Date men and women from United States / California / La Mesa, 25 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I've been called the Drifter. Also the Shape Shifter, the Master Chef, the Chameleon.
The Problem Child. The Hard One.
The White Indian. The Giant Midget.
If Elvis and Buddy Holly are the Cain and Abel of rock 'n' roll...and Bruce Springsteenis Zechariah...
...Iggy Pop is Methuselah...
...and, of course, Neil Young is the wise prophet Ezekiel...
...then what does that make me?
To be honest I'm not sure what to expect out of this site. I have no agenda and I don't have a check list on what to look for. I don't seem have a type, but I know what isn't my type. It would be nice to meet someone new for a change and who knows...one step at a time right :)
Lil about mE: I live for competition! I have a fitness/competitive edge that i keep dormant until the right time! Theres just something about competition and good ole fashion hard work that makes me feel so alive. For a living I work as an IT Analyst for GD and also i do a little promoting with an event company that my buddy started to keep things interesting. Theres more to tell but id perfer you ask plz.
As far as a first date goes, Im not the type of guy whos going to say, "Hey where do you wanna go?"... Ima take you somewhere nice where we can get to know each other....whether it be with a group of friends or just us grabin a bite!
FYI: Not a fan of girls who obtain a relationship for status! And you know exactly what i mean by that!
I've had an interesting past that has made me see the world a little differently than the average man! ...A Very interesting past!! Go ahead and ask me if you made it this far.
I was raised old fashioned by my wonderful mother. So if opening the door for you, and paying for dinner and being polite seems off to you, please stay in school till you learn!

Meet people from California, United States. I enjoy having a fun time and not sweating the small stuff. I pride myself on treating everyone equally. I enjoy being positive. I just want someone to spend my time with and enjoy all the awesome things San Diego has to offer. Try new things and create some sweet memories.
I believe communication is the most important part in a relationship. I want to be with someone who accepts and understands every part of me. I'm a good person and I just want to enjoy my life. Because it goes by fast.
Things I enjoy: Photography, food, the outdoors, hiking, beach, swimming, art, animals.

Date a girl from California, United States. For the past 2 years my life has revolved around changing diapers, coloring, playing with baby dolls, and watching disney movies. Don't worry I do not have a baby fetish! I am a single mother of a beautiful little 2 year old girl. Of course my life revolves around her. When I am not with her I am usually working long shifts so it is very hard to meet people. I have not dated in over 3 years and am nervous but very anxious to start my new journey.
I am a true country girl. I moved out to San Diego about 5 years ago and soon after regretted my decision when I realized there were no cows or horses here! Im originally from northern California. My nick name is "okie joe". :) Country. I enjoy being outside in the sun staying active. Im very laid back and it doesn't take much to make me happy. My family and friends would say that I give to much of myself to others but thats just how God made me. I enjoy bringing joy to others. I am very close with God and it is extremely important that whoever I date has the same relationship with the Lord. Im definitely not someone that goes to clubs and am not interested in someone that does. Im simple! I'd be perfectly happy staying in and playing board games! I have a corky sense of humor and have been known to break out in song from time to time
What I am looking for in a person most importantly is that they have a relationship with God. A man that can sit in church and pour his heart out to God is simply my prince charming. I want someone that can bring warmth to my life and a smile to my face. I want someone that does not have a problem with staying faithful. I need somebody that makes me laugh and is not afraid to be goofy with me. Somebody that would rather stay in and watch movies and eat ice cream over a night out on the town. I enjoy staying active and would want the same in a person I date. I simply just want a good man! So are you my prince charming?!