Date men and women from United States / California / Lakewood, 29 year old

Date people from California, United States. My account is closed (I don't get emails)
and I probably won't be back any time soon. I needed a break from “dating” most men I have come across are not willing to actually date (clearly ready to get laid but even then don’t want to put any effort in to it Lol) I keep getting guys that become serial texters , play phone games, or call Friday at 8pm to see if I wanna “hang out” tonight or worse text at 11:30p. Don’t see anything wrong with this? Well then, sir you have a problem. Maybe I can help. Here are a few pointers on how to date a mature, emotionally secure woman. I'm an optimist; I would like to believe that you just need a little guidance.
1. Texting: it's ok to text daily. Usually during the day because we are at work and can't really talk. We like knowing you are thinking about us. You will NOT seem desperate; don’t listen to your bros. Acting cool … is acting.
2. Phone calls: initiate them if you give a bleep. ThatРІР‚в„ўs how we know you actually care about us and arenРІР‚в„ўt just stringing us along hoping to get lucky. At least 2-3 time per week. If this is too painful then you just donРІР‚в„ўt care enough about her, so spare everyone and move on.
3. Phone games: if you are waiting around to see how long it will take before she calls you… don’t hold your breath. YOU are a man…right? do you feel manly? “Yes” Great! now put on your big boy underoos and pursue the woman like a secure man. Woman receive calls men make them. (See closing statement for further explanation.)
4. “Hanging out” it’s what we did in high school. Now you are a big boy, time to date. This means YOU will set aside time in advance (because I definitely already have plans at 8 on Fri) and YOU will pick a place or activity (because you will be paying for it) at a location near your date partner. We like men that are considerate. After dating for a while women will make this super easy, she will drop a million hints about what she likes to do where she would love to go…that new place that blah blah blah…just listen, we give you all material you need.
5. Texting after 11pm. Seriously?! Do I really need to explain this? Well apparently I do. DonРІР‚в„ўt do it. I don't care if your text was about puppies n rainbows, you just slapped her in the face and called her a BLEEEP. Maybe you really do think this; still not the best approach to getting laid.
In closing, I think most of you men fear “chasing” a woman. Let me remind you that if they aren’t running then you aren’t chasing them. It’s the man’s job to initiate and the woman’s job to reciprocate. If she isn’t returning your calls or text then she doesn’t like you. IF she isn’t initiating the calls and texts then it’s because she wants to wait for a secure man that is serious about her to call. Think of us like 401k’s, we will match your investment.
The fundamental difference between men and woman is simple. A woman can stop what she is doing right now and go have sex with just about any man she chooses, a man cannot. A man will continue to respond to a woman he isnРІР‚в„ўt too crazy about because he is hoping to get laid. A woman will not. Because men do this, woman judge how serious men are about us by how much effort men put into communicating and spending time with us. If you donРІР‚в„ўt call us or take time to plan the date, we assume you must not care that much. Now you definitely arenРІР‚в„ўt getting laid. At least not by a mature and emotionally secure woman.
I’m sure these faux paux attract the crazies by the dozens. stop calling them “psycho chicks” start calling'm “my kinda gal” come to terms with the fact that you obviously prefer woman with low standards (low self esteem). If you are tired of the crazies you're going to have to step up your game son.
I hope this helps you pursue women like the very secure, emotionally stable, manly man that you are. go get'm tiger!