Date men and women from La Mesa, United States. I'm a romantic at heart and I believe in mystery, in holding hands, candle lit dinners and happy endings.
I'd like my special someone to be an outdoor girl who likes to go on bike rides, she likes skiing and hiking and she doesn't mind getting dirty once in a while. At the same time I'd enjoy taking her to dinner in the city, traveling and dancing and I might be up for a cruise. After all, balance is important and variety is the spice of life!
Speaking of spice, my grown daughters add so much joy. We have a great relationship and these days, I think I'm the one learning from them and that's kinda wonderful.
I love my job as a cameraman. I really enjoy the creative challenge and the opportunity to experience the endless variety that only comes when you are a freelancer. Each day is a new adventure and that adventure takes me all around the country and the world.
Baja California has been a love affair for me and I just love skiing. Spent a few winters in Mammoth and they were some of the best of my life.
So, who is my ideal woman? I'm looking for a partner in life's adventure who is attractive and fun, fit, sweet and sensual and above all, easy going. She's worldly yet innocent and she loves the mystery of life. She also believes in happy endings. Mostly it's about chemistry and spark. If we have the chemistry, we'll have the spark!
Meet a man from La Mesa, United States. Don't walk in front of me, because I might not follow; don't walk behind me because I might not lead; just walk beside me, and be my friend.. I want a friend, a confidant, and a woman to support my beliefs, dreams, and aspirations, and I will support her, and provide a strong wind beneath her wings.
Date single man from La Mesa, United States. Ready to rock with a real man? I still play baseball, run, play music (guitar) and have a rich spiritual life. Besides work in my field, I spend lots of time with investments. My Wii Fit age is 33. My BS was in Chemical Engineering, but now I specialize in entirely other forms of chemistry. I have played in rock bands, played solo coffee house gigs, hiked the Himalayas, dived in New Guinea, explored the Greek islands, done shamanic journeys, started and sold a business, gotten my IFR rating (ask me). All this does not reveal the truth that I am willing, able, and interested in being fully present with you and interested in discovering who you are. That's the real adventure, isn't it? Please be ready, willing, and open to engage in a process of relating on a real level, revealing yourself (with appropriate timing).
I have an 11 year old son who lives with me part-time. Obviously, he is a priority, but know that I am committed to investing my time and attention as necessary to build a thriving relationship, because everyone, including him, would benefit.
YOU are probably between 40 and 60, people tell you they can't believe you are that old, you are physically healthy and fit, and your emotional baggage fits under the seat in front of you. Your harbor is clear, there are no former husbands or boyfriends stalking you, and you are ready and equipped to engage in an authentic, deep, long relationship. How's that for starters?
Want to take a test? This is the physics of attraction test (a work in progress). If you're not having fun with it, you're probably taking it too seriously:
You are physically fit, not overweight, score PLUS 1.
You are not being stalked by an ex, score PLUS 1.
You always turn off all the lights and close your eyes when making love, score MINUS 1.
You think Obama is still a pretty good guy, score PLUS 1.
You listen to Rush Limbaugh, score MINUS 1000.
You are taking antipsychotic medications, score MINUS 100.
You are a religious fundamentalist, score MINUS 10.
You believe that a child can be an enhancement, not a deterrent, to a thriving relationship, PLUS 10.
You like to touch and be touched, PLUS 10.
You have a job/career and are financially stable, PLUS 1.
You have an STD, MINUS 100.
You are over 60, MINUS 1.
You are under 30, MINUS 1.
You like NASCAR, MINUS 1.
You like baseball, PLUS 10.
You start to shake if you don't have a drink for a day or two, MINUS 100.
You like James Taylor, PLUS 1.
You like rap, MINUS 1.
People say you're pretty, PLUS 1.
You have Victoria's Secret in your closet, PLUS 1.
You have Depends in your closet, MINUS 1.
Chew with mouth open, MINUS 1.
Visible tattoos, MINUS 1.
Done time in jail, MINUS 10.
Snore, MINUS 1.
Meditate, PLUS 3.
You say LOL and/or :), MINUS 1.
You are online to see if you can find someone better than your current relationship, MINUS 100.
PLUS 1 if you get this joke: A neutron went into a bar and asked, "How much for a beer?" The bartender said, "For you? No charge.
So...if your score is a PLUS, you have passed. If you laughed out loud, you passed (unless you wet your Depends).
Meet someone special from La Mesa, United States. I have a horticultural background and enjoy plants and natural sciences. I do not have a large social life but like to go out and enjoy dining and dancing.
I enjoy the great outdoors and especially the sierra mountain range. I love all animals and have a few of my own.
Date a soulmate from La Mesa, United States. I like easy conversationabout diverse topics. I like people who have self confidence tempered by a careing attitude. I try to enjoy everyday and consider each and everyone privelidge. I smile when I see someone who has their act together.
Meet people from La Mesa, United States. love to go for a great dinner where i cane see a sunsets or go for a long walk, love golfing skiing
or a weekend trip away a bike ride is allways a lot of fun i still have some old fashioned priciples
Date people from California, United States. I enjoy learning. I find the creative process to be very interesting. This process can be in so many different areas - the visual arts, writing, acting, music, gardening, anything. I have a fine arts background, and have just started to do some drawing again. I like independent films, eating at one of a kind restaurants, talking with friends, gardening, PBS/NPR, yoga, walking, exploring a neighborhood, and music. I am originally from NYC, and have lived in San Diego for the past 30 years.
I just returned from a trip to Ireland and to London. My younger son has been studying at Trinity College in Dublin for the past academic year. It was fun to walk and explore different areas that I found interesting.
I have two sons, and have enjoyed seeing them grow up to be young men. They are both away at college. It is fun to hear about what they are thinking and reading. It has opened up new areas for me.
My photographs were taken within the last year. I have been told many times that I look younger than my age which is 59. Maybe because I am playful and "young at heart".
I would like to meet someone who I enjoy spending time with. That sounds very simple, but that really is the crux of it - you spend time with someone you enjoy being with, and who makes you feel good, and you make them feel good. You are just comfortable. More specifically someone who is kind, funny, intelligent, creative, likes to learn, is open to new ideas and things. I think friendship is a very important part of a relationship, along with good communication, acceptance and of course there has to be an attraction. It gets back to someone you enjoy being with.
If something caught your eye about what I have written, contact me. Know though that I am not looking for an email relationship.
Maybe I will be seeing you soon.