Date single man from California, United States. I am easy going , confident, smart , well adjusted .. good sense of humor , . ..I'll tell you everything when we talk .. I find I have strong liberal values ..community and social issues that were developed in my Canadian upbringing .I don't need to be the boss and prefer equal involvement in setting up a date or organizing the garage .. Not a caretaker but certainly don't need a babysitter...I am independent but not a loner .. My perfect Match ..if you exist will either be just like me or entirely the opposite .. You will represent every female in my life from my Mother to my Hollywood fantasy girl..You will be smart and strong ..but still be afraid of spiders and lizards.. still have a few things left to do in your life but be satisfied with where you are .. Be long enough away from your last love that you can get involved..but not so long you have given up hope..You will have a history of longer term relationships .. I am not looking to Date ..I am looking for a relationship..deep ..involved..passionate , I don't really have a "gotta be" list except there are a few No-No's .. You can't be a smoker.. kissing is just to much fun without the ashtray effect .. You have to be of open mind and heart.. if we get into this it shouldn't be half way .. And please be both bright enough to help me finish the Sunday crossword and strong enough to be opinionated ..I have been out of an 8 year relationships for a couple years letting my emotions settle and get ready for a new life.. There are many things we all do... but all they are is what you do. More importantly I am interested in what you are , what you have to say and how you think... That's how we will discover each other . I hope to find someone with a sense of adventure. To take a boat and travel the coast and the Caribbean..or a motor home across America or sail around the Mediterranean ..are you up for that ??? Life has changed recently .. I have experienced another mid life crisis I suppose as I have bought an older boat and I am now a liveaboard .. so you had better like boats
As I age I seem to develop tastes for fine things like good scotch or good wine in small quantities.. The little things like Grandchildren rather than the stuff we collect in suburbia are more treasured now ..An afternoon watching the pelicans .or breakfast with a good friend .
Recently diagnosed as Type 2 diabetic I have made changes in diet and worked in therapy to get off all meds in less than 6 months.. .. now I have subscribed to a personal trainer and rejoined the gym with the goal of losing weight toward a higher level of fitness as my final smack down to that condition.. I have a few pounds to lose but will be close by spring of 2012.. Gluten and dairy free diets mean I have to pick and choose more carefully when dining out .. that and cut back on enjoying single malt Scotch .. other than that I expect to live to be 100
Photos are recent .. main photo from webcam Aug 2011, fishing Christmas 08, suit was wedding Aug 08 ..