Date men and women from United States / California / Manteca, 38 year old

Date single man from Manteca, United States. Me:
I married my high school sweetheart, we were together 20 years, divorce was final in 2011 (I get asked that a lot for some reason). I won't date co-workers and don’t go to bars - I figure it can’t hurt to try searching online but I assume nothing will materialize and I’ll eventually meet someone at the supermarket or somewhere else when least expected.
I have two great kids and have them 50% of the time including every other weekend (son 16, daughter 14). They are my world there are no issues with their mother – we do everything with their best intentions in mind. I received both my Bachelors and Masters degrees in Finance and recently moved from Finance back to Operations Management at the Winery where I’ve worked for the last 7 years. I enjoy playing soccer and other outdoor activities, attending concerts, and watching movies. Music is an extremely important part of my life and I am always listening to something and have a more diverse taste than most... I also usually update my Headline with a quote of whatever I’m listening to that day… I’m most comfortable in jeans and t-shirts. I was the guy voted best sense of humor in my high school class but if you were to see the pic you’d think it was a typo – I should have won “lamest mullet”! I'm always told that I look younger than my age and know laughter and not freaking out over the little things keeps one young! I also think it helps that I've always been drug free, athletic, eat healthy, and have Mediterranean blood in my veins ;-) I don’t have any tattoos yet but I’m sure I will someday – although it seems like everyone and their grandpa have them so not having any is different and nice... I have an ugly scar on my chest from the result of a bad car accident - and you thought the gratuitous shirtless bathroom pic was missing because I’m a good guy... :)
What I'm looking for:
Of course I'm looking for the obvious - Attractive – both physically as well personality - and NOT CRAZY is a huge plus!!! Also, if you started out life as a dude, sorry, you’re probably not for me but best of luck! :)
I’m looking for someone who’s unique! Who's confident in herself and who she is and doesn't care how strangers perceive her. Someone who can appreciate my sarcastic and sometimes dark sense of humor and has a great sense of humor herself! A great communicator who values honesty and loyalty as much as I do... I don’t care if you’re a homemaker or business owner – as long as you’re balanced in what you do - enjoying today but also being responsible, setting goals, and planning for that early and comfortable retirement! I eventually hope to find someone to grow old with... travel the world and experience all that life has to offer…
For now I'm happy to just browse... may actually pay to join someday... ;-)
"Humility does not mean you think less of yourself. It means you think of yourself less."
-Ken Blanchard

Meet people from Manteca, United States. Greetings,
For starters I have to get this out of the way. I'm not looking for someone who has all the same interests as me. Rather I'm looking for someone who is willing to take on new journeys and go forth where no one has gone before. Although you may not enjoy playing fantasy football, once you get started and feel the excitement of the competition you may be hooked. All I ask is that you give it a shot and if things don't go well well than no harm no foul. That's the kind of attitude I'm looking for in my gal. When time allows I enjoy just taking off in no direction in particular. Although I tend to drift more towards the ocean and those cool ocean breezes, I'm not against trying out a little gold panning or even checking out some ancient burial grounds. I enjoy a wide variety of things ranging from football, swimming, bbqing, just wanting to live life to the fullest. There's nothing wrong with a night at home either. Hitting up good ole Netflix for their latest or heading down to the local red box. One of the most important things I have learned through my journeys, is that both of us will need to be able to communicate with each other. I understand at first we can both tend to be a bit shy at first until we begin to feel comfortable with each other. Honesty is key, even if it can be brutal at times. For instance I am a did hard RAIDERS FAN and if you're not than some good natured kidding will ensue. Just remember what they say about payback!!!!! HAHA. I'll save the rest for later.....