Date men and women from United States / California / Merced, 35 year old

Date a soulmate from Merced, United States. I love to laugh and have been known to be the life of a party, but I have been reserved and I want to meet someone who enjoys that, too. I should probably say something funny to back up this assertion, but it works better when I have someone to banter with. I like men who have goals for their future in whatever interests them, but I need for him to dream a little bit so that he doesn't squash my own like little bugs. Competitive recreational activities should be another avenue that he has an interest for, even if it's just watching. Character (don't care if you have made mistakes so long as you're smarter for them) and a creative nature are pretty high on my hot list.
As for me, I am comfortable enough with myself to know that I want to make someone else's life more fun, less complicated, and be straightforward. I used to think that I needed to be perfect to meet who I wanted to meet but now that I know it's impossible, I really just want to meet a cute man who I can talk to and go do some fun things.