Date someone special from California, United States. THE BEST KEPT SECRET AROUND. I am easy going, with a gentle sense of humor, not sarcastic or demeaning. I play Blues Guitar when the mood strikes me. I rarely drink alcohol and if I have a drink now then, so what. I have not gone to bars or clubs for a long,long time. I am discreet. Idealy, My Match would want to be with me. I am not the jealous or possesive type. I am looking for a monogamous relationship. I believe people need time together to grow together, and time apart fo appreciate that time together. "Friends before Lovers" is my motto.I will probably drop off the radar fairly soon. I am not desparate for that special person in my life, just hoping to find you.. How about you?