Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am one active guy! It seems every weekend is a new adventure or activity. Not like "I kayak everyday, scuba every night, mountain climb every weekend active". No. I love to cook and there isn't one kitchen gadget I don't own, visit with friends, travel, see new places - and often combine everything into one trip. I am gregarious, but at the same time I turn off the phone in the early evening. Since I work from home, and have no office mates, I am ready for some human contact by the weekend. They certainly know me in the wine country! I'm wired to be in a relationship - it's where I do my best. Oh yes I'm plenty happy alone, but I just do well in a relationship. I am extremely monogamous and expect the same from my mate. I want to spend my time with someone, not just know they are available. My life and my activities, as well as yours, are for us, not for when it happens to work. I am complex. I can't paint. I can't play an instrument. I can sing, and I can write. I have millions of questions. There is no social scenario you can put me in that I can't fit and somehow connect with people. I have long ago conquered the business world, top of the heap, and not shy to go toe to toe with any captain of industry. But now I'm out of that and enjoy peace without having to be the alpha dog. I motorcyle. I boat. I fly. I journey. I make things happen. If you enjoy the sofa...you may not be the right person to share time with me. I only drink decaf. And I have no idea where I will end up. May not be in the US. I've been to forty countries and know my way around, and I know there are options. I don't do drama - period. I don't have mean people in my life, or negative energy. No turmoil and no issues.
I have been:
Homeless
Film editor
Television director
Record producer
Entrepreneur
Inventor
Triathlete
Senior Executive
Mechanic
Pilot
Motorcycle racer
Writer
Speaker
Politician
Door-to-door encyclopedia salesman
and so much more.
I want a partner. I mean a real partner in life. Not someone to just go through life with, but someone to stand shoulder-to-shoulder and live life with! Where the sum of the parts equals more than the two as individuals. I have decades left in me, active decades where I will be doing amazing and exciting things. Life will get as mundane as we allow it to get, and mine has never been mundane. We have plenty of time to start all over and create something new ? as a team! Want to move to Costa Rica and open a small resort? You run the land side and I?ll run the marina. No? You prefer to get a ranch in Tucson and see what we can make of it? Oh ? so Italy is more your taste ? that?s fine with me! But whatever it is let?s make it a life adventure and do it as partners. To pull this off you need to be smart, healthy, energetic, and full of a thrill of life and a love of every minute. I am! Relaxing is certainly a part of my life, but not boredom nor empty time. I am away every weekend on some small adventure, or visiting friends or attending some fun function or hosting some party or?or?or? sitting on a mountain top reading a book for hours without pause. Hey ? I?m easy to fall in love with! Just ask my dog. Why? I am the embodiment of a fairy tale man in terms of romance. What really counts though is that I am the real thing when it comes to a relationship. I am 100% committed and devoted. I bring flowers and cards all the time. I give emotional support like you have never imagined. Remember the partner thing? I am part of your life, not just a visitor. I'm a great communicator and will freely talk about my feelings with no fear of expressing intimacy. Darn! There's more to say and no room! Write me for the full story!
Meet single man from California, United States. Living life with ease, laughing and seeing joy in the mundane as well as in the extraordinary describes my life. I feel comfortable with myself and enjoy my own company. This is a good thing because wherever I go or whatever I do; there I am.
I treat others as I wish to be treated and believe in integrity and honesty. To me an open mind and an open heart are very sexy.
Although I am happy and my life feels fulfilled, there are times I miss true intimacy, as I find sharing in a close connected way pleasurable. Perhaps with a woman with a warm heart, who also can be a bit naughty?
I believe life is about sharing and that laughter is the fountain of youth. I appreciate all aspects of life and live with gusto, but I don't take myself too seriously. A good sense of humor is essential.
After living twenty years in San Francisco, I recently moved to Grass Valley, from a busy urban street to a dirt road in the woods. I love it here, returning to nature feels right.
I have one question...are we there yet?