Date men and women from La Costa, United States. Well…come on over…closer..CLOSER…
This dance we all do…where you look at her… she looks at him…he looks at me…and I look at you…all the while, each of us hoping that the other stops just long enough to allow our eyes to meet and real words to be exchanged in a true, authentic connection, so that we can simply “be” with one another at a particular moment in time, when so much of life is about what SEEMS to be, rather than what “IS”. Well …these things take time…You got time? I got time...
If you are interested in making a friend first, let’s talk, drink coffee or some other beverage of your choice, break bread, laugh, take a walk, do a workout, a hike, and see what happens. –I am looking forward to getting to know a man whose personality compliments mine.. …a man who is passionate about life in general ---and his own, in particular. He’ll have a healthy mind, spirit, and body. Not only does he value communication, he IS a communicator. He lives in flexibility, can laugh at himself and life’s curve balls, and always moves in forgiveness. CHEMISTRY is essential.
Meet a woman from La Costa, United States. I am a middle aged woman who has "been there" "done that" -- now I am heading into this new phase of my life with a positive outlook yet realistic as well. I am successful in my career -- self sufficient and have a 15 year old son who is very important to me and would need to be for anyone I get serious about. I am looking for friendship at the moment -- with no expectations but to find some quality people and spend some quality time together. I love to travel and I am very independent. I am looking for someone who is fun - spontaneous - not afraid to share *feelings* and has a great sense of humor! consider the ideal partner someone who has enough interests similar to mine that we will enjoy doing those together and enough that are different to both introduce the other to new things as well as a life separate from each others. This keeps the magic going. I consider one of the most important characteristics or qualities is integrity and trust in my partner. Someone whom I completely trust and can count on. Living close enough to one another for seeing each other on enough of a regular basis so the relationship can grow.
I think having a realistic outlook on relationships is important. They don't just magically happen. But some people bring out the worse in you and then there are those that bring out the best in you --- you feel it. it feels natural and wonderful at the same time. That is something that I think is mandatory. It is easy to know the difference. Of course physical and sexual attraction is important -- but someday -- all that will be left is the ability to enjoy one anothers company. So that is primary!
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I love being with people who make you feel more alive when you have been with them --- they regenerate your battery. Some people drain it. You know the difference. I love to be with those that make me feel more creative and think outside of the "box" and are willing to consider new ideas - as well as try new adventures. Travel is a real bonus. Whether a short distance (picnic on the beach) to further away --- I love the adventure and fun of sharing those experiences. Feeling comfortable talking about ANYTHING (and I mean anything!) is very important and is the match that lights my fire! It is very sexy to be with someone who is authentic --- and feels comfortable with who they are and asking for help -- if they need it or being ok with you doing the same. My libido is definitely between my ears! :)
Date someone special from California, United States. Sharing important things is what life is all about. I am active,funloving and enjoy life. My favorite things are singing and listening to music,traveling and the arts.I also play tennis and paint. I love cruising and exploring new places or just walking along the beach. I love to entertain and enjoy being with interesting people.
I am looking for a thoughtful, sincere, intelligent, funloving man who can be as comfortable in a tux as he is in jeans or shorts. Interests can be varied but hope he likes good music and the performing arts and enjoys going to them as well as sporting events (tennis, football, basketball,etc). Spontaneity and a sense of adventure are a real plus as well as a great sense of humor.
Of course, I do love going out and having fun, but just being at home curled up by the fire watching a good movie, may be the best way of all to share a great evening.
Meet men and women from La Costa, United States. “Youth is a gift of nature, Age is a work of Art.”
IРІР‚в„ўm here to meet people, experience new things, have fun, and see where it goes. As the saying goes, IРІР‚в„ўll try anything once. If I like it, IРІР‚в„ўll do it again. If not, simply try something else! The key is to keep a great attitude, learn the lessons, let go and keep on keepinРІР‚в„ў on! :)
About ME: I love to smile and laugh, I think it's the secret to a longer life. I love to be around nice people with positive attitudes and good energy. I believe life is way too short to not chase your dreams.
I love lemon drop martinis, and Sunday mornings, reading in bed. I love sunrises, the air at that time of the day; the lack of people and noise, the smell of the dew. ThatРІР‚в„ўs my favorite time to run. I love music, and always have it on when IРІР‚в„ўm up. I run to it, work with it, relax to it, and rev up to it! I know how to use a drill. I am grateful for the adventures IРІР‚в„ўve had in my life. Some favorites have been backpacking through Europe for 5 weeks with a girlfriend, zip lining over the jungles in Costa Rica & swimming in the waterfalls there, dog sledding over 13 miles of snow in Colorado on a pristine winter Dr. Zhivago day. Good stuff!
I was a competitive age group winner triathlete for over 11 years. I have done two Muddy Buddy obstacle races with my daughter in the past few years, and loved the challenge. Some people may find it weird, yet I sure donРІР‚в„ўt! I am a dedicated yogini in search of the perfect handstand!
My parents taught me to be resilient, responsible, dependable, and strong. My Grandfather wrote 22 published murder mysteries, and taught me about the importance and excitement of expanding your mind through reading. My Aunt taught me about caring, loving and family. I am forever grateful for all these lessons, and happily shared them with my two wonderful daughters, who I couldnРІР‚в„ўt be more proud of!
About YOU: What am I looking for in a man? I’m open… he should be happy with himself, be ambitious/like to set and achieve goals, and is as proud of his successes as I am of mine. A man who is protective, fun and openly affectionate.
Other attributes that I find attractive: someone with an easy smile, interested in sports and health, who likes to laugh, someone caring and passionate about life, playful and spontaneous, strong and dependable, understanding and patient.. Someone who will laugh at himself when heРІР‚в„ўs teased, someone I can play with, and who's as grateful for life as I am. Someone I'm excited to talk to, and learn from, and touch.
About US: I believe that healthy relationships are built on true friendship, open and honest communication, mutual respect, and allow for individuality. I’m really excited to find someone who believes “we” are a “team”! Sometimes we will be home bodies, enjoying preparing meals together, and watching some good movies in the evenings. We can spend time going to cultural events, music venues, traveling to destinations that involve sun, sports (and fabulous spa amenities are a plus!) The weekends can be our play time, where we could work out together and spend the day having a great lunch somewhere. Sunday is the “morning in bed” day, reading, drinking tea and just goofing off. We’ll take care of each other, be good listeners, teach each other new things, always have each other’s back, feel lucky to share our lives, families, and adventures (both big and small), and smile, laugh, and play every day!
There you have it! IРІР‚в„ўm putting it out there. Is that a reasonable request? :)