Date men and women from United States / California / Indian Wells, 44 year old

Date a man from Indian Wells, United States. I'm a total goof who likes to laugh at/with life and all that comes with it. I just don't like going through life by myself. Since I am not big on hitting the bars, and most of my friends are either much older or married, it's not easy meeting people that I want to spend time with.
Unfortunately, I'm picky as hell! I have yet to meet a woman who is my age that doesn't make me feel like I'm sitting with one of my mother's friends. We just don't relate. I'm a young soul. Haven't changed much except learning from my mistakes.
I'm a definite animal lover (seems to come up a lot in people's profiles). Spent a good amount of time in New Orleans after Hurricane Katrina doing search rescue for the humane society. Best days of my life! Period
I would love to simply meet someone on Match that wants to enjoy the simple things in life. Well spent time. A great dinner. A weekend away. Or doing nothing at all. I'm not difficult.

Meet a woman from Indian Wells, United States. Hi My name is Barb. Im not really sure what I am looking for on this site. I would like to meet new people, perhaps even something that grows to become more serious. I'm kinda shy at first but get to know me and that will change.
“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.”
? Marilyn Monroe