Date men and women from United States / California / Lakewood, 51 year old

Date someone special from Lakewood, United States. Okay, here’s where I, admittedly, may appear a tad less than irresistible on paper (or viewing screen) to some depending on perspective (although I hope you’ll find redeeming aspects), so feel free with arms flailing to run in the opposite direction if the following horrifies: I am recently separated (five months) and have four (beautiful) sons (7, 11, 13 & 14) whom I split custody. My young men are the best thing that ever happened to me, you should know, and I am a loving, involved father. Mon-Weds, I rent a room in a house (Long Beach) shared with a female (lesbian—no sexual tension, perfect) who’s the owner; Thurs-Sun, I live with my sons in the home (Lakewood) that I own while their mother lives elsewhere with her folks (this co-op residency arrangement, at least for the time being, has retained a positive degree of continuity for our kids). Moreover (i.e., in the “questionable-catch” department if you’re still reading), I (primarily) roll in a 1990 Corolla that’s bound to underwhelm any potential date subscribing to the tenet “you are what you drive” (my “good” car is a Sienna minivan also reflective of my former, nobody-to-impress, married life—unlike today, of course, where a late model sedan, restored classic or anything with a modicum of style, might prove advantageous—but hey, both vehicles are paid for, and while I will eventually acquire a better main ride, the Corolla just won’t die).
Putting these disclosures up front may present a risky “Match.com” strategy, I realize. Perhaps, however, if you met me in person you would find plenty appealing. True, in addition to the above, I’m 51 years old—but in very good physical shape (not a muscle-head, mind you, just well-toned—and improving—from working out nearly every day), 150 lbs, 29” waistline, 5’8” in height (yeah, not the tallest guy, either, yet technically not short). Often I’ve been told that I am youthful in appearance. I certainly feel youthful in outlook. Other attributes include having a decent job in Environment, Health and Safety, so despite dual households I can afford to pay my own way and/or treat. Besides exercising at the gym, I’ve been spending once or twice a week figure skating, of all things, because my 7 year old developed a strong interest and, as a result, I’ve become a regular Brian Boitano on ice. I (particularly) enjoy reading fiction and nonfiction. I also write (undergraduate BA in English, UCLA). Last year I completed a first draft of a young adult novel that requires extensive revision and am gearing to return to it. Also, lately, finding more time on my hands, I’ve been seriously thinking about shooting a “no” (not “low”) budget movie on video (tell you more if you ask in person).
I like to think that I am a kind, affectionate, easy-going, loyal friend (I’ve had the same best friend since I was 6 years old), with a sense of playfulness, wry yet optimistic, comfortable alone or in a crowd among all types of people. In restaurants, I can negotiate silverware or chopsticks. Whether ESL or native and fluent, I am open if you think we would be attracted. I’m attracted to every ethnicity (I am “mixed” but you’d probably assume, as others seem to, that I’m strictly white—furthermore, my sons’ mother is from China so consider they are everything: North, South, West and East).
Philosophically, I always say that I do not have to have a lot of things, just the right things. I also like to think that I would rock the right woman. And she me. I don’t kid myself, however, that this would occur with every woman. Just the right one.

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Date a man from Lakewood, United States. I am a surfer who is dependable,loyal,good communicator and listener and fun to be with.I like traveling to new and exotic places.I enjoy the simple things in life.I will not cheat on you.I will not lie to you.Wanted!!!!!good relationship possibly leading to marriage with the right person.If this is what you want from a kind and caring surfer apply within.

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Date a soulmate from Lakewood, United States. Ok so i am new to all this and dont know what to say. I have not dated much in the last few years. I have been spending all my free time with my kids. Now they are after me to start dateing. So I am here.
Well about me.... I dont look my age and I dont act it. I just try to enjoy the moment life is to short. I am a honest person and I hate playing games, too old for that.
I enjoy almost anything and willing to go out and try something new. Its more about who you are with. Not what you are doing.
I am looking for some to hang out with and enjoy each others company and see where it takes us.

Meet single man from Lakewood, United States. where do i start im easy going guy who loves the out doors, bbq's just about any thing, im looking for ltr woman who does loves adventure, you know hiking, taking long walks, and road trips with no destenation, il close for now, talk to you later

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Date a woman from United States. I am a very self motivated person and enjoy every day of my life. Have a great sense of humor and love to be spontaneous. Ride my bike to the beach, go to a movie, vegas or just be home and BQ in a sunny day.
I am greatful of having good health and a great job that pays the bills but it is time to have fun and I am now committed to a new phase of my life. Not sure if this will work but I am now ready to give it a try.
I am looking for someone independent, funny and fun to be around. Someone who makes the best of every second of their life and is willing to share some of the good things that love can bring.
Honestly and integrity are some of the rules I live by and I hope you have the same believes as I do.

Meet someone special from United States. I am happily employed my two children are grown but live at home. I am looking for someone who is employed, able to take care of themselves and who is loving and caring. I love to laugh, enjoy movies, dancing and just about anything outdoors.

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would appriate a companion who can say the same for himself, Although I have many passion in life I have a serious passion for my family and my occupation, what makes me a great partner is the fact that I give my all in every relatilonship, I believe that what you put into a relationship is exactly what you get out of it

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