once or twice a year.
Camping along the coast up north in the summer and locally when the weather's nice can be fun. I don't do it very often
I really don't know what else to write as this is my first time. My beautiful person wife passed away some time ago after a long i'llness. I have been alone to long now and for the fist time in 30 yrs.. I don't like it.
I am not a foreward guy when it comes to women. Sometimes I need huge hints or a smack in the head for me to make any advances.
I have always been that way. My late wife had to ask me to dance or we would have never met that night.
i have always thought that any attraction / passion has to be very mutual and never pressured.It makes the right moment just that.
It's my best excuse for still being shy until the right lady kick starts me, then i think I make up for not being bold .
I have been told that I'm a very considerate partner.
I love women in general, there softness, there weaknesses and there sexy ways. I like being my lady’s hero, friend and lover. I really love it when a woman dresses for me and I don't mean cheap looking like some men like but with class. I love lingerie and I love the idea of the woman I am with wearing it when we go out but not letting me know it till we are somewhere that I have to behave. Maybe us going out to a nice dinner somewhere and me finding out under the table that she is wearing thigh highs. Wow what a turn on and she knows it by the look in my eyes and something else. That kind of stuff between two people is fun and it drives me the best kind of crazy. I will love it till the day I die. I guess I’m a closet perv. huh? Above all the attraction has to be 50 50 for me.
I do smoke, but I never smoke around others that don't and I have never smoked in my own home. I try to be respectful of others.
Date someone special from Montclair, United States. gi am 5/3 tall ex jockey simi/retired i like drag racin going to laughlin N V las vegas some one talk to ithe morning over coffe very easy going love animals not couch potato always doing projects thats about it
Meet someone special from Montclair, United States. I am an easy going man with a sense of humor. I am financially well off. I am looking for a woman that will form a great relationship with me. I like to have her travel with me to other countries. The most important thing is that we are compatible and can share love and affection together.
Date people from Montclair, United States. I am early retired because of business success. I like to meet a woman that can give me affection, love and be my best friend.
I am well off financially and have been traveling in the Philippines and asian countries. I would like to travel to other countries with someone who likes to enjoy the good things in life. I am the type of man that treats a woman with respect. I have an understanding of most of a womans needs and am flexable to learn more in developing a close relationship and one that is not demanding on either of us.
Meet single man from United States. Thirtyseven years after hi-school I returned to school for my AA in manufacturing technology and drafting. When another economic downturn occured in late 2001, it led to the most rewarding years of my life. I was again at loose ends in early 2002. So I said "the heck with it", and took my family to Silver Dollar City for some recreation. Several citizens suggested i "might fit in around here". This led to nine years as the Santa Claus of The City. Children grew up knowing only that, "On a Silent night, a Holy night long long ago, a Gift was given, and Angels sang, and shepherds came to see. Wise Men brought Him gifts, and every year on His birthday, Santa, who is a Wise Man too, brings gifts to children all around the world, for he knows that each child is a gift af Hope and Joy to the World." For years, infants hung from my beard like ornaments, and parents said thankyou for reminding their children that it is better go give than to receive. Now, it is time to rest, and seek companionship...........
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Meet a soulmate from California, United States. IF YOUR LOOKING/DREAMING OF THAT SPECIAL GUY....THATS ME ! IM WARM,NICE,LOVING ,AFFECTIONATE,PLEASING.OLD FASHION DOOR OPENER,MULTI TALENTED ARTIST,WRITER,SINGER,MUSICIAN,GOOD LOOKING ((( HA ,HA,HA, ))) AND FUNNY ! I LIKE A HAND HOLDER ,TOUCHER,CUDDLER,LOVING PERSON...ALSO I WANT TO HEAR YOUR IDEAS,VEIWS,OPPINIONS,INVENTIONS,AND LOTS OF TALK.( in all honesty, as talented and worldly and wonderful person that my children and my close friends know i am ------im still lonley. ----and thats not easy to say---gary---brakeworld--montclair----it would be nice to have a close partner i could kiss a lot.---im very healthy and much younger than my age