Date men and women from United States / California / Mira Loma, 42 year old

Date a woman from United States. About me... Silly, definitely silly. Love to have fun, but probably work too much. Understand that all things need attention and nurture if they are to thrive -- family, friends, relationships, and most definitely plants. Shoes. Determinedly driven. Reminisce of the days of carefree naivete. Passionate. Enjoy the perspective of a child. Appreciate the challenge of debate. God-Mother/Madrina or better known as 'Nina'. Support the arts: music, film, theater, writing, etc. Loyal. Only drama in my life is picked up at RedBox and returned the next day. Believe lying is a character flaw. Can lounge on the couch and watch football with an ice cold chelada (Tecate, clamato and a splash of lime) or put on the perfect black dress for a night on the town. Real and honest, in that order. Occasionally stop to feel the sun on my face. Affectionate. Blessing counter. Recognize that Now is all there really is... Value friendship; love family. Like to laugh, the good, hard, make you cry kinda laughs. Silly, definitely silly.
Who I would like to meet... Someone that knows how to have fun but can also be serious and is able to determine what is socially appropriate for both, without guidance or an elbow nudge. Whimsical. Able to recommend a bottle of wine (a good bottle of wine, by taste not price). Confident, despises arrogance. Open-minded -- people, religion, life style, politics. Real and honest, in that order. Can pack a bag in five minutes and sleep under the stars. Loving. Not intimidated to share a cigar. Likes to hold hands, tightly. Appreciates an independent woman. Zestful. Recognizes that Now is all there really is... Has an opinion and can articulate it. Baggage limited to carry-on. Strong, in ways not measured by weights. Loyal. Pair of jeans and a tuxedo.
(While I am always flattered by the winks and the notes, this is 'Match'. Please look at my profile descriptors of 'who I'm looking for' and consider if we are a realistic match. One sure indicator that we will NOT be a match is if you have posted a photo in which you are taking a bare chest picture of yourself in a bathroom; it's just weird in so many ways...)