Date men and women from United States / California / Hesperia, 42 year old

Date men and women from Hesperia, United States. i am a mom of 2 wonderful kids...... ok who am i kidding my son is 21 my daughter is 18. Its so sad i miss them being little...... i love the beach the river the mountains... i love going off roading and am willing to try anything once hoping i will love it and get to do it again!!!! please feel free to ask any questions!

Meet people from Hesperia, United States. I was married for almost 17 years and we are still great friends. I have been divorced since 2008. I have 3 boys and yes, all from the same dad! LOL! My oldest has moved out recently and my middle son is only here half the time. It is pretty much just me and my 9 year old. I work as an In Home Behavior Therapist for children with special needs, part time due to budget cuts. I am in Graduate School and am working on my MA in Counseing Psychology, getting my MFT & LPCC licenses. I never intended on going to college but I am motivated to have the life I want. If I want to be the person I desire, and to help others on the level I have a passion for, I need to have a higher education. I am not a career student.
I like to stay active and workout on a regular basis. I would like to find someone that cares about their health and fitness. He does not need to be a health nut but if he is not active and ambitious we probably would not be a good match. I love to cook, love to eat and dine out. I love all kinds of foods and will try anything atleast once. I have been on a major sushi kick lately, YUM! I love my sweets and comfy foods. I cheat way more than I should but work hard to keep it off. I know you cannot tell from my pics but I have struggled with my weight my whole life. It angers me when SOME guys do not see past the body package and don't look at the inner beauty of a woman. I have been on both sides and have seen the treatment difference. I very rarely drink but enjoy wine tasting and may have a froo froo drink a few times a year. I prefer a partner who does not drink or like me, just once in awhile. If you have to have your daily beer, I'll pass. I do not want to date a smoker, not even if your "trying to quit." I love to kiss, am very affectionate and just can't stand the smell or taste. I know, I'm so picky! LOL!
I have been discribed as "real" and down to earth, loving, silly, passionate, loyal, spontaneous and funny. I can also be very serious. I enjoy long in depth talks. I have a good head on my shoulders. I am easy going and get along with most everybody. I have been told I have a good personality. I have a good sense of humor and am always smiling. I love to laugh everyday. I am a loyal person and am looking for the same. I am not looking to be anyone's "booty call" so please do not contact me if you are not interested in a potential relationship. I am too old for game playing and just want to find someone to grow old with and have a lot of fun doing it! Yes, I want to re-marry so if that scares you, BOO! :)
I enjoy going camping, sitting by the campfire, riding quads, 4x4, river (water), watching my kids play baseball and I absolutely love traveling and weekend trips. I love to go shopping and explore all the stores and antique shops where ever I travel too. I hope you like that too! I am a sucker for music and the meaning of the lyrics. Getting massages are my favorite thing in the world. I give a good one too. I like to stay busy and love being on the go. I am pretty handy for a girl (haha) and like home projects. Common sense has a lot to do with fixing and installing things.
I am looking for a guy that will not only compliment me but "complete me." It may sound "corny" but I am a hopeless romantic. I want a guy that will show me respect, open the doors for me and even carry my purse! That is such a turn on and warms my heart! I am old fashion that way and would love to find someone who treats me like a lady all the time, even when we are in an arguement. We do not always have to agree and yes I can agree to disagree. lol.
I am looking for my soul mate if there is such a thing. I want a best friend, companion and lover all in one. I want to be able to share all of me with him and vise versa. I want someone who is trust worthy, loyal, funny, passionate, good work ethic, moral and is great at communicating. No lazy guys please! :) I do not like liars or games