Date men from United States / California / Grass Valley, 33 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. I want to have fun and start doing the things I should have been doing the last few years. I am looking for someone that is looking for the same and be able to relax at the house or head out for an adventure.
I have started working with artists in the music industry. Many of my freinds are in bands so it helps if you like live music and don't mind a quick trip to LA, Reno or Chico.
I consider myself fun to be around, I'm a bit sarcastic and try to find the humor in most situations. What I lack in rippling abs I make up in smiles and laughter. I am very level headed and mellow. Some have said too mellow, I'm not one to scream or shout...if there's an issue, I will ask and we can talk. Once talking turns to screaming and yelling, the most important facet is lost and that's listening.
There are a few things I'd like a possible partner to have:
A) a job
B) a sense of self worth
C) ability to know the differences in your, you're, there, their and they're
I'm not overly picky but please be a productive member of society.
I have a 5 year old son, he is my everything. I have him almost 50/50. He is first and foremost in my life. If that's an issue then please look elsewhere.
Things I am into :
Music
Movies
Outdoors
Motorcycles
ATVs
Zombies
Football-Patriots (Since 87 mind you)
Hockey-Avalanche
Baseball-Giants (Since 84 not 2010)
Concerts
Coaching youth baseball and soccer
Cooking
A short list of turn offs:
Trying to take a moment to talk about our lord and Savior Jesus Christ
Drug use
Alcohol abuse
Marriage=man woman
That's enough explaining for now. Hope I haven't sent you running away. If you did stick around, hit me up some time. I'm always looking for a good conversation.

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