Date someone special from California, United States. Looking for someone cool and easing going. Someone who doesn't fight and wants to make the relationship work.Best Answer
Well, this is definitely a personal response -- I'm sure my ideals are different from many other guys.
So, here goes --
(1) My ideal girlfriend is someone I enjoy being with. That's how it starts out -- two friends spending time with one another.
You don't really think about romance, or have expectations. You spend time with her, and, as time goes by, you realize - "Hey, I like doing things with her. I wonder if this is going to be permanent?!"
At that point, the weightier issues come to play:
(2) Does she view life as I do? Does she believe the Creator is her best friend, and is she accountable to the Creator in the things she does in secret.
(3) What are her goals in life? Does she want to help others? Is she compassionate and kind?
(4) The emotional things which are dear to me. Like music. Does she enjoy bands which have deep, thoughtful lyrics, like Pink Floyd or U2? Or Switchfoot.
(5) Hobbies. I like to hike and drive long distances, just to gaze at the wilderness and timberline. Does she share those passions? Agreed -- we're not going to be compatible in all things -- thus, can we allow one another space, as we do the things we enjoy doing by ourselves.
(6) Communication -- can we express ourselves. Are we understanding one another.
(7) Physical attraction -- you notice I mentioned this last. There's no question that it played a factor in getting us together -- not sex, but there has to be some attraction. A bit of chemistry.
If we marry, we will remain faithful to each other, and our intimacy and the "little" things, such as hugging, or snuggling, will go a long way in keeping us satisfied. If we're going to be married for life, the pleasurable aspect of our intimate lives will take a life of its own, and there's lots of time to learn and explore one another's passions.
(8) Having children. And how we will bring them into the world, and guide them through life. We may have our differences, and struggles, as well. But our commitment to seeing our children grow into maturity will never cease.
(9) Finances. It's something you never think about when you date, but it can be the dividing line when you're married. Especially in these financially challenging times. Does she stick to a budget? Does she buy what she can't afford?
Does she believe in savings? Does she give to charity? Does she believe that money is a gift from Above, and whatever we have is loaned to us, to help us, and to help others -- not to consume us, or make us slaves of the system.
(10) This last part is a bit tricky to explain, because it's complex. On one hand, I want a woman who will support my dreams, and help me to see my weaknesses -- to overcome them, and stay on the path created for me.
On the other hand, I want to help her realize her own dreams, to cover her blind spots, and overcome her own personal struggles, to stay on the path created for her.
Meet a man from United States. hi! I'm currently looking for someone whose is awesome, fun spontaneous. I enjoy meeting new people and exploring new places.
I joined the marines at 17, spent 2 years overseas, and later moved to the East Bay for college. In 2009 I bought a one-way ticket to Asia with my girlfriend at the time and had a blast! Sadly we parted earlier this year so now I'm single again after 3 years. I'm looking for a girl who can travel light and spark interesting conversations. I'm currently running my own business, but looking forward to getting back into the corporate world after finishing an MBA in the Fall.
I'm naturally curious, love reading, and enjoy what most everyone else enjoy....like getting out and having fun. Next month I'm going to check out Burning Man for the 2nd time, which I think is an awesome experience. Before that, I'll be in Napa enjoying the hot springs, hiking Mount Shasta, and visiting a friend's ranch near Chico. Oh, did I mention I have an extra ticket to BM? Let's go!
"Why do people have to be this lonely? What's the point of it all? Millions of people in this world, all of them yearning, looking to others to satisfy them, yet isolating themselves. Why? Was the earth put here just to nourish human loneliness?”
? Haruki Murakami, Sputnik Sweetheart
Date a soulmate from United States. I feel like there is so much to do in life, that there isn't enough time to experience it all. I'm looking to find someone to have a good time with and join me on these daily experiences. I enjoy an occasional happy hour, morning coffee at JC bean cafe, going to the beach, concerts & live music, road trips, bbq's, and anything that involves nature whether that is camping, hiking, forest, and most recently making a garden. I have a awesome job and I'm my own boss where I get to create and build stuff. Im also in the middle of writing a book I hope to have complete by the end of the year.
Who Im looking for:
Chemistry & smart: I looking for someone that enjoys good conversation about the world and life. Someone who is connected to Source and enjoys the simple things. I want a woman who inspires me to grow and be the best I can. A woman who likes to give and receive love and affection. A woman who love to dance and laugh.
Meet single man from Laguna Beach, United States. someone real and has morals. no dirty women who watch that male stripper movie. i am a hard working man who loves his family and wants to treat the right girl the right way. Not looking for cheap thrills
Date a soulmate from Laguna Beach, United States. I am a super positive person with a big heart for having fun and making people laugh. At work, I'm very driven and very much a go getter. I enjoy competition and surrounding myself around other successful motivated professionals. Outside of work, I like to be more spontaneous and go with the flow. After all, sometimes the unplanned nights are the most memorable. I like staying active, eating and cooking healthy during the week, then dining out and trying new places on the weekends. I am looking to meet someone who is just as passionate about sharing great experiences with family and friends as I am.
Meet men and women from Laguna Beach, United States. Hi. Thanks for stopping by, can I take your order. j/k Let me jump right in:
I'm an eclectic mix of qualities and you should be as well: athletic, thoughtful, enjoys solitude, can dance to reggae or punk, had long term friendships with transients, worked in scientific research, traveled and continue to travel, couch-surfer, surfer, worked abroad...
I'm am quite fit trail running, biking the island of Hawaii, backpacking through India, etc. (I once ran a marathon on a whim, signing up the day prior. Oh, and it was straight up a mtn. climbing 6000ft.) I really don't define myself through my athleticism, but I am very active.
Reading should be something that you enjoy. If the last book you read was in college, please move on.
Friends have told me that I tend to talk less but say more.
If you are into clubbing, buying a beemer, bling, or can't make a statement without using "like," please move on, we aren't for each other. If you expect me to put the moves on you the first time we meet, prolley aint gonna happen. I am patient.
If you are open minded, yet grounded, considerate, not money oriented, though self sufficient, we may just well get along.
I come from a very rural/humble background in PA. I have been successful through my hard work and willpower. I'm not really looking for a trust fund child that has been handed everything, though I really won't hold that against anyone. I just do not think that we will connect very well. But who knows??
I have rebuilt the roof on my old home after reading a book (came out better than the neighbors pro job), tended a xeriscape garden for years, nurtured long term relationships, earned a shodan, modified motorcycles, eschewed career paths that paid a lot more, collected books, and ate a 3000 calorie piece of cake.
If you have a child/children, it would have to be a really great connection for me to be interested in pursuing a relationship.
Other: I want to learn more about music. Okay, this could turn off many but I am interested in learning about "classic" country music, i.e. real americana. I want to continue to travel and I don't mean tour bus type travel but getting out and meeting the locals and experiencing the life.
I tend to take on new hobbies every few years, always looking to grow, experience, and experiment.
I think that in the far future I'd prefer to live in an area with a medium size metro but easy access to wide open land esp. mountains. This will be many years from now though.
I'll send a wink to you first so that you can check out my profile. If you'd like to get to know me better at that point, we can move to email, coffee, etc. I know you time is precious(as is mine) and I am here to look for a relationship and not NSA.
Date people from United States. I try to surround myself with good, fun, intelligent and like people that make my days go by with a blast. The most important person in my life is my 12 year old daughter she is the sweetest girl in the world. I try to make everyday fun but at the same time try to learn something new and am open to new ideas.
Meet a man from California, United States. Im funn and active guy I Loking for women it's smart , funn and love life !
I believe in energy and spiruality
Like movies, go out, dance, food ,work and good company
My girl maybe it's you ? Let's meet ..,
Date people from California, United States. I'm a laid back, fun loving guy with a witty sense of humor and a spirited personality!
Outdoorsy/sports minded type who enjoys tennis, cycling, skiing and extreme hikes... I love a good challenge, am proactive, fit and healthy, socially and environmentally conscience, and enjoy an intelligent conversation... With a bit of sarcasm!
I'm always up for a good time and enjoy making new friends... Love to cause trouble (and I do).... Close family friends... And I like a healthy mix of fun nights out and lazy evenings lounging at home.
I look for healthy, stable, sensual women with integrity, ambition and goals... But who don't take themselves too seriously! I like girls who love being a girl, yet aren't afraid to get down-n- dirty when it's time to hit the beach, the trails or the ski slopes... She has to have a playful sense of humor and a taste for travel adventure... Be able to dance... Not be afraid of taking risks now and then... LOVE to laugh... And must appreciate the value of helping others, and taking time to give back to the community! (Giving is important to me)
Physical attraction is a must, and I LOVE to take control in bed, but I'm searching for a healthy connection after the sun comes up as well... Good chemistry both inside and outside of the bedroom is a must! (Why settle for one, when I can have BOTH?!?!)
Meet a soulmate from Laguna Beach, United States. A little bit about me... I'm open-minded. I tend to shy away from people who take themselves too seriously. I'm laid back and driven, all at the same time. I love witty personalities. I absolutely hate humidity; that's why I'm back on the west coast. I'm naturally curious and ambitious, who also puts a high priority on fun. I love seafood. I'd include more but that would take the fun out of getting to know each other...
I'm an honest guy looking for a woman that can hang with me outdoors and then be just as comfortable at the cocktail party come days end. It's important to have a solid work/life balance and that's what I strive for each day. What's life if you don't take the time to look around you?
Basically, I'd like to meet a girl who's easy going, genuine, adventurous, and enjoys being herself. If that's you, don't be shy... Cheers!
Date a man from Laguna Beach, United States. Me- I’m an ambitious, goal oriented, but a laid back and "Happy go lucky guy" with passion for life. I'm athletic, well traveled, and a very well rounded individual. My lifestyle is very balanced (I try really hard) and I hope you do too. I own my own home in Laguna Beach, and I'm extremely content for where I am today. Here are some of the things I love in life, I'll keep it simple... I love purple sunsets, I love the smell of ocean when I come home, I love surfing in the rain, I love traveling the world with one suitcase, I love architecture and design, I love kissing a girl that knows how to kiss, I love when my house is clean, I love waking up with my dog Cosmo, I love my family, I love a girl with a beautiful smile.
You- So what do I look for in a girl? Well, other than the obvious physical attraction, intellectual, and personality. I'm especially attracted to girls that are artistic, healthy, athletic, with a sense of style and individuality; a girl who is happy within herself (very, very important), ambitious, caring, and have a passion to live life to the fullest (we're gonna be traveling the world, so you better have a passion for life!) HUGE plus if you love the coastal life style, I do live in Laguna and I love the ocean.
By the way, I do have a place in Cabo, so if we hit it off... We're going : )
Have a smiling day!
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Meet men and women from Laguna Beach, United States. Adventurous guy looking for pirate queen. Life is short and deserves a commitment to enjoying it. The world is a fascinating place to me, if you feel the same way we'll have some strong common ground.