Date men and women from United States / California / La Costa, 49 year old

Date a man from California, United States. Pictures will be coming soon... I'm just busy setting up a profile and honestly do not expect interaction until I have my photos up :)
No player.. Im confident and at ease with who I am, have a good sense of self and love conversation. I have a youthful outlook and not quite as reserved as your typical English guy, Im fun and a bit 'out there'. Although totally trustworthy and very caring, Im certainly not mr average family man, despite having a wonderful son.. there is too much out there to explore and light my fire than to be controlled by the media and stuck in front of a TV all day for example. Give me warm conversation, exploring life, romance and hugs any day.
Ive had my fair share of rough seas in life, but I guess that comes from mastering the oceans rather than choosing to sail on a millpond. Ive done a lot. Oh, and did I say, Im also very in touch with my emotions, am very open and can go anywhere in that area.
Im into most of the usual stuff, music, fashion, nice cars etc. I have my own business which is loosely affiliated to things automotive.
Spent three years living in San Diego.. then two back in the UK. Find myself back here again and looking to meet someone extra special. Life is a pretty clean slate and not having any ties Im open to anything.
Prefer quirky, arty, bohemian, eclectic, unusual, or even a bit of a fruitcake to regular girl. lol Anyone whos open minded with a bit of character.