Date men and women from United States / California / La Habra Heights, 42 year old

Date a woman from California, United States. I am 5'4" fair skinned Latin American born here in the US, a California girl. I am easy going, playful, adventurous, sensual, funny, and am self sufficient and independent, but still like my doors opened, and treated like a lady. I would like someone who can be romantic once in a while and do little things that show you care. I want someone who actually wants to get to know me! I am a little causious at the beginning until I know your intentions. I am more of a giver and prefer to do the giving and I also do a lot of volunteer work. I really do enjoy doing the special little things for that special person it makes me happy when you smile. I enjoy watching sports, but also enjoy fine dining, dancing as well as the outdoors, walking, hiking, and gardening. I am not intimidated in trying new things, challenges, and enjoy fixing things around the house, but still am a girly girl. I am also a creative person and have painted murals. I like animals of all kinds, horses, dogs, cats even had a bearded dragon lizard that was my daughters which I had to feed meal worms- YUK!
I also keep my daughters separate from my personal life. I am also very close to my family(mom and siblings) and talk to them as well as spend time with them on a regular basis.
I like someone also easy going, stable, who can cook (ok if you can't), is confident and secure in himself and who he is not arrogant! A sense of humor goes a long way with me cause I enjoy laughing (even at myself) and smiling, as long as it is not crude. I am a positive person and I don't get upset easy and would like that quality in a person. I don't like to focus or waist time on negative things or people who complain and do nothing to change the situation. I don't like SMOKERS at all or LONG HAIR on men or MOTORCYCES!! So I am sorry I am not into sitting on the back and going for a ride. That was fine when I was in my twenties but not now. I am not interested in someone who is having a midlife crisis. I want someone who knows who they are!!! I would like someone current on events and that can hold a conversation and who is educated. I am more impressed on how someone treats people then them bragging of what they have. It is great if you are successful and deserve your memberships, toys, house etc, but I am more impressed with a gentle heart and a sincere personality.
Also if you do not have a pic I will not respond and please make it a recent pic as well!! Be honest don't waist my time and I won't waist yours. I am honest and upfront and am exactly who I say I am. You must live in Southern California, I am not interested in dating out of state or Northern Cal Thank you