Date men from United States / California / Goleta, 31 year old

Date someone special from Goleta, United States. Would like someone to compliment this 'simple country mouse' here in the city. I have been in the city for years but still maintain a small town mentality.
I grew up on the East Coast and lived in many states from there to here on the West Coast. I have met many people from many walks of life and am open to what can be offered from the differences in life. Everybody has something to offer and I enjoy finding out what that is.
I am a twin so I have always been a little shy and hesitant in meeting new people. I become comfortable in new environments fast as I love new things and having fun; I just am not the biggest fan of doing things by myself.

Meet single man from Goleta, United States. I like to stay active and have many interests but I am mostly passionate about food. I enjoy cooking and my friends and I have regular dinner nights. I staged at a restaurant for almost a year just to see what it's like. I work for a technology company but I also am involved with PR firms to test and promote products; mostly outdoors stuff. My room looks like the inside of an REI.
I like discovering new bands and musicians but I have no problem listening to Top 40. I don't really care if a band is in Rolling Stone or Pitchfork.
I like to ask a lot of questions and am am very curious about things. I read - a lot. I have an insatiable appetite to learn things. I read almost exclusively non-fiction books. I am interested in why people do things. Human nature. Books like Freakonomics, Outliers (and other Malcolm Gladwell books), Good to Great interest me. I do read fiction once in a while. I didn't like Twilight but thought Hunger Games was good.
I like people who takes responsibility for themselves and their actions. I don't like hearing "what's the big deal?" I can't stand it that nobody uses their turn signal anymore. Am I alone here?
I am looking for someone who is honest and is able to give constructive criticism but also is willing to take some; someone who is always looking to learn and improve themselves. I want someone who cares about other people and the world we live in. I want someone that is independent but also appreciates the time we spend together.

Date a man from Goleta, United States. some who looks pay my disability who really gets to know the real my. and who understands the way things are and who keeps a open mind. who takes the time to really listen and who thinks of others first and puts them self second when it comes to other peoples needs.